"When you meet me, I want to hug you."

I have heard such a passage that there are only two states in the relationship between people, either together or apart, and there is no gray area in the middle. You like a person, even if he is a little annoying, you will still make up for his dislike. Finally, you like it more than you hate being together. One day, you are too lazy to justify his dislike in your heart, and then, a little dislike spreads until you swallow your love, and then you separate.

Why don't those who hate to occupy the whole feeling separate? Because there are illusions, expectations, interests and complicated fetters. As long as there is a moment, they can bear it, at least physically, they will still be together.

0 1, you said that two people are good and have an emotional foundation. Why did you break up?

You see, a long-distance relationship is very tiring even if we talk on the phone for two hours every day. We share our lives, know each other's trivial things like the back of our hands and share our opinions. There are quarrels, joy of throwing stalks at each other, boredom of sharing, darkness of sharing, laughter of wasting time, silence of sharing just listening to each other's breath.

Then, I will still take the time to buy a plane ticket to another city, because face-to-face is practical, even if I don't talk, I will be practical. I can feel your eyes, your smile, your breath, the temperature of your holding my hand, and you are really in front of me.

We need this real certainty. No matter how touching and humorous I describe a cow pill dancing in a hot pot, it can't compare with it. When I point to the bouncing beef balls in the pot, you will laugh and be so charming. One day, people began to panic after I was busy, tired and annoyed by this true certainty. Afraid of rejection, the little seed was planted with a full desire to share and was stopped by understanding.

The impulse to see one side was stopped by reason, and the act of calling was replaced by a message. We finally became a very rational couple. You ignore me, and I ignore you. It is my gentleness not to disturb you, and it is also my gentleness to be willful and coquetry.

02, slowly, I can't find you, slowly, I can't find myself. Tell me, how do two lost people fall in love, how do they play the maze, and how do they escape from the secret room? Later, why did they separate? Maybe they don't need each other much.

I used to think that I needed to find someone to eat hot pot with, order sliced meat, fish balls, tripe and louver, order coke Sprite, gobble meat and clink glasses to talk about my dreams. Later, it was found that it was not so bad for a person to eat spicy food with his head down. If it is spicy, take a sip of milk. It turns out that nothing is necessarily unique, and there are too many substitutes. As long as you know what you want, happiness is quite easy.

At first, he really made your heart beat, and you really wanted to keep him in your world. You have thought about the style of the wedding dress, the main course of the banquet, whether you want to have children, whether you want to give up your job, and whether you want to have a long way to go. After that, life throws you a handful of rattan peppers and time throws you a chicken rib. You start to convince yourself slowly that he is not my destiny takes a hand, and it doesn't matter. One day, you jokingly asked him when he would marry me.

He said, wait a minute, what a beautiful answer! You smile, and your heart is calm. It is not difficult to put a warm-hearted person back as an ordinary friend. It's just that my heart hurts, it hurts, and you don't know why tears are so disobedient. The more you care about it, the more it will flow to you, and it will make your makeup look bad.

When did feelings begin to fade?

The little seed that was afraid of rejection stayed in my heart. Later, you learned that rejection is not terrible at all. The terrible thing is that the seeds of hope have been left in my heart. I have been waiting for a long time and have long since given up looking forward to it. It's just that you still water the soil and it doesn't matter if you sprout and bloom. The important thing is that you don't want to betray the feelings you invested before. You are full of expectations. After all, we must be soberly aware that the monument is a terrible spring.

03. Later, we exchanged feelings, cards and trust in real certainty again and again. You see, we are all obsessed with the face-to-face joys and sorrows. I can give you a tissue when you cry, wipe it, hug you and roll with laughter. However, if you are in my mobile phone, your emotions will be discounted by the internet speed.

Meeting is the highest sense of ceremony in feelings. You should dress up, get ready, put a heart on it, and then go to the mountains and seas to see you. As long as you see it, you will be practical.

As for you staying, how much you said and how much you missed, so what? You have so many grievances about life, and the moment you saw him, you were relieved. You see, there are so many hugs in the lobby where the airport and the train station arrive, so sweet. We like this kind of real determination, real being together, and this kind of real face-to-face activation, so that a pair of people who have been deeply missed can take the trouble to meet.

If you like it, you should satisfy it. If you don't like it, you have to satisfy it. We need a decent meeting and farewell. The road ahead is long. If you go with him or not, you should tell him. This is the right you are willing to give.