A letter from my mother to my high school daughter.

My daughter is already a high school student, and my parents are also worried about their children's growth experience and their daughter's academic performance, so I write a letter to my daughter. Below I sorted out a letter from my mother to my high school daughter. Welcome to reading.

A letter from my mother to my high school daughter.

Dear baby:

You are happy! I want to write to you again with a pen. Don't worry about my mother's wordiness. Everything I do for you stems from my mother's love for you, in order to make you happier and happier! However, because my mother hasn't been home yet, she often makes such and such mistakes. Your daughter, more educated than her mother, will forgive me a lot!

Let's start with the unpleasant communication last week. First of all, I sincerely apologize to my dear child. Anyway, I shouldn't be furious anymore. What a low-level mistake my mother made again. Many times I want to punish myself! Ever since you were so big, every time my mother lost her temper with you, it took a long time. Why are you such a grumpy person?

In this world, since my daughter is my favorite person, why am I the one who hurts her the most? I know this may be due to the sequelae of childhood domestic violence, or genetic factors, but after all, I am an adult! Stop making excuses and try to correct it later! Make mistakes again, admit mistakes and correct them? I believe my mother will be more and more perfect. You should have confidence in me as I have confidence in you. All right, baby?

The reason why my mother is angry is that she sees that the monthly exam is just around the corner, and you still have leisure to listen to songs online, mistakenly thinking that you are a lazy, unproductive child who doesn't know what to do and doesn't try to seize the opportunity. In fact, what's wrong with combining work and rest? In all fairness, although my mother has some shortcomings in cultivation, her greatest advantage is that she goes all out to do everything, tries to tap all her potential and creativity, and pursues perfection and the best! Don't leave any regrets for yourself. Don't make one? Almost? Sir, that will waste energy, feelings and time just like not working hard. I believe that if you are smart, you will understand your mother's good intentions more and more, cherish your life and not waste precious time.

If you want to have no painful regrets in the future, you must work hard and spare no effort in the golden age of youth, and really enjoy the hard and lonely learning process of blood and sweat, not to get good grades and get into a good university, remember, son? There will be no pie in the sky? Good thing! Think about which university you will be in two years. Is it your ideal? And which university will your classmates and good friends go to? Would you like to? If you think more about these problems, you will have fewer regrets in high school these years.

That's a brilliant move. My mother used to think so. I still often think about this question now, but it has changed a little: what is a more meaningful and valuable life? How can we not waste our time and regret when we are old? So although my mother is almost fifty, she still has ideals and pursuits, and she really put them into action. Maybe I am the kind of woman who will be curious about knowledge and new things until her death. This is genetic, grandpa is such a person, and I believe you are such an excellent girl!

Life is short, only a few decades. How much time can you have without eating, drinking or sleeping? How can you waste money? How can you be content with mediocrity? As a person, how can you only pay attention to material enjoyment? Pigsty? Life? Of course, mom doesn't want you to study and not enjoy life. She just wants to get high marks and become a learning machine. But I hope you will study hard at school, have no distractions and be infatuated; When playing, I was full of excitement, flying in the sky and feeling refreshed. Mom is not a madman who only knows work, and she also opposes a lifestyle that takes work as the whole and lacks life interest.

However, when you are laying the foundation for the most critical study in your life, you should try your best to restrain your fun, adjust your focus and consider learning as much as possible. Because you will have a lot of time to play in the future, you will be much more relaxed when you go to college, and you will be more comfortable at work, especially after retirement, you will have decades of spare time for you to kill! Look at those retired old men and women downstairs. How boring! There is no chance to struggle and make a difference. Therefore, the greatest wisdom in life is to grasp the most important things in each period and do them well, because? It's now or never, can't it be lost again? .

For example, mom, although she loves her work very much, when you are at home, I still put taking care of your life and study in the most important position, and work takes the second place. Don't I get it? Win-win? The effect? Now that you are in high school, it's not too late for me to go all out to work! But if I only worked or patronized myself when I was a child and didn't care about family education, would there be any chance to make up for it when my children grew up and felt that they were wrong? Never. Because at that time, everything about children has been finalized. Just like Li Wenqi, will her IQ be worse than yours? Your aunt studied better than her mother when she was a child! Her father went to a four-year undergraduate university in Beijing, which is much better than yours. The reason why she has poor study habits and living habits now is because of the lack of family education in the most critical education period when she was a child. So some things can be made up later, and some things will never have a chance.

