My wife divorced and stayed calm for more than a month. She's still not answering her phone or returning messages. What should I do?

1. Give her time and space: Although you may feel anxious and uneasy, it is important to respect her decision and the time she needs. Try to avoid exerting pressure or forcing her to communicate with you, and let her handle her emotions independently.

2. Send a short and gentle message: Although she may not reply to your message immediately, you can try to send some short and gentle messages to express your concern and love. This information can include support, encouragement, understanding and apology for her, but care should be taken to avoid overemphasizing her position or needs.

3. Seek professional help: If your wife is experiencing emotional troubles or difficulties, you can consider seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling or psychotherapy. These professionals can provide more specific advice and support to help you cope with difficulties together.