How to understand that a girl never sends you a message, but you will reply when you send her a message?

Recently, a teenager chatted with me and said that the situation of several girls he met recently was similar to that I met. Chat and send WeChat after meeting. Girls never send you WeChat on their own initiative, but when you send her a message, they will basically reply, feeling hopeful and hopeless. It's uncomfortable to hang around like this. I think this is the case for girls.

1, some like you.

This situation is ideal. Maybe she really likes you a little, especially not annoying. At least she is willing to try to get along and get in touch, but she may be introverted and don't know how to get in touch with people. Dare not and will not take the initiative to chat with others. She may still have some affection for you, and she has been paying attention to your news to give you back, fearing to miss every interaction with you, but she is particularly shy and reserved, afraid to take the initiative in her feelings, afraid to expose her love for you, afraid to start, afraid to end, and even more afraid of being hurt. You have never made it clear that you want to chase her or like her. She is afraid of romance.

You are good at licking dogs.

Every chat is initiated by you, and you will please her with no dignity and no bottom line and send all kinds of gifts. When you think you have touched the sky, in fact, you are only touched by yourself. As a dog licker, you are excellent. It's always nice to lick the dog for a while, but she can't bear to hurt you. After all, protecting dogs is everyone's responsibility. As long as I give you something that looks like hope, you will be good to her. She likes to enjoy the feeling of your kneeling. In fact, you are poor. You are not even a spare tire. You think you can impress her to accept you. The child should wash and get some sleep.

Step 3 make a spare tire

When it comes to blind date, most of them are each other's spare tires. If they can't find a more suitable one, they will get along first. Maybe she thinks you are not bad, but you don't meet her ideal requirements. It may be because of some reasons, such as your face value, figure, job or deposit, etc. You are lucky to have the potential to be a spare tire, and you can carry it forward. Of course, you can't care too much about the spare tire, but you can't be too indifferent. At least hang it up. She doesn't think it's necessary to refuse you, and there's nothing wrong with one more person caring and greeting.

The most important thing is that girls don't like you, and then they are reserved, passive and introverted. If the boy you like takes the initiative, he will also take the initiative to associate with the boy. If the boys take the initiative, the girls still don't refuse or ignore it, and they look indifferent, then I advise you to give up before it's too late.

Step 4 be polite

I once had a blind date with a girl, that is, you would reply to her when chatting, but never take the initiative to find you. You ask her how she feels about you, and the answer is to be an ordinary friend. Sending messages by others is a polite answer to you. Not only you, but also other people who send messages to her will not refuse and will reply. This is called polite discrimination.