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The child is on the first day of this year, and he has a big temper. He will lose his temper if he is slightly unhappy. What should the child do if he runs away from home?

what if students run away from home? 1. Calm analysis. Judging from all kinds of signs, first judge whether the child runs away from home or secretly runs out to play for a while. If you have just scolded your children, you are more likely to run away from home. 2. Call the police in time. When the child is away from home for more than a few hours, or relatives and friends are absent, or when the child writes a "message letter" or text message at home, be sure to call the police immediately without delay. After all, if a child goes to see a net friend or is abducted, the situation will be more complicated and troublesome. 3. Don't scold your child when he comes back. After experiencing this incident, the child has already felt the great pressure from people around him to find himself, and because of this pressure, he has become a little scared and even afraid to face his parents. At this time, parents should stop criticizing and scolding their children, let alone hitting them. What parents should do is to get their children back to normal as soon as possible and give them a warm hug. Other things will be discussed later. 4. Learn to be tolerant. To tell the truth, parents often ask their children to be considerate and tolerant of their parents, but they don't know that they are not very tolerant of their children or others. You are a role model for your children. Forgiving others is also forgiving yourself. You should be tolerant not only to your children, but also to others. If you only tolerate your children, but treat others in another way, your children may not tolerate you. 5. Find out why. Help children find the reason as soon as possible, and then make adjustments through dialogue and psychological counseling to help children enter a normal learning state as soon as possible. 6. Learn to understand children. Just like a child's process of understanding you, before you express any opinions on your child, you must think from the child's point of view, why he did it, how he will feel after doing it, what he wants others to think of him, and what he thinks you get from what you have done. Spend as much time as possible to pay attention to children's study and life, and more importantly, pay more attention to children's hearts, try to share their joys and sorrows, and try to be their friends. ? The reasons why children leave home: 1. Pressure drives children away. Adolescent children bear the double burden of learning and emotion. Parents constantly pass on their expectations to their children. They feel pressure but don't want to face it, and they don't know how to solve it, so they choose to leave. 2. Teenagers seeking psychological satisfaction are simple and direct. They expect something unusual and want to attract attention. But they don't have much social experience and their ability to distinguish right from wrong is extremely weak. 3. The family environment no longer meets the needs of children. When the family environment changes, they use escape to meet their needs for love and understanding; They paralyze themselves by escaping, so they can't face it.