What if a man breaks up with cold violence?

How to recover from a cold and violent breakup? Cold violence, I believe everyone is familiar with this word, and even some people feel the same way. Cold violence is different from previous violence, and it is an act of hurting others' hearts through indifferent, contemptuous and indifferent treatment. Actually, in a relationship, many people will encounter cold violence. When there are emotional problems, some quarrels and disharmonies, some people will choose to escape and take cold violence. This way of breaking up is not uncommon, and it often appears in men. In intimate relationships, because men are dissatisfied with the other half but can't change the status quo, they will choose to use an evasive attitude to turn their inner dissatisfaction into cold violence, and there will be no more blushing quarrels, ending everything with cold violence. For girls, this way of breaking up is mental and emotional torture. It is easy to start self-doubt, often suffer from loss and gain, and may even appear mild depression. All I can think about is, "Does he still love me?" Mental torture will lead to a gradual loss of self, and people will become unconfident. Let me give you an example to briefly describe what cold violence is: when the feelings suddenly become cold, he will say that he is very busy and will hardly take the initiative to contact you. The interaction between the two people is less and less, and their attitude is extremely perfunctory. Chatting is also his own conversation, and the other party occasionally answers a sentence or two. This state is called cold violent breakup. What would you do in this situation? How many girls will use "hot violence" to fight back at him, provoke his emotions with various things, and even break up and threaten each other. I can only say that this will only make him more and more disgusted with you, and it will have no effect if he is far away. First of all, let's analyze why boys use "cold violence" 1) empathy. When the other person empathizes with another person, he will become decisive and indifferent, and may be vague from time to time. You never know what he is doing, but you can only feel obvious alienation and indifference. Similarly, at this time, the other party is waiting for you to say goodbye, so that he seems to have put down his guilt about cheating.