My husband and I quarreled and got divorced. Just texted me and asked me to get him tens of thousands of dollars to pay back my credit card. Should I give him money?

Judging from your description, you had a serious quarrel with your husband this time, and now you are going to divorce. He texted you to help him pay his debts. This is not desirable. A man can't afford to support you and still quarrel with you. It's perfectly normal that you have no feelings. However, raising money after a quarrel is different. This kind of person is too preoccupied to continue dating. You can't give him money at this point, understand? Let him figure it out for himself. Good luck.