Should I check my husband's mobile phone after marriage (should my wife check her husband's mobile phone)

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As early as 2003, in a movie "Mobile Phone", Ge You played the TV host Yan Shouyi, who once accidentally left his mobile phone at home, and his wife found out the secret between him and another woman and filed for divorce.

Probably in the 1990s, mobile phones became popular. Today, from mobile phones to smart phones, people are increasingly inseparable from mobile phones, and mobile phones are getting closer and closer to our lives.

People nowadays seem to have the best relationship with mobile phones. Friends get together, everyone has a mobile phone, relatives get together, and everyone has a mobile phone. The same is true for couples when they get home. There is not much communication, and everyone is holding their own mobile phones. Many couples have a lot of arguments about whether to check each other's mobile phones.

So, when couples get along, should they check each other's mobile phones? Should a wife check her husband's cell phone after marriage? The experience of married women will remind you.

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Xinli and Fan Peng have been together since college. Xinli recalled that at first, they were still because of a phone call.

Fan Peng called a friend and accidentally called Xin Lina, so they got in touch. At that time, there was no WeChat, and two people contacted their feelings by sending text messages. At that time, there was still a charge for text messages, and the telephone bill also cost a lot of money.

It turned out to be a positive result. At the wedding, two people thanked their mobile phones for giving them marriage. Married life has always been very happy. Mobile phones have been updated for many generations. Before the popularity of WeChat, Fan Peng had been using old-fashioned mobile phones. In order to facilitate contact, Xinli gave Fan Peng the latest smart phone.

At first, Fan Peng was not used to using WeChat. Sony always said he was too stuffy, so he taught him how to use it. After a church visit, Fan Peng became addicted and suddenly found smart phones very interesting.

As soon as I get home every day, I start playing with my mobile phone. After a long time, Xinli can't stand it. In order to play with my mobile phone, two people often quarrel. After the quarrel, Xinli especially regretted changing his mobile phone.

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Wechat has new functions. People nearby, Fan Peng, are having fun, searching for people nearby, chatting around and often staying up late at night.

Xinli felt more and more that something was wrong with Fan Peng. Once, while he was asleep, she turned on Fan Peng's mobile phone and saw his ambiguous chat record with a strange woman on WeChat.

Xinli can't stand it. She kicked Fan Peng awake and asked him what had happened. Fan Peng was sleeping soundly, but he was kicked inexplicably, and his heart was furious. Two people had a quarrel in the middle of the night. I woke up the children and cried. Xinli saw the child crying and quickly stopped him.

When coaxing the children, Xinli recalled the past. A family of three came home at night, having dinner and watching TV together. They are very happy, but since they got a mobile phone, Fan Peng took it home, and there is nothing to say. Sometimes he gets impatient when talking to him. The two men quarreled many times for the mobile phone, and this time they found out that he had betrayed.

After thinking about it all night, Xinli figured it out and filed for divorce the next day. She doesn't want to live like a walking corpse with a mobile phone. Instead of being so angry, she might as well be happy separately.

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There is a limit to everything. In marriage, both men and women should be like this. A wife should not be overly suspicious of her husband, but should always check his mobile phone. Of course, the husband should not hold the mobile phone all day, or even have an affair with the person in his hand, so that his wife feels insecure. or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium

Actually, should I check the other half's cell phone? How to judge? If the husband and wife take their feelings seriously and treat each other honestly, it doesn't matter whether the mobile phone is checked or not, because it won't be hidden at all, and the mobile phone is there with a clear conscience.

The more people with ghosts in their hearts, the more they will mind others looking at his mobile phone. The more people like this, the bigger the problem, and there is no need to check it.

Sometimes, marriage is so embarrassing. If you trust too much, you may be betrayed. Without trust, you will be suspicious of each other and live too tired. It's like whether to check your mobile phone or not, it's up to you, whether to check it or not.

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