My girlfriend said that she bothers me and hates me every day, but I am sick. She sends several messages, asks questions and cares about me every day.

Girls are full of duplicity. Girls are always duplicitous. Beating is love, scolding is scolding. There are several messages every day to show that they care about you, indicating that they still love you and care about you very much. Don't take what she said to annoy you to heart. If you don't like it, you can tell her frankly that you don't like it.

Oh, your girlfriend doesn't understand you and doesn't know how to cherish you. It can also be said that you don't know how to be blessed when you are blessed.

Maybe she just said you were annoyed, but she didn't mean it. The so-called women love duplicity.

You can learn to change anyway. She said she was bored and didn't like you like this. You don't have to do this. Sometimes you care less than before. That's why you care more, and she should take it for granted. If you care less, she may know how to cherish it. Maybe one day she will ask you that you didn't love me or care about me before. At that time, you can say that you used to care about you, very much. . You can tell it as a joke.

In this way, she will cherish you more and love you more than before.

A word from Zhang Xiaoxian:

"The best way to keep a person by your side is to make him feel that you can leave him at any time."

This is my advice as a woman. Don't try.