My boyfriend is in the army and often doesn't return my text messages. I know he is busy, but I still can't accept his not returning my text messages.

When you ask this question yourself, do you feel that you think too much? You really think too much. In the army, unlike in other units, the army is not so free. You know, but why do you ask such a stupid question? You said yourself, he secretly sent you a message. I'm afraid you think too much this time. I'll call you in advance to explain the situation, but you still have to think too much. What do you want him to do? What does he think? What can he think? He's just training. He's worried about your text messages. He's afraid you're in a hurry. How many seconds does it take to reply to the message? Would it make you feel better if he was punished for answering your text messages? I said so many rhetorical questions. I am very straightforward. I really think you think too much. This shows that you are really a clingy girlfriend. I understand your feelings, but your worry is really unnecessary. First of all, you should be proud of being Bing Ge's girlfriend. At the same time, you should be happy that he can risk keeping in touch with you under strict military discipline. But in turn, you should think of him. Thinking of him doesn't mean that you are thinking here and haven't received a reply, but that you understand him from his point of view, support him, and let him do a good job in the army with peace of mind. This is what you should do. Are you so worried that he will change his mind and lose him? But not returning your text messages doesn't mean that centrifugal things are going to happen. If your boyfriend makes you feel safe enough, will you still be so anxious? Do you feel uneasy about life or don't trust him enough? Love needs mutual understanding and trust. If you can't think from the other person's perspective, even if you say how much you love him, your heavy "love" will eventually drive him away. Don't think too much, live a good life now, do your job well and wait for him to come back. If one day he really changes his mind, it's not something you can worry about now. If you expect him to love you, think about how you should love him first. Sincere relationships don't disappear so easily. Believe in him, believe in yourself, and may all lovers get married. I say so much because I know a soldier brother who is commensurate with his brother and sister. When he was in the army, it was difficult to keep in touch with his girlfriend by mobile phone. He often told me this kind of trouble, saying that sometimes he would take the risk of replying several times because he was afraid that she would miss him, but once he was caught and punished. Do you think this is interesting?