How to cancel family and friends a few days before the wedding?

It is a very difficult decision to cancel the wedding, and it is also very difficult to face the confusion and disappointment of family and friends. The following are some suggestions I can give:

1. Communicate early: inform relatives and friends of the decision to cancel the wedding as soon as possible so that they can adjust their plans and arrangements. You can notify them by phone, SMS or email.

2. Explain the reasons frankly: You can choose to communicate honestly with your relatives and friends about the reasons for canceling the wedding. The reason can be that there are irreconcilable differences in marriage, or that temporary decisions need more time to consider and prepare.

3. provide support for friends and family: friends and family may feel confused, disappointed or heartbroken. Try to understand and give them support and comfort, and let them know that you still care about and value this relationship.

4. consider holding an informal activity: to make up for the regret of canceling the wedding, you can consider holding an informal activity, such as a small party, family dinner or a trip. This can provide an opportunity for everyone to continue to get together and alleviate some embarrassing and lost emotions.

5. Seek professional help: If you feel unable to handle emotional problems by yourself, you can seek the help of a professional marriage counselor or psychological counselor. They can provide advice and guidance to help deal with the current difficulties.

it should be noted that the above suggestions are for reference only and should be adjusted according to the actual situation and personal needs. I hope you can find a solution that suits you as soon as possible, and I also wish you a happy and satisfactory marriage.