Heart to heart of left-behind children

A record of left-behind children's heart-to-heart talk (1):

Tags: Left-behind Children, Education

Education classification: interview records

Object: xx (guardian of Huang Jiuyang, deputy secretary of Longwanggou Village Committee)

Location: xx home

Time: 20 * * 1.27.

Me: Hello, Secretary Huang, are you busy?

Huang: Sawing wood. When did you have your holiday?

Me: the ninth day of the twelfth lunar month. Does Huang Jiuyang live in your home at present?

Huang's wife: Yes. He lived in Shiyan's uncle's house for several years, and now he lives in our house.

Me: Don't his parents usually come back? How often do they contact?

Mrs. Huang: Under normal circumstances, don't come back unless there is anything important. He (Huang Jiuyang) has his own mobile phone, and his parents call him every few days.

Me: I see, but will bringing a mobile phone affect students' study at the moment?

Huang: It's more convenient this way. Actually, it's nothing By the way, I heard that you are doing an activity at present. What is its essence?

Me: You heard it! We plan to carry out holiday study and counseling activities in Longwanggou Primary School this summer. We can teach them English, extracurricular knowledge and so on.

Huang: This is a good thing.

Wife Huang: Yes! You can also teach them to sing and dance.

Me: Aunt, this proposal is very good.

Huang: So are you promoting or not? ...

Me: We just want parents to know about this activity now and get your understanding and support.

Huang: This is necessary.

Me: I hope Huang Jiuyang can attend. Your home is quite close to school.

Huang: OK. Can those junior and senior high school students also participate?

Me: Well, of course, if they want to.

Huang: Actually, you don't have to work so hard. You can write a letter to the parents and ask the children to take it back.

Me: Indeed, it's a good proposal. I look forward to your support then.

Huang: Yes, yes.

Me: Goodbye! Thank you again for your understanding and support.

Summary: My uncle and aunt gave us a lot of valuable advice and made our home visit easier.

A Record of Left-behind Children's Heart-to-Heart Talks (Ⅱ);

Tutor: xxx

One day, Sirou's parents came to me and said that her daughter was timid, obedient at school and hardworking. At home, she always finishes her homework before playing, and her academic performance is good. It is sloppy homework, never checking it after writing, and losing points in the exam. Her father works in other places, and I am in poor health. The child is still sensible and often helps me with housework, but because I spoil her sometimes, she just won't listen when I ask her to finish her homework.

Take measures:

First of all, it is recommended that students' mothers:

1, this child has many advantages, so every time you want to suggest that she check her homework, you might as well praise her for one advantage first, and then tell her that it is a good habit to finish the homework check. A good boy should form such a good habit.

At the beginning, she was not allowed to check all the homework or the whole paper. But when you found out what problem she had made, you didn't directly point it out. Instead, you suggest that she check a few questions before and after this question, so that she can find the mistakes and correct them herself, and gradually develop to let her check all the homework or the whole paper.

If you find any change in your child, please tell me immediately.

Second, talk to children.

In view of the child's timid characteristics, I found her and whispered to her, "I learned from the teacher that you study hard and your academic performance is good." I observed and checked your homework, and found that many of your simple questions were wrong, mainly because your homework was not checked, right? "She said," yes, I never check my homework. So our teacher and my mother often criticize me. " I guided her: "You are a good boy, you listen carefully, and you help your mother with housework at home. If you can get into the good habit of checking your homework, so much the better. You can do it! I believe you! " She nodded and reached for me. Because of her timidity, I asked her to report to my ventricle once every Friday to exercise her courage.