? How many beats can life have? ! When the opportunity of hard work and competition comes, we must go all out without hesitation and try our best to seize it! As long as you try your best, you will lose the opportunity and have no regrets. Just like my mother once took an examination of civil servants and graduate students, although she worked hard, she still failed. But mom never regrets it. Because a lot of things are? Man proposes, God disposes? Yes! All we can do is. Looking for something? . If you work hard, the chance of success is 50%; If you don't do it, the chance of success is zero.

Therefore, although the placement you are facing now is not a big deal, it will definitely have a great impact on your high school life in the next two years. It's not a bad thing that freshman didn't enter the intensive class. Because there must be a lot of discomfort when you leave home for the first time. If the study pressure is too great, I'm afraid it will do more harm than good to both body and mind. But now that you have adapted to high school life, you should sprint to the experimental class. Otherwise, due to the differences between teachers and classmates, you may get twice the result with half the effort in the next two years, just like the differences between No.1 Middle School and No.3 Middle School, No.1 Middle School and No.36 Middle School.

Can you say that Shen He didn't work as hard as you? Not as smart as you? So, son, don't make any excuses for yourself. Now you must make up your mind to get into the intensive class! Just like when you were a child, you took part in piano competitions and exams. Go all out. I believe the victory must belong to you! You have always been a blessed child, with a good personality, right? But don't feel any pressure. If you don't pass the exam, you will fail again. Remember: no exam is decisive for your life, including the college entrance examination. ? All roads lead to Rome? 、? Since God has given talents, let them be used! ? We should also adjust ourselves to our own spiritual victory method. Mom is full of confidence in your future! Your father and I are so serious and enterprising, how can there be children who are not enterprising? But if we must choose comfort and mediocrity, we can't help it. After all, we can't study for you and live your life. Your life is still up to you! Then we will love and understand you as always.

Besides,? Struggle? Is it the hardest? Depends on what you think. In my opinion, playing cards, playing games, shopping and chatting online are the hardest, most boring and time-consuming things! Reading, writing, listening to music, preparing lessons and attending classes are my greatest enjoyment! How meaningful and valuable it is to help more children become adults while making themselves happy! Mother likes her education more and more now. Teachers are really the most glorious profession in the sun! Because it concerns the future of the country. If every teacher had my idea, we might have surpassed America! Ha ha! I am more and more aware that the nobleness of human nature is mainly reflected in the perfect pursuit of the spiritual world, the cultivation of the soul and the endless thirst for knowledge. This is the most shocking eternal beauty, son! Such a life struggle process will be your memory and pension capital that you will always be proud of, otherwise you will have no face to educate your next generation in the future.

Although my mother has experienced many ups and downs in life, I have always been full of love and gratitude for life, taking every minute of my life seriously and cherishing every minute. That's why everything is beautiful now: favorite job, doting on her husband, excellent and lovely daughter, lovely students? If I had just graduated and was content to teach in rural primary schools all my life, how could I have everything now? If you are content with material enjoyment like other teachers who have evaluated senior teachers, and don't work hard, let alone think about evaluating super (of course, the biggest role of evaluating super is to tap the educational and teaching potential that I can't even think of myself), how can you have a young and passionate life now? Once a person has no spiritual pursuit, just like a walking corpse, evil, surly and philistine will suddenly arise on his face, and his face will be disgusting, disgusting, miserable and terrible? As Lin Qingxuan said in his The Makeup of Life:? The deepest thing about makeup is to change temperament, read more books, appreciate art, think more, be optimistic about life, have confidence in life, be kind-hearted, care about others, love yourself and have dignity. Such people are not ugly without makeup, and makeup on their faces is only the last small thing in makeup. I use three simple sentences to explain that third-rate makeup is face makeup, second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup, and first-rate makeup is life makeup. ? So a woman whose mother loves beauty so much just wants it for beauty? Life is endless, struggle is endless? Ah! Ha ha!

In fact, as a post-90s child, you are excellent. Most of you born in 1990s are only children, and you are used to being only children. Therefore, you are more self-centered and will not consider others, let alone your responsibilities as a social person. These are very serious problems.

