What is the mentality of being cheated and unwilling to report the case?

I've really experienced this. I was cheated in public. Why don't I call the police, because I believe the police can't solve it? Now I think we should call the police, at least we can't let them hurt others, and I still have no confidence in the police comrades. I call the police, will the cheated money come back? I just ha ha, now that I think about it, I think those people who cheated on me are really hateful.

Personally, I think that being cheated and unwilling to report the case may have the following reasons.

First, reporting a case cannot solve practical problems. Because things have happened, even if you report the case, in reality, many police officers register as a routine, and then tell you that we will try our best to help you deal with it, but it is very difficult. If there is any news, I will tell you, and then there will be no more. It's not that the police really don't do things, but that many things are really difficult to operate, so the problem was not actually solved in the end, so they chose not to report the case.

Secondly, I want to hide something from others. Because being cheated is not a glorious thing after all, most people have the idea of spending money to buy lessons, and it is shameful to be known by others. Once you report it, it will make a big deal, and eventually it may be known to all the neighbors, and it may also cause some unnecessary trouble!

Furthermore, there is also a case of reluctance to report the case, that is, the deceived person may be an acquaintance of the deceived person, and even if he is cheated, he is unwilling to make a big deal out of it and leave no room. If you report it, it is estimated that it will be difficult to * * * in the future. I want to give each other a chance. It's safer to handle it privately than to go through legal procedures, and there may be that favor!

The above is purely a personal opinion. If you have different opinions, please leave a message!

Deceived people don't want to report that there are three kinds of mentality:

1, the amount of fraud is not large, not only calling the police, but also not filing a case. I live in a rented house downstairs and open a sticker workshop. I took my work home and processed it for 300 yuan. Who paid the deposit? The boss ran away with the money, and the person who paid the deposit got two sets of borders and drawings Several people jointly reported the case to the police station, and the police station asked them to contact the deceived person to report the case. After reaching a certain amount, they can file a case. Because the processing workers are unfamiliar with each other and have difficulty in contact, they will go away.

2. Being deceived and unwilling to report the case is not only to report the case, but also to file a case, which may not be able to solve the case. A great-grandmother was shopping in the free market when she met a woman and said that her son would have a car accident and that she could find an expert to solve it. She loves her son very much, so she took out the unexpired deposit of 30 thousand yuan from the bank according to the instructions of the expert, wrapped it in paper, and replaced it after the expert made it. Great-grandmother opened it within the specified time, and when she saw that it was all mingbi, her family immediately reported the case. After the police station filed the case, it failed to solve the case.

3. Being cheated is because of taking advantage of petty gain, knowing the possibility of being cheated, being cheated for petty gain, being humiliated by everyone after reporting the case, and unwilling to report the case in order to maintain the image of a gentleman.

Flies don't bite seamless eggs. As long as you are not greedy, superstitious and communicate with your family when you are in trouble, it is possible to reduce or avoid being cheated.

First, I feel ugly because I don't want to be exposed. When calling the police, it is easy to be known by others, especially neighbors and children: neighbors may laugh when they know, and they can't afford to lose this person; Children know that they will be harsh on the elderly and are afraid that their parents will find out their mistakes.

Second, distrust. I feel cheated and I can't get it back anyway. Indeed, it is impossible to solve all criminal cases, and even fraud cases themselves are difficult to solve, so it is not surprising to think so.

Third, think about it. Anyway, I am old, thinking that I can live for a few years, and some of the money is not particularly huge. Anyway, some children are unfilial, so what if they leave a legacy?

Fourth, there is another category that I can't remember at all. I have never dealt with the police station in my life, and many people simply don't remember to call the police.

For this problem, it is necessary to distinguish whether the cheated thing is serious or not and whether the case is big or small. Otherwise, the police won't have to solve the case, and the small case that was cheated will be too busy. We live in the world, and there are many things that we are cheated. Cheated of money, feelings, abilities, marriage and so on. It is very common in society.

If the amount of fraud is large, you should report it, and if the amount is small, you can not report it. The so-called roll with the punches and roll with the punches. Many people don't want to report the case because they don't want to cause trouble, and they don't want to bother the police for a trivial matter and waste the resources of the country. The amount of fraud is large, of course, you have to report it. A man is not stupid enough not to want his money back. Unless the source of a large amount of funds is unknown.

Being cheated is the most complicated thing. Because it is the pain point of personal privacy, many people would rather suffer from it than expose their privacy to the public. This may be because the deceived person did not report the case and tried to hide his sad and painful past in front of everyone as usual!

Being cheated is even more reluctant to report the case, because it is an invisible and intangible sad past. Cheated by relatives, cheated by friends, cheated by strangers and so on. This is a common thing in our life. If you report the case, people will look at you differently, say you behind your back, laugh at you, and even scold you. There must be many people who don't want to report this kind of thing!

First, the potential influence of the tradition of "no litigation" on people's psychology will subconsciously think that litigation is very troublesome (in fact, litigation does involve a lot of time, energy and money).

Second, people will weigh the possibility of recovering losses in fraud cases, and may give up reporting because there is little hope.

Third, it is also very important. In fact, the victim's fault is still very popular in public opinion. For example, if you are cheated, you must be stupid, ignorant, and so on. The deceived will also hide it because of shame.

Fourth, the popularization of law has a long way to go. Although various legal texts are readily available on the Internet, many people still don't understand the law, or have a wrong understanding of the law, and will not defend their rights according to law.

Fifth, law enforcement agencies, law enforcement fees, legal IOUs, etc. All kinds of unsatisfactory status quo may make it difficult for people to defend their rights according to law. After all, we are a country ruled by law under construction. However, with the improvement of the detection rate of fraud cases and the standardization of law enforcement, fraud cases will become less and less.

