My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend has been harassing us (text messages, phone calls, home visits), and even sent me text messages.

A is a pessimistic, persistent and extreme person. Her personality will make her life miserable. She is probably obsessed with her ex-boyfriend because she has not found a new boyfriend. However, as long as you insist on ignoring her, she will naturally let go. She won't keep pestering for ten or eight years, because she will change and mature, and she will get depression if she doesn't change. I believe that her psychology has long been unhealthy and she needs to see a psychologist for cognitive therapy.

I harassed my ex-boyfriend before, but I did it because I thought my love could touch him. I hated a person for more than ten years, and then I was greatly stimulated and got severe depression, so I had to take medicine for treatment. After experiencing life and death, I understand that love is the most important thing in life, so I can accept anyone and anything, because if I accept it, you can keep inner peace and you will have a healthy body and a peaceful mind.

I can understand your boyfriend. He kept everything she gave him, which shows that he is a sentimental person. Although she has a bad personality, he really loved her after all. That kind of inner happiness belongs to him and has nothing to do with A. Whether it is A or B, Zhang San or Li Si, good or bad, he will keep the memories of the past. In doing so, he shows that he values feelings and knows how to cherish them. Occasionally, I miss your past inner feelings, not A, so you don't have to be jealous.

The world is very big, and there are all kinds of people. It is possible for each of us to meet such people. The key is how do we face it?

Actually, A is very poor. We should sympathize with her, not be afraid of her. It's been so long. If she really went too far, she would have gone too far, and she won't wait until now. So you don't have to worry. She just dares to harass you. She dare not break the law.

She dares to harass you continuously, which is also related to your boyfriend's personality. He must be a kind-hearted man. She knows he won't retaliate against the police, so she has the courage to harass you.

Your boyfriend won't call the police. So, what you have to do now is: accept her, whatever she says, you accept it. She should have mild depression. Accept her from the heart and understand her, and you won't feel uncomfortable, nervous or afraid. When she is in your heart, she becomes air. Because we have no other good way, we have to accept this reality and adapt to the environment.

Life is really dramatic. The kinder people are, the more likely they are to meet "bad guys". If your boyfriend is ruthless, she won't dare to do this to him. But your boyfriend is such a person. You won't love him, will you?

What should you do? Psychologists believe that you should accept her and accept this reality psychologically, and then you won't feel bad.

You should exercise more and go out to play more, because happiness is very powerful and can drive away your negative emotions.

I seem a little wordy, hehe.

I believe: you will be happy.