A letter of regret for her husband's cheating (a letter from a wife to her cheating husband)

This article wrote a reader's story in the form of a letter. If there are similarities, it is purely coincidental.

Dad: I didn't believe the saying "love will disappear" before, but now I really do. It turns out that love will disappear A person's heart changes too fast. We've only been married for ten years, and your mind is on another woman.

Do you know how I felt then? It's like someone stabbed me with a knife, which is particularly uncomfortable.

It is also a coincidence that I saw you from a distance in the shopping mall. She held your arm like a little woman, and you two smiled brightly. The contrast is sharp. You laugh recklessly in front, and I am flustered in the back.

I've been thinking about it for a long time. Do you want to rush up and tear you two "dog men and women"? I'm afraid to prove that you cheated, but I especially want to ask you why. I finally got up the courage to go forward and wanted to see what your reaction was.

What I didn't expect was that you protected her.

I pretended to slap her, and your subconscious action stung me. It was at that moment that I realized that maybe our feelings had already changed, and your mind was on her.

"Don't touch her, we have something to discuss when we go home."

You said it in very calm language. I hesitated for a long time, but the slap didn't go down after all. All right, let's solve our own problems and don't get involved with anyone who has nothing to do with it. I promise you to stay out of trouble and deal with your own affairs behind closed doors. You cheated, but I still want to give you enough face. It's really hard.

0 1.

When I got home, I asked you how long you had been with her, and why did you cheat?

You sat on the sofa with your head down and didn't dare to look at me. You were silent for a long time. You said to me, "Have you ever reflected on our marriage? You put a lot of pressure on me and made me tired. Our marriage is different from what I thought at first. I thought we could live happily together, but it was all odds and ends. I'm tired, and my married life makes me feel too tired, so I want to escape. She gave me a new feeling of love and made me feel very relaxed. "

I smiled, watching you laugh out loud instead of crying.

I wish I could make a scene, but I didn't. I don't want to embarrass myself. I laugh because I think you are too naive and because I think you are too immature.

"So being with me makes you feel so tired. Have you considered me? In fact, I think you are the best one in this family. Have you ever taken care of your child's illness? Have you taken care of your mother's illness? I can't believe you still feel tired after such a marriage. What do you want to do after we get married? I just ask you a few more questions about coming home late, and you think I'm bored. Whether I have changed or you have changed, I think you know better than me. "

Maybe because I'm right. You hung your head and didn't say a word.

I didn't want to cry in front of you, but I don't know why, but I want to pour out all my grievances:

"What kind of person am I? You know me. When we got married, there was nothing. You hugged me in the rental house and said you would give me a good life. I believe you. I love you so much that my parents prevent me from marrying you. Naked marriage, even the ring is not decent, and you can ignore everything if you feel that there is enough water. We were happy, romantic and shared joys and sorrows, but we all managed to get through it. You told me you were tired. You say that I have changed, ask yourself who has changed. "

Many men will dislike the change of their wives in marriage, but they have never thought about why their wives have changed.

Who is not a fairy with white eyes and teeth before marriage, but after marriage, a woman's temper will change. I admit that my temper has become grumpy in recent years, and no one has helped me. I have to take care of the children, the whole family and work. Can I not be upset about so many things?

Men are very relaxed. When they get home, they become grandfathers and enjoy women's services. If women are more concerned about "where have you been", they will say "You are so busy". Troubled? Men are used to treating women's concern as a kind of compulsory control, but they ignore that it is all love. If I don't love you, who cares? No one will care if you sleep as drunk as a fiddler in the street.

I care because I still regard you as a member of this family.

02.

I know you cheated, but I still love you and want to give you a chance to return to your family, but unexpectedly, I overestimated myself. I thought I didn't care about your affair, but when I really ran into it, my heart was still so painful that I couldn't breathe.

No one can stand cheating in marriage. If we have second thoughts, how can this marriage continue?

Now think about your biggest mistake in marriage, that is, spoil you too much. I have been working hard since we got married. I am devoted to my family and seldom think about myself. Especially after having children, I always think of you, fearing that you are under too much pressure, but I never thought I would bear more. Over time, you think I should do everything and care less and less about me.

A good marriage requires division of labor and cooperation. I have undertaken a lot and used you as my "son".

No wonder you are a 35-year-old father, still thinking about romance. That's ridiculous. Can you live so comfortably without me to help you settle everything in the back? What is a woman's biggest mistake in marriage? I just unconsciously take care of men too well, thinking about Wang Fu blindly, and the result is to make wedding clothes for other women.

After all, I am too selfless, but I have fulfilled your selfishness.

I have always had illusions about our marriage and love. I think everything will be fine. Even if your heart changes, you will still come back to this home. But then I figured it out, you don't love me anymore, and you have no sense of responsibility for this family. What's the use of asking you?

Since you want to pursue love, I will help you. I really can't afford to lose.

When I have nothing, I dare to gamble; Now that I have everything, I dare to put it down.

No big deal. People like you should suffer. When you taste "substitution", you will realize how good I am. But you can't expect me to forgive you Our days are over, and I won't spoil you any more.

Dad, if you want to pursue love, you must pursue it. People like you will have to fall down, or you will never know what it means to grow up.

03.

Isn't it a divorce? Divorce is also good. If we don't get divorced, we'll both feel bad. I've been wondering all day if you went to see her again and made up lies to lie to me. Why? Such a marriage doesn't make any sense.

I still remember the day when you confessed to me. In fact, I really wanted to rush up and punch you, but I finally gave up. What's the point of hitting you? Can't breathe, and then make the other person tear it more ugly? There is no need, just like I can't be a mistress myself. You betrayed me. I think there must be something wrong with our relationship, not others. If you have no heart, women outside can't leave if they want to.

You changed your mind and our love disappeared.

It turns out that love will really disappear. Once you could protect me with your arms, and now you are protecting another woman. I don't want you, so what's the use of you and me? I didn't lose by giving you to another woman, but I don't want to get involved in your dirty so-called love.

Your so-called true love looks dirty to me.

Isn't it love? Do you think that true love can be greater than responsibility, morality and everything?

I will give you a taste of love.

I wish you happiness, and I will help you, so you can do it yourself.

In the future, the road faces south, and we go our separate ways. When we met, no one knew each other. I can still live well without you. As for you and her, it's none of my business. Divorce, dad, pursue your love and see who will be happy.

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