A few days ago, a news that millions of cash were dug up from the wall of a broken house immediately caused an overwhelming discussion among netizens.

This news is about Baise, Guangxi, an old revolutionary base area. The local police cracked a telecom fraud case and arrested several suspects. Under the confession of the suspect, the police took the suspect to his rural hometown, and finally dug up the wall and dug up more than 4 million cash in the mezzanine in the middle of the wall.

What is psychology? Why am I always cheated? Because you don't understand the psychology of fraud!

More than 4 million in cash, I don't know how many hard-earned money ordinary people have been cheated!

The wind control girl has always been puzzled. Why do posters against telecom fraud cover the walls and ceilings around ATM machines, but still can't stop some old people from sending money to scammers? As a result, in the end, "the old man was cheated to ask for remittance, and the bank had no choice but to cut off the power supply of the ATM."

What is psychology? Why am I always cheated? Because you don't understand the psychology of fraud!

That's because people have always avoided fraudsters and never really understood the fraud psychology used by fraudsters when committing crimes. Therefore, even if the bank staff tried their best to persuade them, they still couldn't pull back the hearts of the old people who were firmly grasped by fraudsters.

What is psychology? Why am I always cheated? Because you don't understand the psychology of fraud!

This heart may be the temptation of interest, or it may be because of fear. Therefore, today, Suning Financial Risk Control Girl combines relevant fraud cases to analyze the psychological techniques commonly used by fraudsters.

The logic of telecom fraud is generally divided into four stages: obtaining information, inducing threats, exerting pressure and delaying reporting. The following analysis is made one by one:

1. Obtaining information and building trust are the basis of fraud.

With the popularity of Internet applications and people's dependence on the Internet, the security problem of the Internet has become increasingly prominent. Malicious programs, all kinds of phishing and fraud keep growing at a high speed. At the same time, hacking attacks and large-scale disclosure of personal information are frequent. The sharp increase of various cyber attacks is accompanied by the continuous increase of personal information disclosure and property losses of a large number of netizens. The swindler's deception method has evolved from blind deception to "personal customization". They can directly quote your name and your latest online shopping goods or ticket information, which is easy to build trust and set the stage for fraud.

Demolition: According to public information, since 20 1 1, the private information of165438+27 million users has been leaked. Include basic information, equipment information, account information, privacy information, social relation information and network behavior information. Therefore, your information is not confidential. Don't trust anyone who can tell you personal information 100%. He is probably a swindler who tries his best to cheat money.

To this end, it is necessary to verify the source of the information received. If it is the information of ticket change, call the airline to verify the authenticity of the change information. If it is online shopping return information, call the official contact information of the e-commerce website to confirm.

2. Persuade threats, from trust to trap.

Whether it is seduction or threat, it is to let the victim enter the preset fraud trap. Once the victim believes the swindler's words and enters the role he made up, he will further relax his vigilance and listen to the swindler's command more easily.

Demolition: Sister Feng Control summed up the common identities of fraudsters through case analysis: banks, TV stations, online shop sellers, airlines, public security law, medical insurance, provident fund, etc. If you receive such a phone call or text message, you need to be vigilant. The method is still verified by the authorities. Whether it is a government agency or a service organization such as a bank, there is an official telephone number. Just write down the identity information said by the criminals and verify it by official telephone. Of course, you can also install applications such as mobile phone housekeeper, which will directly display "the source of the call is marked as a fraudulent call" when the call comes in.

3. Put pressure on the victim to give up the last straw.

Even if you fall into the trap preset by criminals, most people will still maintain certain independent thinking ability, such as trying to verify the authenticity of information by other means, but at this time criminals will often put the last pressure on you, which will easily make you give up the last straw and completely lose the ability of self-judgment. The most typical pressure is: time is tight, do it now, otherwise it will endanger life or suffer losses. If you have entered the role so deeply, it is difficult to redeem yourself, and you can only instill in yourself the idea that "impulse is the devil".

4. The delay in reporting the case is the key to the irreparable loss of the victim.

This is the last and most critical item of telecom fraud. If the victim reports the case in time, many losses can be frozen through the bank. Therefore, in order to delay the victim's reporting time as much as possible, criminals will "advance education" the victim in the fraud, so that the victim can believe that if they call the police, they will bring harm to themselves, such as being caught or damaged their reputation, and there are typical pornographic fraud.

Seeing this, I believe everyone has seen through the psychological techniques commonly used by scammers-temptation, fear, pornography, etc. If you encounter these fraud routines, you will be able to bypass the trap perfectly, and a powerful reader may even help the police get rid of fraud gangs.

Psychological analysis of being cheated and not calling the police;

1, if the amount of fraud is limited, it should be able to avoid disaster;

2. I don't believe that I can recover the money after calling the police;

3. After calling the police, the police will file an investigation, ask questions and collect evidence, and they will demonstrate the detailed process of being cheated, which means that they will suffer a second psychological injury and their self-esteem is unacceptable;

4. I am afraid that others will laugh at me for being greedy and cheated. My IQ is too low and I look down on myself.

5, boat, you and the liar have secrets that should not be made public.

Please believe that the people's police are for the people and will never let the swindlers get away with it; Please report the case boldly, so that the swindlers have nothing to hide, so that more people can be vigilant and avoid property losses.

The main reason is the lack of trust in the people's police. For example, if foreigners lose a bicycle, they will be motivated! Wait for the liar to trap himself! [Laugh] [Laugh] [Laugh]

The first feeling is that things are hopeless and it is useless to call the police.

Second, I am afraid of shame and don't want to tell anyone.

Third, there are other secrets in it, for example, things are colluded.