My ex, whom I haven't contacted for half a year, suddenly sent me a message, and my boyfriend didn't want to make it public.

As the saying goes, "wise men don't enter the gentle country, fools give up on themselves." After breaking up with her boyfriend, she didn't want to go public. After a woman meets her feelings, how many people will guarantee the life realm of a smart person?

These conceited "smart people" are just the "wisdom" mainly displayed by others, and people may become stupid after them.

After a relationship develops gradually, some women never think that she and her current boyfriend will be separated one day. So, when that day came, women were caught off guard.

In any case, I don't want to believe that the man who said he loved her again and again in the past tore up his face faster than opening a book and said he didn't love her.

Many women can't get out of the shadow of lovelorn, mainly because the difference between men before and after separation is too great, far beyond the scope that women can carry out.

Women will wonder. Did he really love me in the past? Does he really not love me today? Why was he so affectionate in the past and so heartless now?

The problems expressed are enough for a woman to close herself up. She may not be able to meet another person in a short time, which is more serious. A woman may never meet love and men again.

I have some examples around me. After the girls broke up with their ex-boyfriends, some were depressed, some were obese, and some had suicidal thoughts.

The boyfriend who broke up doesn't want to go public. If you want to tell all the girls who have experienced the pain of lovelorn and separation, everything will pass. If you think you can't walk, I'm willing to walk hand in hand with you.

When I first met Xiaonian, her situation was particularly bad. Everyone has no mental outlook at all, their faces are dull and their eyes are dull. Because she became thinner briefly, she was a little out of tune. I saw her old photos, so I can't compare them.

Xiaonian fell in love with her ex-boyfriend for five years. In the second year of their relationship, they have already set a wedding date. They were supposed to get married at 520 that year. There are some interludes in the middle, which have also become a bad feeling that can't be finished in my life.

Because the two people had a little friction on the key point of marriage, Xiaonian said that she didn't want to get married and separated.

All women know and understand that when women say this, they just expect men to coax and hug themselves. Xiaonian thinks her boyfriend will say, "What hand? Do not distinguish. "

If the boyfriend says so, the annual meeting will admit that he is wrong at the first time, then pretend to be cute with his boyfriend and plan their wedding reception the next day.

As we all know, off-year ex-boyfriend said, "OK."

The next day, all the boyfriends disappeared, and so did his only mother.

Xiaonian's wedding reception with her boyfriend didn't go well, and it took her a month to know the truth. It turns out that her boyfriend and his mother have temporarily found a bride to replace Xiao Nian. The wedding date will not change, nor will the furniture and layout at home. Only the bride has changed.

Although for various reasons, my boyfriend and that girl _ got married, although Xiaonian and her boyfriend finally got back together.

However, in Xiao Nian's heart, she has long since passed away, her ex-boyfriend has also passed away, and her ex-mother-in-law has been dismembered.

It's the fifth year of their relationship. Xiaonian and her boyfriend broke up again for some reasons of their ex-wife. I can't think, eat or work, just like being evacuated.

After three years of reunion, Xiaonian had a good relationship with her boyfriend, and she even married her boyfriend the next day.

However, every time I think of the past, I am full of confidence in my future. Because she doesn't know whether she and her boyfriend will disappear again in case of conflict in the future.

Two people didn't break up, because off-year found that they could no longer contact their boyfriends. He didn't answer the phone or return to WeChat, just like the man three years ago, he once again passed the buck. I didn't say a word. I said I couldn't see it and disappeared.

For half a year, I didn't know how I came back. I fell asleep with tears in my eyes these days. I was in tears these days. I almost called my boyfriend irrationally these days. Everything is finally developing in a good direction.

Xiaonian _ has told everyone about the affair with her ex-boyfriend, but she is, after all, and they really love each other. I didn't get together in the end. If it weren't for fate, they really didn't fit.

The ex-boyfriend will contact Xiaonian again, which she never expected. For half a year, my ex-boyfriend has no information at all, not a mobile phone WeChat or a phone call. Even if Xiaonian watched so many short videos of sad vibrato, it was half a year before she contacted Xiaonian.

The information given by her ex-boyfriend to Xiaonian has only three words, "compound".

The person who hesitates now is a child. Does she need to get back together with her ex-boyfriend?

I think I'll give you a fancy hug first. I understand that you have lived a very difficult life in the past six months. You are worried, miserable, sad and confused.

You always want the other person to communicate with you, whether for a better reunion or for a better separation. But he kept you waiting for half a year and you were cold and disappointed.

After half a year, he suddenly contacted, which made people very angry. Especially when he gets back together. This confuses you. If you want to get back together, what did you do in the early days?

Is this also the sincerity of reunion?

If _ is true, is this combination useful? Is it necessary and dare?

Xiao nian, judging from the reflection of her boyfriend's two breakups in the past, seems to be a very easy person to avoid, and in essence lacks the sense of responsibility and courage to face difficulties.

And this kind of responsibility and courage, frankly speaking, is very crucial for a marriage relationship. In life, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of things. If he keeps avoiding it, you will eventually be left alone to deal with it.

Do you have to deal with all that food, clothing, housing and transportation? Is this the married life you want?

I understand. Five years is a long time. You must have had a lot of happiness, otherwise it would not be easy to be together for so many years. This kind of happiness makes you more worried and nostalgic when he wants to get back together.

However, married life and love are different after all. The people you have to deal with are different from the daily life you have to face.

Not only the responsibility of the other party, but also your complete trust in him. If you bring uncertainty and distrust, it is a waste of time and missed time for you.

The boyfriend who broke up doesn't want to be public, so I wish you meet that person as soon as possible and let you have a stable and happy life.