Although what I said may not be listened to by your current experience, my mother still wants to tell you seriously: no matter how talented and capable a person is, if he does not consider his own life value and social value, it will be a shallow, narrow and boring life. That kind of life is equivalent to being wasted and meaningless. As high flyers of Xuzhou No.1 Middle School, he must have the most basic social citizenship consciousness. Such children are the atmosphere and can become the pillars of society. Even though you may not be outstanding in school, you will have a bright future. You must be such a child in the future! This is by no means flattering. As the saying goes, look at the old at the age of three, and look at the old at the age of seven? . At an early age, you showed different sympathy from other children.

Alas, it's a lot of nonsense again! But health and happiness are the foundation of everything, so we must put health and happiness first!

Wish the baby: Happiness will always accompany you!

XXX

A letter from XXXX. X's mother gave her high school daughter the second part.

Dear Yao Er:

Hello!

Today is Christmas, people say that Santa Claus will bring presents to children, and mom will bring you a special New Year gift, that is, write you a letter. I hope this gift can give you wings of love and let you fly easily and happily in the sky of knowledge.

When I picked up the pen, my mind suddenly came up with the growth process of my son 18 years. Since you were born, mom has been proud to have a daughter like you. Since childhood, he is clever and sensible, clever and kind-hearted, ingenious, good at singing and dancing, able to draw guzheng cross-stitch and know how to be polite to others, and has been praised by many relatives and friends. From primary school to junior high school, you have always been a diligent child, and your academic performance has been continuously improved under the education of teachers. My mother is gratified by your every progress and every achievement. Senior three, the college entrance examination is in a few months. My son studies harder and goes out early and comes back late. When he got home, he still forgot to study, often stayed up late and concentrated all his energy on his studies. He really tried his best to improve his academic performance.

Yes, Mel is a good boy who studies hard. Compared with you, I feel guilty about being a mother recently. It was when you came home last weekend that I should have stayed at home with you, but my mother's best friend called and said that my friend hadn't had a party for a long time and invited me to her house for dinner. I went shopping after dinner, and it was already afternoon 10 when I got home. When I got home, I regretted it. The college entrance examination is coming, I got together with my friends and came home late. This is very wrong. Today, my mother will sincerely apologize to you: sorry, my mother will definitely not do this in the future. My mother is not a good mother. Please forgive my mother. My mother knows that she is wrong. I promise that besides going to work and exercising, I will spend all my time with you and create a good environment for you to study with peace of mind with the warmth of my family.

Dear son, the horn of the college entrance examination has sounded, and my mother wants to tell you first here. There must be no pressure, as long as we study hard according to the teacher's arrangement, no matter what the result is. Mom is very happy. You are already a child who studies hard. What can mom regret? There will never be pressure with my mother here. I believe you will make good use of the remaining months, make a good study plan scientifically and master all the knowledge you should master under the guidance and education of your teacher. Mother's only hope is to remind you to pay attention to your health and not to stay up too late. Physical health comes first, academic performance comes second, and the results that affect physical health are not good results. Good health is everything, good health is really good. We should study easily and happily, take part in more activities and exercise. If we relax our mind, the learning effect will be good. Our mentality determines success or failure, and success or failure depends on our methods. As long as the mentality is relaxed and the learning method is correct, the academic performance will be improved.

? Love is endless, and mother and daughter love each other at Christmas. ? Dear son, don't worry, study easily and happily. Parents will always be your warm harbor and give you strong support when you are tired. Parents will always be your strong backing and give you a warm hug when you are in trouble. You will be proud of having a warm and happy family. May our family be safe and happy forever. Let's join hands and March towards a brilliant 20 16 year together. We love you forever! Come on, son, move towards a better life!

XXX

A letter from XXXX. X.X's mother gave it to her high school daughter.

My dear daughter:

Mother apologized for her behavior last night. Mom shouldn't say that about you. In fact, my mother is also very uncomfortable. You know, mom is sad to know that you made such a low-level mistake. She stayed up all night last night and was very sad all noon today.

My mother is so angry for the first time. You are mother's hope and mother's best comfort. Maybe my mother put too much pressure on you.

