Is there really a boyfriend like a gun in reality?

Recently, everyone is brushing "Dear, Love" and "Children's Eye cp". Have fun with Li Xian's Gun and Andy's Childhood! Yes, but I stayed sane.

I can only say that boyfriends like guns once existed, and the past tense is over.

He was really good to you at first, good is really good, and then bad is really bad.

The shelf life of love is like fresh fruit, fresh, delicious and attractive. But if you don't let it go, it will break as soon as you let it go So, think about how you broke up. Did his cold violence hurt you deeply?

Cold violent breakup development stage ▼

Stage 1: He is suddenly busy?

Your reaction is: I want to be fine and don't let him think I'm annoying. You restrain yourself from contacting him less. ? My pride and self-esteem don't allow me to always take the initiative to contact him like licking a dog.

How is he? He won't talk to you at all, and occasionally he will send you messages to chat. ? It's a pity that I won't call you "cute ~" affectionately?

Stage 2: You start to question?

You think something is wrong, and finally you start asking him: Have I gone too far for your freedom? Why are you ignoring me?

He won't just say "I don't really love you that much" or "I have fallen in love with someone else".

He usually says "No, I'm very tired recently", "Forget it, I'm going to take a shower", and may even tell you "Forget it". ? After a little relief, like "touch your head and kill you" to comfort you.

The third stage: if you don't contact him actively, he won't contact you?

At this time, he also answered the text messages you sent in the past and the phone calls you made in the past. But I won't take the initiative to contact you unless necessary. ?

You are imagining things. What the hell was he thinking? Doesn't he love me? How did this happen to us? ?

You gradually lose yourself, your mood fluctuates greatly, and your focus shifts to this relationship. ? But he won't say, and you won't break up.

Stage 4: When you start saying we broke up?

You said, "I can't stand it. Let's break up." ? In fact, the mentality at this time is to save, not really break up. ?

He usually says "I don't want to be apart" or gives him another chance. ? In a word, I will keep you and won't let you leave. ? At this time, your mood is a little better, and you feel that your feelings can be saved again.

However, this calm mood is mixed with a lot of anxiety, and you feel that he is hanging your appetite.

Stage 5: Mitigation?

At this stage, because of the previous fourth stage, he will be nicer to you. ? You will feel that the other person is back. This is a feeling with too many apologies. It won't be long, but it's short.

Stage 6: When did you begin to believe that love is redeemable?

They began to repeat the third stage, not contacting you, and intensified. ?

For example, he pretended not to see the message you sent, and no one answered the phone you called. ?

Stage 7: Have you lost your mind and completely lost yourself?

When you go through the first six stages, basically your mentality is already very bad. ?

? I can't eat, I can't sleep well, and my emotions are too strong. You always cry, you can't wait for his message, you cry when you think of past memories, and you struggle to continue.

Stage 8: You break up and he is silent?

After the seventh stage, friends comfort you, advise you and wake you up. You finally said goodbye again, and the other party responded silently. This is the end of your breakup. ?

Personality analysis of people who break up with cold violence ▼

Is a coward. Afraid of commitment, no sense of responsibility, choose to escape and even have no courage to break up, say something similar to redemption but barely redeem. Even blame girls for always breaking up. ?

Because he is not sure whether he can love you in the end, you will always hear friends say that he is unreliable and doesn't like you enough. ?

This kind of person is short of chopping, and there are many thunderstorms in summer, so Lei Gong Dian Mu took a fancy to him.

Why do cold and violent breakups hurt the most? ▼?

You gradually lose yourself and concentrate on him. ?

You drugged yourself with alcohol and thought he loved you. You lived in a cruel sober state and knew that he didn't want to go on. ?

What kind of person will be broken up by cold violence? ▼

-kind, smart and beautiful girl! ?

Because people who use cold violence can't find a suitable reason to break up with her, they avoid her.

The correct way for boys to break up ▼

If one day, you don't love her, you like someone else, and you feel inappropriate.

Whatever the reason, subjective or passive, please tell her clearly that we should break up. Like guns, categorically say, I don't like you, I don't love you, we break up.

It was really hard for her at that time, but you must do it. At this time, you don't have to be soft-hearted or guilty.

Sincerely say goodbye and accept it calmly.

Nothing lasts forever. It's normal not to be together. Any story has a starting point-climax-ending. Breaking up or being together for a lifetime is the ending.

It's easy to go after you have made it clear.