How to chat with girls on WeChat? What should I do if girls don't reply to messages on WeChat?

Have you sent WeChat to the girl you like? She clearly saw it, but she didn't reply. Or after a long time, do you feel very anxious? Fortunately, WeChat is not "read" or "unread", otherwise it will aggravate the anxiety of so many bachelors in China, which is not conducive to their pursuit of their favorite sisters. How do you chat with WeChat girls? What if WeChat girls don't come back? Come and have a look with me!

1. It is not convenient to reply at present.

For example, just in a meeting, it is convenient to click and read, but it is difficult to type a string of words under the eyes of the leaders; Or when driving, the car is shaking, which is difficult to do for safety reasons; It may also be that you are sleeping, and you are awakened by the prompt. It is not very important to continue sleeping after reading it; Or when watching a movie, the mobile phone will be stared at by the people next to it for too long, so you can only read the content in a hurry, and may wait until after the movie.

There are different situations in this classification. If you receive more important content, you may need to think it over before giving a reply. It's like receiving a message from a subordinate saying, "Let you scold me for no reason, I quit!" " "There is no way to directly reply to this information, right?

I don't think it is necessary to answer.

This situation is embarrassing and troublesome for both the sender and the receiver.

When the receiver opened the message, he found that it was a message that he didn't know how to reply. For example, people who feel unfamiliar (or even don't like it) will send a message saying "Did you miss me", or write down a list of what you did today. Every time you chat, you will only say "Are you there, what are you doing, have you eaten?" The person who checked the account made such an opening remark again. In short, even if it is not annoying, it can't make people have patience to chat. Why bother to reply to yourself?

There are two reasons listed above, but more than 90% of the troubled "back reading" is the second case. After all, not being able to reply immediately is a special reason and will not happen often. I'm afraid this situation has lasted for a long time. ...

This is the problem to be solved in this book: what if I send a letter to someone I care about very much, but the other person can't read it back?

I suggest going out shopping, exercising, playing games and reading books after sending letters, as long as you don't stare at your mobile phone all the time. In particular, don't start sending messages and swiping the screen without replying for a period of time. The important thing is that if the other party doesn't reply anyway, the next time we meet, don't ask why, just pretend it never happened.

Because the other party does not reply, it is an attitude in itself. Continue to pester, will only make the other side more disgusted, without a trace of benefits. What's more, even if you insist on making excuses, she will only give reasons such as "Oh, I walked my dog and then forgot", "I changed my mobile phone and lost my record", "I was watching TV, but I didn't see it" and "Mom asked me to contact you".

Yes, these reasons seem unreasonable, just like questioning your IQ. However, people are willing to give you a reason, please appreciate each other's kindness, and she is willing to give you a step, which already respects you. Don't be aggressive, insist that the other person tell the truth that will only embarrass you: I just don't want to talk to you.

Here, some people may think, why do I always think about her, I care so much, why does she care so little, and why do you do this to me?

Unfortunately, that's the truth: a relationship is defined by people who don't care. If you are not the one who doesn't care, please don't try to get these things through persuasion, cold war or unreasonable troubles. These methods will not have a good result in the end.

The only thing you need to do is to know how much the other person cares about you by the length of time you don't call back.

Some people may think it's unfair? Yes, this is the reality. Who told you you weren't from Wang Sicong?

As for the other 10%, please do your own thing, and the other party will definitely come to you when they finish what they are doing.

And friends who will be troubled by this, my suggestion is to adjust their mentality. You are too possessive or controlling about this relationship or this matter, so you are extremely insecure. After all, the loss of security is irreversible for anyone.

If you don't want her to say "I feel a little tired" to you one day in the future, use these worrying times to control your possessiveness and build your life.

How to use WeChat chat to pick up girls Seven tricks to pick up girls on WeChat.

First, chat to determine each other's status.

Before each chat, it is best to make sure the other person's status, whether he is busy or not, and whether he is in the mood to chat.

"Hi, what are you doing" or "Are you busy" or "How's it going recently", and then comprehensively judge each other's status according to the speed and content of their answers.

For example, according to the speed at which the girl replies to your message, if she comes back soon and the length of the message is equal to or even exceeds your message, it proves that the girl is still interested in the topic provoked by your chat. Then according to the other party's reply, determine the next chat content.

If the number of words in the reply message is small, the reply time is slow. The other person is either busy or not interested in your chat. You can feel that the other person is not in the state. So, stop sending messages. Doing so can ensure that it is not annoying and there will be many opportunities in the future.

Second, find common topics.

Nowadays, most social software can be displayed, and girls generally like to post their daily life, work, travel, mood and so on in the circle of friends.

No matter how you add to the girl's WeChat, you must read the girl's information first. Nicknames, personalized signatures, avatars, circle of friends and so on are all important information.

