How can a girl reply if she doesn't feel anything?

How can a girl reply if she doesn't feel anything?

Girls can't respond to you if they don't feel it. Man is the most complex creature in the world, and different people have different feelings and influences. People have obvious mood and emotional changes, just like people are pursuing the feeling of rejection from others. Share as follows. How can a girl reply if she doesn't feel it?

When a girl tells you that she doesn't feel anything, how can she reply 1? First, girls tell the truth and feel nothing.

1, failed to meet the psychological expectations of girls.

The feeling that girls want is actually an emotion. They need a carrier to express their feelings. Moreover, girls are inherently insecure and want to guide themselves to find a partner through an external force.

Because of this, they are more likely to pin their feelings on "feeling" to fill their emotional holes, and are more likely to be induced by "love at first sight" and "feeling of love", so if they don't give a girl such a feeling, then she will think that you are not suitable for her, that is, she has not met her psychological expectations, and then they can't directly refuse you, so they refuse your confession with "no feeling".

2. Nothing knows girls better than this.

Many brothers think it's good to chat with their sisters, but the feedback from the other side is not good, and they always reply with short words like "Uh-huh". In fact, the reason for this situation is that they have been catering to girls, but they don't know her better and lack effective communication.

I have to mention the difference in thinking between men and women. Compared with the problem-solving straight thinking of boys, girls tend to be more emotional and care more about emotional experience and feelings.

Take a girl as an example. If she holds the problem-solving thinking and lets the girl drink more water and take medicine to help her solve the problem, she will not be very happy. But if you express your love for her, give her verbal care and empathy, and care about the girl's emotions and feelings, she will be extremely moved.

Therefore, if you are chatting or getting along, you must understand the emotions and feelings of girls more, so that you won't pay a lot or be easily rejected by girls who don't feel.

Second, the girl said that she didn't feel how to reply to resolve the embarrassment.

1, if you don't respond positively to girls.

Woman: I'm not interested in you. I don't feel anything.

Man: COVID-19 is so serious now. If you really catch a cold, wouldn't we be put in a dark room?

Woman: … ..

M: Then I must protect myself.

Here, even if we can understand that the girl's sentence may mean refusal, don't respond positively to the girl, because once you respond to the other party, you will inevitably fall into the passive side of the relationship.

Here, we use "COVID-19" to brush off girls' rejection, shift the topic to other aspects, and set up the scene of "little black room" in advance and say the words "protect yourself", which can better stimulate girls' emotions and thus narrow the distance between them.

2. Throw the question back to the girl.

Woman: I'm not interested in you. I don't feel anything.

M: Then what's the reason for your cold? Cold air?

Woman: Not like you anyway.

What kind of person am I? Handsome and charming?

Female: loquacious

Throw the question back to the girl and let her answer it. Obviously, the girl doesn't want to answer it. Faced with this situation, many brothers may not know what to say. In fact, we can ask that girl again to expand this contradiction. Don't think it is bad to argue with that girl. Such an argument is actually an interaction, which can deepen girls' impression of you.

Of course, just skin it properly, otherwise girls will think that you are not serious enough, so when girls' attitudes change, you should also be serious to balance yourself.

What do girls mean when they tell you they don't feel anything?

If you want to know what "feeling" means, you have to talk about the evolutionary history of the brain.

There is a book called "Evolutionary Brain", which says that the original brain shape of human beings is different from today, and the brain we have now is formed through continuous evolution.

To put it bluntly, the brain was not designed to look like it is now from the beginning, just like building a house, constantly adding bricks and tiles to build its current structure.

In the eyes of scientists, the brain just stacks different functional modules together.

The brain stem is the core part of the brain, and life functions such as blood pressure, heartbeat and desire to eat and drink are controlled by it.

And people's emotions are controlled by the limbic system of the brain, from which all the joys and sorrows come.

The cerebral cortex is in the outermost layer, and thinking, reasoning and rationality are mainly realized by it.

The closer we get to the bottom of the brain stem, the stronger our feelings will be, just as your desire to drink water is always stronger than your pursuit of a play.

Therefore, men who want to pursue girls with strong logical reasoning skills will always die in the end. It is unrealistic to make girls feel loved with logical behavior from the beginning.

Another feature of the brain is that those instructions from the lower brain are rationalized by the cerebral cortex.

The most common example, when you ask a girl why she likes that boy, the girl will often reply "His chubby appearance is very attractive" or "He is as fat as a big white and very practical".

In fact, to put it bluntly, these reasons are based on the premise that girls already have feelings for boys. Because they like it, they look for a suitable reason from logical thinking.

This is why people who love each other can always regard each other's shortcomings as advantages. On the contrary, if a girl doesn't like a person, the advantages he is proud of are also shortcomings in the eyes of girls.

Therefore, "feeling" is just a limbic system response.

Don't waste time logically persuading girls to fall in love with themselves, it will not achieve the expected effect.

The rationalization of the brain is orderly and can only be rationalized from top to bottom. I have never heard of anyone who can rationalize the top from the bottom.

