How would you feel if you received such a message from your girlfriend?

If you receive such a message from your girlfriend, it means that you have been too chauvinistic in your relationship, causing her to be unable to accept your personality and ideas. If you still show no signs of improvement, she I may have to part ways with you. I hope you two will try your best to do the following things when getting along in the future so that you can get along for a long time.

1. Learn to respect

Learn to respect each other’s personality and learn to value each other’s words and deeds. Because two people have different family environments, personal life experiences, and cultural education levels, they may have different views, opinions, and attitudes towards people and things. During the conversation, two people should be allowed to have different voices, different viewpoints, and different ways of expression. You cannot use your own opinions and standards to measure the other party, let alone criticize the other party from the moral high ground. On the premise of mutual respect, slowly penetrate and blend in, and finally form a tacit understanding and reach an agreement.

2. Learn to listen

Learn to listen to each other’s joys, sorrows, and joys, and learn to listen to each other’s life feelings and insights. Everyone's life trajectory is different, and the life experiences they encounter may be different. When the other party encounters difficulties and setbacks, while extending a helping hand in time to help them get out of trouble, you must learn to be an audience who listens carefully; in the process of listening, slowly enlighten and slowly bring the two parties closer. psychological distance. When the other person succeeds in his career or achieves certain results in some aspects, you must learn to share the joy and joy of success with him, grow with him, and enjoy the gifts of life.

3. Learn to praise

Be good at discovering the strengths and shining points of the other person, and learn to praise the other person. It is not that there is no beauty in life, but that there is a lack of a pair of eyes that are good at discovering beauty. In the same way: the other person has many advantages and things worthy of your praise. You need to develop a pair of sharp eyes to discover the beauty in the other person in a timely manner and give praise and praise in a timely manner. encourage. Men and women in love pay special attention to each other's evaluation. Sometimes, a complimenting gesture or an encouraging look from the other person is enough to make the other person happy for a whole day. A word of praise can not only enhance the other person's self-confidence, but also give the other person infinite strength and the courage to overcome difficulties. The most important thing is to be in a good mood while complimenting the other person.

4. Learn to care

It means learning to care about and care for each other. Since two people are in love together, they must care for each other wholeheartedly, so that the other person can feel your warmth and enthusiasm all the time. When the seasons change, you should remind the other person to add or remove clothes; when it is windy or rainy, you should take the other person to get off work or give him a small umbrella; when the other person is sick, you should take care of the other person in every possible way, etc. The care between lovers comes from the little things around them and from each other's words and deeds.

5. Learn to be tolerant

Learn to tolerate each other’s shortcomings and learn to forgive each other’s mistakes. No gold is pure, and no man is perfect. In the process of falling in love, don't be fussy or picky about small things, but learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings and small mistakes. Many times, lovers become red-faced and furious because of an insignificant word or a trivial matter. Afterwards, they admitted their mistakes and apologized. It seemed that they were reconciled, but a shadow had been cast in their relationship.