Song Dandan openly admitted cheating: what is more terrible than death is this kind of marriage. what do you think?

1997, 36-year-old Song Dandan ended her ten-year marriage with Ying Da. Later, in response to the news media, she calmly told the reason for the divorce: "I filed for divorce because I had the only extramarital affair in ten years." "I'm so lonely, I need love so much."

When they met Ying Da, Song Dandan was already a well-known comic sketch goddess, while Ying Da was still an unknown novice film director. As far as Song Dandan is concerned, Ying Da is brilliant and will eventually get married. However, married life is immersed in the triviality of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar. Ying Da comes from a well-known family, has no ability to live and work independently, and never does housework. You can sleep in 12 pm if you have nothing to do, and concentrate on writing if you have work.

Song Dandan, who also works in the crew, not only has to bear most of the expenses at home, but also has to take care of his seriously ill family and young children. Spoiled Ying Da gradually took Song Dandan's investment for granted. When his wife lit candles on both sides, he and Song Dandan's friend and director Liang crossed the aisle to create a peach news.

In response to Song Dandan's query, Ying Da coldly denied it, but still did not stop the warm taste. Song Dandan clearly put forward a divorce for the first time, which was obviously resisted by the elderly. From then on, Ying Da stayed out at night, and domestic cold violence intensified. Song Dandan was busy outside all day, and pushed open the door. There were only children learning English. Song Dandan fell in love with a man after an endless dispute of suspicion.

On the third day of extramarital affairs, Song Dandan called Ying Da, and Ying Da finally agreed to divorce happily. On the day of getting rid of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Song Dandan found Ying Da's lost pager in the car, which was full of messages from Liang Huan. It turns out that this superficial and meticulous marriage life is just a mutiny. The marriage life, which has long existed in name only, has already been decided.

At the end of the video, Song Dandan said, "We each walked along our own track for ten years. Everyone has his own different life. We have completely forgotten each other. We haven't met for ten years. " What is the purpose of marriage? The first half of my life wrote: Because life is hard, I need someone to help me in the same boat. But now more and more married lives are normalized, and wives are fighting alone.

Tong Zhi and Wen Li in the TV series "Golden Marriage" were originally the envy of everyone. Wen Li is a teacher, gentle and handsome, and Tong Zhi is a technician in a machinery factory with a sense of humor. No matter how arrogant Wen Li is and how hard life is, Tong Zhi still holds her in the palm of his hand, which is so intimate. But gradually, they became strangers to each other.

Tong Zhi, a middle-aged and old man, naturally learned to go his own way and fell asleep when he got home. In order to better map the quiet, take the initiative to switch to the third line, and have a leisurely coffee with female colleagues after work. Wen Li, on the other hand, has to take care of four children and an elderly housewife, running all the housework and being as busy as a gyro map all day. Not being understood, not being seen, staying in the cold room all day, and the scandal about Tong Zhi.

When answering questions, Tong Zhi was very angry with Wen Li, thinking that she always only complained and scolded. But now, he has never seen his wife's hardships and experienced a thank you. But a person's investment can't support their marriage life. When a wife gives everything for her family, she can't get a word of love and understanding. The more a wife gives up, the more the other person takes it for granted and forgets her obligations as a husband and an upright father.

There has never been a natural co-star in this world. Who doesn't want to enter the marriage life because of the word "love"? Only when time erases the enthusiasm, two people who have loved will refuse to feel the same and will not share it again. In the end, let the differences pile up into mountains, let the heart cool into ice caves, and become strangers.

In the past, a short video called Mute made thousands of people cry: in the fifteen-minute video, the couple only used nine sentences to communicate with each other. She was furious at housework, and he was exhausted by work. They will stop talking and forget how to love each other. After the disagreement broke out, they came up with hurtful keywords over and over again, but lamented and held down the backspace key over and over again. In fact, no one has made a big mistake.

It's just that the odds and ends of life are overwhelming, but no one shares their work pressure, and the other party's difficulties are fully understood. Fortunately, they are still in love. That's what couples do. One second, they are still angry, and the next, they may all fade away because of a concern. After breaking through tears, who will haggle over who raised his head first and who bravely took the step of laughing and forgetting the enemy?

You see, there has never been an incurable disagreement and indifference in this world, only a heart that doesn't want to be cured. Love can make a family. Holding hands with each other can warm a home. If you feel that love is gone, you can't stand up bravely and be a minimalist earlier. Some people's hearts are not hot, and the loveless marriage life is only endless destruction, which is enough to make people miserable. Only by getting rid of the absurd marriage life one day earlier can we rush to a stronger future.

If we still love each other and want to make a change, why don't we sit down and talk sometime? Don't be stingy with sharing, don't be afraid to communicate, life can help each other, and there will be a good start in the future. what do you think?