After reading it, I believe you can find her through your social intuition: Is this girl Wen Qing, a gourmet, American TV fan, pet lover and traveler?

It's best to judge her career, hobbies and personality from her bones, and then grasp the most important point, or find your common topic. For example, you all like to listen to Jay Chou's "Confession Balloon". For example, she happened to watch a concert in Eason Chan the other day. For example, she has a kitten at home who just had a full moon. These are the points where you can start a topic, and it's hard to grasp these points without arousing her interest in chatting with you!

Third, determine the first sentence.

The first sentence is particularly important. Don't expose the sense of need too much at the beginning of the first sentence, so that girls will put down their inner defenses and chat with you. The first sentence is preferably a statement, and she can comment on her life.

For example; Keeping pets, eating delicious food and wearing clothes are all to arouse a series of inner emotions such as hope, doubt, surprise, desire and shyness.

Example: Error

You: I think you are beautiful. What's your name?

She: Thank you. (Error: the sense of demand is too strong, and there are too many people who praise her beauty every day, no less than you)

Examples; correct

You: A photo reveals a lot of your secrets. (Correct: Be curious. What is the secret? Let the topic continue)

She: Which one? (squinting expression)

You: You always expect others to like you. You don't need to get her back, keep your frame, you will always jump out and give her the feeling of grabbing her and pulling her.

She: I didn't. (Feeling misunderstood, mood will fluctuate)

You: Well, do you have any other advantages besides being beautiful? Guide her to communicate with you deeply and show that you are a picky man.

She: single, can do laundry and cook, and earn money to support herself. (hooked, she proved herself to you)

You: I think you are insecure inside. (looking at her coldly)

She: I just don't trust others easily. Let her express her emotions in various ways.

You: That's right, otherwise it's easy to get hurt. (Understanding the Essence of Truth)

She: There are many people who want to sleep with me, but few people really love me. At present, few men are willing to spend time and energy chasing a woman. Without perseverance, what I can't get is the best, and I won't cherish it if I get it, so I'd rather choose a person without the right one. At this time, she has fallen into the trap, complaining is devoted, and she is very serious.

There are many ways to test girls' emotional control ability in chatting. Through Angie's WeChat, the top ten people can get an analysis dialogue for free.

Fourth, judge the other side's meaning.

Different ways of thinking between boys and girls lead to different understanding of a sentence.

Girls tend to be emotional and pay attention to the mood of speaking. On the other hand, boys tend to be more rational and pay more attention to the content of their speeches. This leads to the boy can't bear the girl's emotions, so that the chat between them is lifeless and there is no way to go.

Girls say colds are uncomfortable. What's the point?

It's feeling, not telling her what to do, such as drinking more hot water and getting dressed. She's not a mentally retarded child.

You should feel her feelings. You can comfort her, be considerate, say warm words, do gentle things, and just buy cold medicine to open the door, which is more direct and straightforward than drinking hot water.

Example:

The girl said, "It's very hot today. I went shopping with my friends and didn't buy anything when I got home. "

What boys think is; Oh, she didn't buy anything.

What girls think is; Hot weather leads to bad mood and irritability, so I didn't buy anything.

Fifth, don't send a "kill" message.

If you don't reply to the text message, don't send it again. Can you wait that long?

Send it tomorrow. Texting continuously will make the other person think you are annoying. If you don't reply to the text message, don't send it again. Save it for the next day. It also shows that you seem sincere and persistent.

6. Praise girls naturally.

Don't praise a girl too bluntly. If she is a beauty, don't call her beautiful. Said she had good temperament, charming eyes and slim figure. Don't say your mouth is watering. You can try to tease, but be careful. Don't say what to do if the wind blows her away.

The most important way to praise her is to discover her unknown advantages and details and praise her well. First of all, it shows that you have a unique vision. Second, you really care about it. For example, the shape of earrings, the matching of accessories and the color of lipstick are all very good.

Seven, know enough is enough.

The more you talk, the faster you die. Don't be greedy for online communication and chat. Try not to chatter, but enough is enough.

You can find an excuse to leave while chatting for a while, so that the other party can leave reverie and aftertaste, and you can continue tomorrow. After all, the purpose of chatting is dating, not just online communication.

By doing the above seven points, it is not so difficult to chat with girls easily and happily. Girls talk about emotions, so you should learn to listen. Of course, you must guide the topic well.

Then it is to capture the needs of girls and adjust their emotions with some expressions. The arrival of emoticons saved many "speechless" boys in time, so download more emoticons when you have time, especially those with words that often appear in some groups.

If you really have nothing to say, throw an interesting question. Maybe you can find them both interesting, so let's talk together.