How many times have you said the mantra of China's parents?

Why can't you be like others? Why are you more disobedient when you grow up? What did I just tell you? How many times have you said these words?

Children should not be looked down upon.

The biggest blow to children is to say that they can't, especially in front of outsiders. It is right to praise other people's children, but please don't belittle your own children.

Children need tolerance.

Children always have naughty and disobedient stages, which is the only way for children to grow up. Try to be tolerant of children. Everyone comes from children. Think about when you were a kid. Are you particularly disgusted with adults saying such things?

Don't blame the children.

This sentence has a strong accusation meaning, showing parents' extreme impatience. As soon as the child hears it, he will desperately think: Oh, no, what did mom just say? I really forgot ... As a result, my parents got angry and my children flushed with anxiety. In fact, at this time, parents might as well put it another way, such as: I tell you for the last time ... it is much more meaningful to remind children not to do anything with warnings than to blame them.