What does it take college students 13 days to walk home?

According to Chengdu Business Daily, Wu Kangqi, a student at Huafeng Campus of Nanchong West China Normal University, decided to walk home from school. The map distance from Nanchong to Yibin Junlian is 430 kilometers, while Wu Kangqi walked 470 kilometers.

For Xiao Wu and his parents, this 470-kilometer hiking trip is also the "growth" of two generations.

The relationship between Xiao Wu and his family eased on the fourth day of his hiking trip. Mr. Wu said that in the face of his son's leaving without saying goodbye, he thought of himself when he was young. Everyone will grow up one day. He and his wife no longer advised their son to go home, but more told him to pay attention to the safety of the journey. This hike is also a test of his perseverance.

This is a "return trip" that was opposed by the whole family from the beginning.

From Yibin Junlian's hometown to Nanchong West China Normal University, 470 kilometers away, 22-year-old Wu Kangqi decided to walk. For safety reasons, parents even invited respected elders to persuade him to cancel the plan. However, on February 5, Xiao Wu secretly set off from his hometown and arrived in Nanchong on foot 13 days.

Xiao Wu recalled the trip to Chengdu Business Daily reporter, saying that hiking exercised his mind and was the first baptism of life, which gave him more courage to face unknown fears and difficulties and more reasons to meet challenges and difficulties.

Xiao Wu's father said that he had gradually understood his son. When he grew up, he had his own ideas. At that moment, he was no longer a child who needed the protection of his parents. He also wrote a Tibetan poem for his son, "which is not only an affirmation of his perseverance, but also a warning to his future work and study." Although he has grown up, he can't be too impulsive. "

College students from Junlian to Nanchong decided to walk back to school.

Sitting in the coffee shop in Huafeng Campus of China West Normal University, Xiao Wu is still a little tired. The 470-kilometer "hiking" that ended a week ago made his leg muscles need some time to recuperate. "Now that I think about it, I still decided to walk back to school, or I was impulsive." Xiao Wu, a software engineering student, smiled shyly.

For Xiao Wu, the idea of "hiking" came suddenly.

65438+1October 15, a slight earthquake occurred in Yibin. Xiao Wu felt the vibration and ran out of the house, which made him feel "small". "I don't like this kind of powerlessness. I urgently need to make my body and mind stronger, and to achieve this goal, I must constantly break through my limits. " Xiao Wu said that he is preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination and hopes to help the next preparation through exercise. That night, he made a plan to walk back to school.

Xiao Wu checked the distance from his hometown to the school online, which is about 430 kilometers (finally, he followed the navigation and actually walked 470 kilometers). He wanted to buy tents and sleeping bags, but he couldn't buy them during the Spring Festival. On the day of departure, he only took an umbrella and a backpack, which contained two sets of clothes, plus a pair of military boots, a charging treasure, a diary, a water cup and a charger, weighing almost fifteen or sixteen pounds.

Parents call their elders to persuade their children to cancel the "hiking plan"

This outing was the first bold decision made by Xiao Wu in 22 years, but it was strongly opposed by his family from the beginning.

"My son has been very obedient since he was a child. He will discuss everything with us. If we don't think it's appropriate, he will listen. " Xiao Wu's father, Mr. Wu, told Chengdu Business Daily that they were mainly worried about insecurity. "I hope he can read at home and go to school by car when school starts."

On the eve of the Spring Festival, Xiao Wu did ideological work for his parents, trying to get them to support him, but to his surprise, his parents even invited respected elders at home to enlighten him in order to get him to cancel his plan. In the end, neither side compromised.

In the impression of parents, Xiao Wu has always been an obedient child and almost never goes against his parents' wishes. But this time, Xiao Wu felt that he had grown up and wanted to complete this plan independently as a "baptism" of life.

At 8 o'clock in the morning on February 5, it was raining. Parents asked Xiao Wu to visit relatives together, and Xiao Wu asked his parents to go first on the pretext of "going out later". While his parents were out, Xiao Wu started to walk back to school with his backpack and 600 yuan cash.

In the afternoon, Xiao Wu received a phone call from his mother, who was very angry with him for leaving without saying goodbye, calling him too willful and paying for his behavior. Xiao Wu explained his thoughts to his mother many times, but the mother and son finally broke up on the phone.

That night, Xiao Wu sent an apology message to his mother, hoping that her mother would understand him, but her mother still advised him to go home first, and Xiao Wu disagreed.

The road is difficult. I wanted to give up the choice and insist, and I didn't want to give up halfway.

It takes only four or five hours to drive from Junlian to Nanchong. According to Xiao Wu's plan, it takes 10 days to walk 40 kilometers to school every day, but this is not the case.

The first two days went well. Xiao Wu decided the route according to mobile navigation, walked around the national and provincial roads, and decided the town to live in every night. "I was very excited at first. I walked for 9 hours every day, but I can only walk more than 30 kilometers." Xiao Wu said that for the sake of safety, almost all the meals in a day are solved in noodle restaurants in small towns along the way, and they stay in small hotels for twenty or thirty yuan at night.

On the morning of February 7, the sky began to rain. Xiao Wu holds an umbrella, but the rain still wets his clothes. His feet are black and blue, and his knees are getting more and more painful. After the rain stopped, he barely supported himself with an umbrella as a crutch and carefully avoided passing cars. "Fortunately, I didn't bring a tent. I learned during the trip that even a little more weight in my bag might be the last straw to crush me."

