What should I do if I break up with my ex?

What should I do if I break up with my ex?

What if I break up with my ex? The change of heart may be due to the psychology of looking for excitement. A man's change of heart is ruining the whole family. Second time around may not succeed. The broken glass you swallow will only scratch yourself. What if I break up with my ex? The choice is always in your hands. Let's have a look.

What if I break up with my ex? 1 1. Don't bother my ex after breaking up.

A male reader sent me a private letter the other day. He said that his girlfriend broke up because he didn't think two people were suitable.

In fact, there is nothing inappropriate. All inappropriateness in feelings is often due to lack of love. Inappropriate is just a refusal.

People who really love you choose to break up with you, but there are too many realistic factors between you two.

This male reader chatted with me. He said he would contact his predecessor every day after the breakup. Even if his contact information is deleted and hacked, he will change his mobile phone number and send a text message to his predecessor. Finally, I completely annoyed my predecessor and forced my ex-girlfriend to change her contact information.

Some people say: after breaking up, leave yourself the last dignity and don't bother.

Easier said than done; Few people just break up without bothering their predecessors, because you really can't do it; Every time I pick up my mobile phone, I have an impulse to contact my predecessor. I can't wait to run to the other party to see what my predecessor is doing.

Every street you walk through, every dish you eat, every tourist attraction you have visited, and every stupid thing you have done are played in your mind like a movie.

But breaking up is breaking up, and not disturbing your predecessor is the last respect for your predecessor and yourself.

Because I love each other too much, because I loved each other, so I can't bother my predecessor anymore; If you can't change the reason for breaking up, then bother your ex, even if the old love rekindles?

Couples who rekindle their old feelings after breaking up will still break up easily and break up again for the same reason.

Therefore, there is no need to let the pain and sadness play out on you two again and again.

This kind of injury has been too painful and lasting, and there is no need to hurt each other's hearts again.

Second, the ex who really loved, the best way after breaking up should be: I wish you a good life.

Mention: What do you want to say to your predecessor?

Perhaps many people's first impression is anger, and they wish their predecessors had a bad life, could not eat or drink well, and could never find a partner again.

However, only those who have really loved will understand such a state: when you know that your predecessor is doing well, your heart will be more practical.

Because of my deep love, I hope my predecessor can live well; Because when you two are in love, you are both trying to give each other a happy life.

But now, you have no way, no ability to fulfill the original promise, and you can't make your predecessor live well; So you can only pin this hope on your predecessor's next object.

Only those who really love each other will be willing to let their predecessors live better and better in their later lives.

Even if one day, your predecessor gets married and has his own family and children, you hope that your predecessor will have a happy marriage and a safe and happy life in this life.

Sometimes the love and happiness that you two can't continue to complete can only be done by another person instead of you.

Love is too heavy, and breaking up is too heavy. I just hope that our life will get better and better in the future. Try to live a good marriage life now and in the future with love from your ex.

"I wish you happiness" is the best respect for your predecessor and the best way to treat your predecessor.

What if I break up with my ex? 2 1. Find out the root cause.

No matter who broke up with you, you need to reflect on where your emotional problems are and what made your ex break up with you. This is a must, and it can't be just the cause of my predecessor or myself. As long as one of you still loves the other, only in this way can we make progress. Women are not only men's schools, but men are also women's teachers. Some reasons need you to remember and judge. The ex can't always say that you are not good, that's not good, say everything.

2. Change your appearance.

Change your hairstyle, clothes, etc. Externally, in order to let your predecessor see that you have a new look, because he can't perceive the internal changes, at the same time, keep a distance from your predecessor. You should get in touch with the opposite sex and keep your distance. At this time, after seeing you break up, your predecessor's charm increased instead of decreased. It's like driving for a while, being painted and having a new look will make you fall in love with this car again.

3. Find opportunities to open your heart to each other and express your thoughts.

You can still be friends after breaking up. You can find an opportunity, have a drink, analyze your mistakes and say what you think now. Don't try to get back together. Let your ex see your sincerity and determination, otherwise you will not be better in the future, the feelings you pray for have no dignity, and the other party will not respect you in the future.