Girls who know each other on blind dates reply to messages very slowly. Sometimes they reply to a word, which makes them not know what to do. Should they continue?

In fact, it is very simple, that is, the other person has no feelings for you, or doesn't like you, and you are basically hopeless. It's normal. No one wants to be with someone who doesn't like you. It has reached the point of blind date, and everyone is not young. In fact, some girls still refuse blind date, but their families have been urging them that they are anxious when they are old, so they participate in blind date. Maybe I didn't feel so annoying when I first met you, but I also hope to get along with each other and get to know each other better. With the deepening of the chat, I gradually found that there were fewer and fewer common topics that two people could talk about, and finally I didn't know how to talk, so I used silence to represent rejection. I'm not returning messages anyway. After a long time, I'm sure the other party will give up and continue to pester and chat. Anyway, don't waste each other's time if you don't like it. After all, everyone is not young.

2. Personality problems

I have dated several girls on blind dates, and I feel that it is a serious personality problem. It is estimated that they are introverted and have a closed life since childhood, and they don't like chatting and talking with others. Otherwise, they wouldn't be so old or single, and some of them have never been in love once. There are several girls who basically belong to the kind of people who make great efforts to chat. You keep looking for topics to chat with her, and you always reply simply. Finally, you will collapse and choose not to chat, because there is really no desire to chat. Always like to answer. Chatting is when you come and go. It's just that one person has been looking for a topic and the other person is not interested. There is no way to continue chatting, and chatting is unpleasant.

3. Very busy

Nowadays, the pressure of work and life is great, and many people are busy with work, especially when they are old. Because of the great demand for money after the age of 30, they should consider buying a house, buying a car and raising children. Of course, some people are used to their own lives and don't have much time to stare at their mobile phones every day. Some girls wait a long time to reply after sending a message. Chatting always pays attention to timeliness, so whoever can reply after a long time will have the desire to chat. Sending messages for a long time will become some simple holiday greetings, and there is basically nothing to talk about at ordinary times.

Step 4 say disgusting things

Some of them have a good impression at first, so they can try to develop and have a good talk with each other. But after a long time, there are fewer topics for two people to talk about, and sometimes it is easy to say something that should not be said. Just like a girl who says she doesn't like chatting with me, don't keep looking for her. Let's go on a blind date with others. There is a simple reason. In those days when I paid off my mortgage, I felt a lot of pressure after buying a house. After I complained several times, I gave the impression that the boy was irresponsible and had a low eq. Don't talk every day if you are poor. It's annoying, and I feel that we always talk about money together, and people who eat and watch movies are struggling to spend money. Such people are doomed to be difficult together. Make girls feel disgusted and naturally don't want to chat with you.

5. Have new goals

When it comes to blind date, everyone is not young, and the purpose is very clear, so I don't say much.