My mother-in-law found out that my father-in-law secretly loves me and wants a divorce.

My mother-in-law found out that my father-in-law secretly loves me and wants a divorce.

I have been married for three years, and I have been with my husband for no more than three months. It can be said that I am widowed when I marry him. He has been a soldier abroad for many years, and now he has been promoted, and his demobilization is in the foreseeable future. To tell the truth, I have been disappointed in my marriage. I want to give up!

It really doesn't matter if I live with my in-laws now. Fortunately, they are all very kind to me and treat me as a daughter-in-law and bosom friend. My grandfather cares more about my care. He is the one who arranged the marriage for us.

My father-in-law used to be the leader of our unit. Soon after I appointed him, he took a fancy to me. He said he had an excellent son and wanted to introduce him to us. Later, he brought a photo of Wei Gang. The young man was really handsome. When I learned that he was a soldier abroad, he was hesitant at first, including my parents. Later, my father-in-law advised me again and again that after I met Wei Gang, we both had feelings for each other, so this matter began to take shape. A year later, we got married.

I thought he would come back after three years of military service. But later, he was admitted to the military academy, became a volunteer and got a job. In this way, the distance between me and him will be widened. At first, I often called and chatted online. But this year, our feelings are getting weaker and weaker. Not so much lazy as hiding. He seems to avoid me on purpose for fear of being disturbed. I'm a little confused, too. I have no passion.

They are all young people. It is certainly unrealistic to live like this for a long time. My in-laws also saw my change, and my contact with the opposite sex began to increase frequently. They see it in their eyes and are anxious in their hearts. At the same time, I always feel that my husband has a new love outside. I checked his diary and Weibo. He is hot and close to a female officer. . .

My father-in-law tried his best to stabilize my mood. He paid me to learn driving, let me travel in my spare time, and gave me small birthday gifts from time to time. Like my father, he cares about me kindly and lovingly. I am very touched. However, all these actions, in the mother-in-law's view, he has another purpose. My mother-in-law is jealous of me.

A while ago, my father-in-law retired from his leadership position and was in a bad mood. Instead of understanding and comforting, the mother-in-law made a mountain out of a molehill and made a fuss. I still vaguely feel that it has something to do with me.

I once eavesdropped on their quarrel. My mother-in-law said that if Wei Gang didn't come back, I would leave this house sooner or later. My father-in-law disagreed, saying that she was deliberately alienating and provoking. Said I would be a good daughter-in-law, and he knew me well. My mother-in-law sarcastically insulted my father-in-law and said that she knew what he was worried about. Between the words of my mother-in-law, it is pointed out everywhere that my father-in-law likes me and secretly loves me. In a rage, my father-in-law also affirmed. . .

I was distracted. How could they do that? My father-in-law and I are innocent. He is an elder and a fatherly person at heart. Why does mother-in-law think so, and why does father-in-law want to be sure? Didn't you make fun of me on purpose?

Since my father-in-law resigned, the contradiction between my in-laws has been escalating. It has been half a year, and I am very tired when I come home from work every day. I have to listen to their arguments when I get home, and it's not all about me. And the more I don't go home on time, the more anxious my father-in-law is. He misses me every day and looks for me everywhere, afraid that I will lose it and run away. That kind of worry is from the heart.

Once I was drinking alone in a nightclub. My father-in-law sat outside the shop with a heavy heart, waiting for me. Until I came home drunk, he was with me in the dark and followed me. He understands my inner distress and boredom. Another time, when my mother-in-law was away, he came home drunk, took my hand and sincerely apologized and said, "Son, I know what you are thinking, and I know that you are unhappy. I did this to you. . . "My father-in-law's sincere apology touched me, and his words touched my soft spot. . .

On the third day, at the weekend, my father-in-law showed me the car after seeing me drinking, and bought me something I liked earlier that day. He is always so determined in doing things. I'm flattered, but my heart is full of joy. . .

However, what I didn't expect was that when I drove home, I was happy, but my mother-in-law was black. He and his father-in-law divorced for this. She scolded him in front of me, saying that she was trying to please her daughter-in-law. Still want to raise a mistress? Because, this sentence, my mother-in-law and I turned over on the spot and choked and drove out. My father-in-law took a taxi in the back and followed me closely. I earnestly advised that novices must pay attention to driving.

I asked my father-in-law, why are you so kind to me and why do you want to buy me a car? My father-in-law just said that he saw me drinking that night and hoped I wouldn't drink while driving. He also said that I would buy a car to stop drinking. I promised him with tears in my eyes and threw myself into his arms for the first time. He is really like a father who cares about my every step.

However, this scene was seen by her mother-in-law hiding in the dark. She misunderstood our relationship again. It's been a month, but even if I explain, she won't listen. She said there were still many things I didn't know. I don't know what she means.

My father-in-law's divorce war has been going on recently. My father-in-law was afraid that I would be wronged and advised me to go back to my mother's house for a few days. He said he would take care of things at home. At that time, he will personally take me home.

I told my parents these things, and my parents advised me to get a divorce. what can I do?