What should I do if I find my husband secretly texting?

It is wrong for you to peek at your husband's text messages. The content of the short message belongs to personal privacy, even if you are husband and wife, you should not.

Of course, your husband sends messages to others behind your back, which means that he may have contacts with other members of the opposite sex. You must take precautions against this.

I think the solution is that you should communicate with him more and let him know that you love him. At the same time, you should let him know that as a married man, he should do his duty as a husband and father. In this way, he was relieved.