How do women face sexual harassment in the workplace

It seems common for women to encounter sexual harassment in the workplace. Some are long-term relationships. When they are drunk, working overtime or on special occasions, they often can't help touching the people they like. Some belong to natural love, and they don't let go of a little good things around them; Some have certain power to sexually harass female subordinates with the mentality of taking advantage of it, not taking advantage of it.

? In the case of sexual harassment, women will deal with and respond to sexual harassment in several situations:

First, you are interested in her good feelings and soon develop into a lover relationship;

Second, women are unwilling to maintain an ambiguous relationship because of their colleagues' feelings, and they do not take the initiative or refuse. There is even a saying called "politeness";

Third, the woman was afraid of ruining her reputation, losing her job, or failing to do a good job in the future, so she didn't refuse severely, but she also tried to protect herself and tried not to give the harasser an opportunity. Most harassers should also consider the influence, let the two sides get along well and maintain a just right relationship;

Fourth, women try their best to collect evidence, report to the leader once the time is ripe, or resort to the law, so that the harasser loses face, position or even job, and is severely punished by law;

Fifth, immediately make a scene, make a fuss all over the city, embarrass yourself, harassers and unit leaders, and even cause trouble. I have experienced a woman in a subordinate enterprise. After being sexually harassed by the leader, she not only complained everywhere, but also decorated her home with flowers and cried to her husband. Do you think any man can tolerate his wife being bullied? So I found the harasser overnight and beat people slightly. When dealing with it, I learned that the leader is actually a drunken cuddling woman, and there is no substantial harassment at all. This kind of situation will be done, just hiding without a trace. Tell me, if her husband misses, it will kill several people at once. This is the least desirable way.

Therefore, women must know how to protect themselves in the workplace. My method is:

1, self-respect, do the right thing, don't say things that are easy to misunderstand, and don't do behaviors that are easy to misunderstand;

2, learn to look at people, know people, pay more attention to those with ulterior motives, even if it is true feelings, try to avoid being alone;

3. Stay away from people who are considerate or casual to you on the wine table, after drinking and on specific occasions. As long as there is no opportunity, people are also proud people, generally not too much;

4. Call people who are taller than themselves, or call them uncles first, or be respectful, so that they are embarrassed to have ideas and actions;

If you really encounter sexual harassment, you should be calm. The more flustered, the more distracted, the more unscrupulous. A clear refusal, neither humble nor servile. Be aware of the benefits and let the other party know that you can't get cheap, and you may lose your reputation.

Maybe I'm not pretty enough to attract so many people to like me, or maybe few people in my environment don't care. In short, after decades in the workplace, I came here quietly.