Son, mom just wants you to live happily alone. After being with your parents for a hundred years, you can live independently, and the foundation of self-reliance is in the first three years of high school.

Son, in junior high school for three years, we went to high school with regrets, and it's too late to regret it again.

Your father and I are ordinary people. For your study and future, we will do whatever it takes. Don't worry, you will never stop learning.

Children, the germination and publicity of adolescence is a necessary process for every child. Mom hopes you can spend this wonderful time with peace of mind. Mom wants you to do this:

Don't fall in love early. Children, it is impossible to bear fruit when flowers bloom too early. The sweetest love is that after the career is stable, the love with economic foundation is also stable and happy.

Don't be playful. Children, three years in high school are fleeting. Seize every minute to learn. I am learning when others are learning, and I am still learning when others are not learning. Stupid birds fly first and enter the forest early.

Calm and relaxed. Son, a good attitude is a prerequisite for success. Don't be arrogant, don't be impatient, keep a positive and peaceful heart and spend every day in high school. In learning, we should not only let go, but also accept it properly and greet each day calmly and naturally.

Son, mother firmly believes that you are the phoenix after nirvana, daughter, let's work together, believe in mother, mother also believes in you, you are the best child, come on!

I am here to convey

welcome

XXX

XXXX。 The fourth part of the mother's letter to her high school daughter

Dear daughter:

In today's era when information technology is so developed, I am busy with work, career and adult entertainment every day, and I am transmitting information through SMS, QQ, telephone and so on every day. I never thought of writing something for you so calmly. But on this Father's Day, I thought of it. I always feel that I can tell you something in this primitive and simple way. When you can really understand this letter, I hope you can understand that it is dad's love for you that will never change when things change.

From crying at birth, toddler to babbling? Although I don't spend as much time with you as my mother every day, every bit of your growth is deeply left in my father's memory. Even white-haired people believe that these will bring endless happiness and aftertaste to dad.

From being a man to being a father, your arrival has given me a lot of inspiration, thinking and even challenges. Everyone wants to be a good father, but there is no single standard for a good father.

Father's love is like a mountain, so thick and deep. As a man, my father is not good at expressing himself. He may not be told by his mother to kiss him, or he may never have the love to touch his forehead. Even when you learn to walk, he will restrain his outstretched hands. But every father must let his daughter feel that generous shoulder, and this moment is unforgettable. Looking back at my father's back after many years is a faint love affair under the harsh appearance.

You will grow up slowly, become independent slowly, and even one day you may soar, but whether I am by your side or not, I hope the following eight words can become your life's creed. Dad doesn't have much material wealth for you, but I hope you can remember the following words. Perhaps this is the greatest wealth that Dad has given you.

Cherish: these two words are simple, but many people can't really understand them, especially children of your age, because in that view, everything you have now is normal, just use it, and even waste it. What my father remembered most when he was a child was an ancient poem? Who knows that every grain of Chinese food is hard? ? Because every time I drop a few grains or leftovers from my meal, my grandmother will lecture me severely.

Gratitude: it is the traditional virtue of our nation, and it should also be the criterion for future life. Only when one knows how to be grateful can one have more and more friends and a broader life path. On the road of your growth, besides your parents, you will gradually have teachers and classmates. After entering the society, you will have colleagues, friends and partners. Do you want to get married in the future Any little help they give you will be a fortune in your life. You don't have to ask for it back, but you should learn to be grateful and try your best to help those who need your help.

Tolerance: Now life is rich and society is progressing, but we can see disharmonious news every day and strengthen information communication, but the spiritual communication between people is getting less and less, and the impetuous environment leads everyone to be eager for quick success and instant benefit. Too much negative energy accumulates, so baby dad hopes you can grow up healthily, your heart is full of sunshine, and the world should be beautiful. You should look at this new society with an inclusive heart, learn to be tolerant, learn to be restrained, and learn not to abandon or give up.

Dreams: Many people say that China people today are a generation without dreams and beliefs, and there is no hope in the future. But I think dreams with positive energy will not deviate from the direction. ? Dream? The stage is as big as it is, because if you can really understand the above, even if your dream is to be a rich man, dad won't think you have no ambition, because I believe you will use your wealth reasonably to help more people, not waste it.