At this time, he received a phone call from his mother and advised him to go home again. "I was really tempted at that time, because I just left 100 km, and it was so far from school, so I wanted to go back." But Xiao Wu still refused her mother. He explained to the Chengdu Business Daily reporter afterwards that he decided to walk back to school and didn't want to give up halfway and make people look embarrassed.

Xiao Wu wrote in his hiking diary: "Although it's a long way, I don't know if I can stick to it until the end and try my best to have no regrets. I probably want to understand and verify these little truths. "

The kind uncle made him fried rice with eggs, which was rejected by the hotel owner.

At 5: 30 pm on February 17, Xiao Wu finally arrived in Nanchong safely on the first 13 day of hiking. At this point, the school has been open for two days. Mobile navigation showed that Xiao Wu walked about 470 kilometers. He reported his safety to his parents, classmates and friends at the first time and took photos at the school gate as a souvenir. "Although this trip didn't bring me physical harm, I also felt too much warmth and warmth." Xiao Wu said.

He said that in order to save time, he would choose to give up provincial roads and take rural roads in some sections. Rain and fog are everywhere in mountainous areas, and mobile navigation is sometimes inaccurate. Once he got lost, and a kind person invited him to take a ride along the way, but he declined. Moreover, whenever he goes to a town, there are always good people who are eager to show him the way.

On the evening of February 7th, Xiao Wu only walked 3 1 km because of fatigue for several days. A heavy rain made him look embarrassed. That night, he went to a small town and asked an uncle about the hotel. The kind uncle asked him to rest at home first and fried him an egg fried rice, saying, "No charge, eat slowly", which made him very moved. At the end of the hike, when he arrived in another town, it was already past 8 pm, and he only found a hotel 160 yuan/night. He said that all he had left was 120 yuan, and the hotel owner refused to transfer money online. He tried to charge his mobile phone but failed, and was later asked out directly by his boss. After going downstairs, he walked for 1 hour and found a small hotel to stay under the reminder of enthusiastic people.

Along the way, people's feelings are warm and cold, but Xiao Wu said: "Everyone has different ideas. From their point of view, they may think I am a liar. "

A journey of 470 kilometers

"Common Growth" of Two Generations

Son "I finally know that I am a firm person"

13 days of hiking experience, Xiao Wu's leg muscles are a little tired and still recuperating.

He calculated an account. The total cost of this hiking trip is around 900 yuan, which is more than 600 yuan more than that by bus. When he arrived in Nanchong, only 20 yuan was left, but he said, "It was an unforgettable experience. What I saw and heard along the way greatly exercised my mind. "

Xiao Wu said that 13 days of hiking, in addition to enduring loneliness, there is also fear of the unknown. Xiao Wu recalled that one day, because he started too late in the morning and walked slowly during the day, he was still 12 kilometers away from the nearest town until dark. He turned on his mobile phone, and the faint light spilled on the road, and the night wind blew, and loneliness and fear came into being.

Along the way, except for the occasional lights from the villagers' windows, most of the time it was dark mountains. "I was very scared." In order to overcome his fear, he hummed "Dare to ask where the road is" and "Stubborn". He usually walks for two and a half hours. On that day, he left 1 for many hours. When he arrived in the town, he felt that he was finally saved.

"This is the first time I have done such a bold thing. After this trip, I finally know that I am a brave and determined person. " Xiao Wu said that the biggest difficulty in hiking is to take the first step. When you take the first step, you will find that it is not as difficult as you think. If you have any difficulties, try to overcome them. Actually, life is the same.

When father and son grow up, it's time for parents to let go.

After his son left, Mr. Wu not only worried about his son's safety, but also remembered working in Yixing, Jiangsu Province when he was young. He once rode a bike to Wuxi, more than 60 kilometers away, and later persuaded his wife to ride a bike from Shaoxing to Hangzhou to see the West Lake. "Young people are like this. I want to run more and see the outside world. "

Mr. Wu said that his son was a left-behind child and went back to his hometown with his wife to do small business 1 years ago. At this time, his son has become a college student. In his impression, his son was very obedient since he was a child and used to listen to him in everything. This is the first time that his son has done something so resolutely.

A few days after Xiao Wu left, Mr. Wu began to admire his son's courage. "At that time, the mentality was actually very complicated. I hope that he will come back safely, but I am afraid that he will come back. After all, he is an adult. This is his own decision, and he is responsible for himself. "

After learning that his son arrived in Nanchong safely, Mr. Wu, 46, wrote a Tibetan poem for his son, "Yunzhou in Wu is a country of ignorance and youth, and the beauty is moist and light." He walked a thousand miles with only his feet, and he leaned forward in a hurry. South School expects his legs, swollen ears and eyes full of experience. He can think and practice. " The first word of each sentence is "Wu Kangqi walks in Nanchong".

Mr. Wu said: "This is both an affirmation of his perseverance and a warning to him not to be too impulsive when he grows up."

Looking through the information of his son's circle of friends during the trip, he suddenly felt that his son was not a child who needed protection at that moment. Now that he has grown up independently, it's time for his parents to let go. After all, he has to face the society alone.