Some buddies think that touching girls is the most effective way to make girls accept themselves.

No, your efforts only touched her logical brain, and her emotional brain did not appear any waves.

Touching is only a temporary effect and soon disappears. Nine times out of ten, a man who shows his love by touching will be rejected.

How does "feeling" come about?

A girl turned you down on the grounds of "no feeling". In the final analysis, your performance did not stimulate her emotional brain, and her emotions and body did not produce a desire to like you.

No matter how you use your brain logic to convince her, you can't reach the desired state.

So what can be done to make girls "feel"?

In fact, compared with logical brain, the earliest evolution is human emotional brain, which means that emotional brain has appeared before people have the ability of logical thinking.

Humans have lived in this world for more than one million years. Men and women are born with physiological differences, so their respective division of labor is also different, which is also the reason why men and women have different preferences for mate selection.

What do men care most about when choosing a spouse?

Age, appearance, figure, health and so on, while women value the survival value brought by men more.

Under different social conditions, the content of survival value will be different.

For example, in primitive society, women prefer tall and strong men, which can help them resist foreign enemies and bring them a sense of security.

Nowadays, women pay more attention to men's IQ level and knowledge reserve, and tall appearance is no longer so important.

Therefore, if you don't want a girl to say "no feelings" to you, you have to know what survival value points you have that meet the needs of girls, and show these favorable value points, so that girls' emotional brains are stimulated and "feelings" naturally come.

So which value points are the most important? What value points can be improved in a short time?

Key indicators to make girls "feel"

① Good and stable mood.

In primitive society, men punished by chiefs were instinctively regarded by women as lacking in survival value because their status had declined or completely lost.

Women will judge from their depressed mood and godless eyes that this man has lost his value.

If a man wants to be attractive, he must have a good and stable mood. Positive emotions can drive a girl's emotions, make her have a happy life experience, and make her want to be with this man on her own initiative.

② Dissolution test

The values such as figure and appearance that men value are often brought directly by women.

However, it is difficult to see through the survival value of a man that a woman values. A woman will not judge whether a man meets her needs just by his words, but will come up with some quizzes to test him.

These tests sometimes mean making things difficult or hitting, so the results are often more realistic.

If the test is successfully solved, women will become more and more interested in this man, and the so-called "feeling" will come.

If the test plan fails, women will take their attention away from men.

Women don't spend a lot of energy to test a man who doesn't meet her needs. Only those men who attract girls first and make them incomprehensible have the opportunity to accept such a test.

③ Strengthen the matching degree

The external image and state are the same. Although we all know that those handsome stars have become so dazzling through packaging, they will still feel very unhappy if they wear the same clothes and makeup.

Why is this happening?

External image is also a kind of values. Women are generally attracted to external images first. If you enlarge your present social value, you will attract more girls to test you.

But because of your lack of self-confidence, you can't keep it like this, and you don't have enough experience to resolve the waste test, which leads to your embarrassment.

Images also have matching degree, so we should strengthen our matching degree appropriately. Although men don't need to invest heavily in their faces like women, a clean and handsome face can still strengthen their advantages.

Women also have the heart to compare with others, and all want to appear in front of others with a good-looking man. If you can strengthen your appearance matching, more girls will contact you actively.

It doesn't matter if girls say "no feelings". Love can be cultivated slowly, and there is no final decision.

When a girl says "no feelings" to you, in fact, your existing conditions can't attract her. If you find the right direction to break through yourself, she can also change from "no feeling" to "feeling".

What do girls mean by not feeling? 3. What do girls mean by not feeling anything or being friends?

1. A girl who has expressed her love means to be friends.

This sentence is easy to judge for girls who have already expressed their love and clearly expressed their affection. Maybe it's your obvious expression that makes her feel stressed, or maybe you are eager to get the girl to give you a clear attitude. Without 100% confirmation, she can only refuse. It is also possible that when girls get along, they find that they don't call you and don't like you. I suggest you quit.

The girl you just met means to be friends.

For girls who have just met and haven't conveyed an intuitive sense of need, girls say this mostly to test you. She is testing whether you have fallen at her feet, or whether you are a valuable boy with attitude.

When frustrated men encounter this situation, they will ask questions and explain. For example, in fact, I knew you wouldn't like my model.

This is a trap for girls, and girls immediately lose interest in you. Intuitive need refers to confession, gift-giving, please, and be caring and attentive. In short, girls know you like her.

3. A girl who talked for a while means to be friends.

For girls who have been in contact for a while, making friends is mostly because girls have no feelings for you and are rejecting you.

You know, a girl doesn't want to be a bad person or offend others, so she uses being a friend as an excuse to imply that she doesn't like you.

Second, girls say to be friends, do you want to keep chasing?

To sum up, if it is the latter two cases, you still have a good chance. If you really like her and can't let it go, then take the time to learn some ways to correctly warm up the relationship with girls and strive to enhance your attractiveness.

If it is the former in the first case, you still have a good chance. After all, there is plenty of time. As long as she doesn't delete you and completely deny you, you can continue to pursue. But if it is the latter, you can basically give up the pursuit.