My husband often sends me text messages to harass me.

I have no experience in these questions, but I know there is a saying called "Chinese medicine is shallow", and you are about to become lovers. What problems can't be solved together? Don't let this problem bother you until you get married, so it will roll bigger and bigger like a snowball. In the end, it will hurt not only you, but also your little baby who is about to come into this world. I believe that you will not be happy until this problem is solved. Go on telling him your problem. But don't question him loudly in a questioning tone. You can ask him if he has any questions first. Then ask your question why he has been sending messages recently to see if what he said is not reliable. I hope this is a beautiful misunderstanding between you and your future husband. I wish you all happiness.