How to give gifts?

Some people are always unnatural when giving gifts to others, and their hearts are always jumping, which makes both sides embarrassed and embarrassed to meet in the future. How to give gifts? Let me teach you some gift-giving words with high emotional intelligence.

People say that China's language is profound-"One sentence can make people jump and one sentence can make people laugh". Indeed, proper language can bring happiness to many people and convenience to themselves. On the contrary, inappropriate language often brings unhappiness to people.

In the process of giving gifts, proper language can not only express the giver's mind, but also make the recipient feel at ease. When giving gifts, we should pay attention to language expression, and peaceful, friendly and natural movements should be matched with appropriate language expression, so that the recipient can accept the gift happily.

When giving a gift, the giver should generally stand, hand the gift to the other party with both hands and say an appropriate sentence. The greeting when giving a gift should be consistent with the purpose of the gift. For example, say "Happy Birthday to you" when giving birthday gifts, "Happy New Year to you" when giving wedding gifts, and "Happy New Year" when giving New Year gifts ... Some people like to emphasize the meager gifts. No salute, please accept it. ""This is a little gift for me. At this time, I can also say what money I spent on the gift, such as "Please accept it as a small gift". In fact, it is much better to show your sincerity, such as "I chose this for you specially", than to be too modest.

When giving gifts, westerners like to introduce the unique meaning and value of gifts to the recipients to show their attention to each other. Different from the West, modesty is the traditional virtue of China people, and China people often have the habit of modesty when giving gifts.

Generally speaking, using modest and decent language when giving gifts will create a peaceful atmosphere and enhance mutual friendship invisibly. Excessive modesty, such as "small gift", "meager", "rude" or "very sorry", may be despised by the other party.

Of course, if you say "this is a very valuable thing!" in an almost proud tone when giving. When introducing gifts, we should emphasize our goodwill and love for the recipient, rather than the actual value of the gift, which is also inappropriate. Otherwise, it will give people the impression that you value ceremony over righteousness, and even make the other party feel that you are showing off. Such a good gift will be ruined by your words, so you won't be wronged.

Rejecting gifts is also a common phenomenon in the process of giving gifts. At this time, we should pay more attention to the appropriateness of language. The giver should not be too reluctant or angry, let alone say something inappropriate, which will worsen the relationship between the two sides. The correct way is that the giver should explain or apologize a little before taking the gift away. Then, analyze the reasons for the recipient's rejection, and then take corresponding actions.

How to give gifts? 2 1. Push the gift to your lover from the beginning.

For example, you can say, "Yes, you are right. I am also thinking that I don't need to give you any gifts to do business with you. Otherwise, I will be an outsider, but my wife said nothing and insisted that I take this thing away. " Now, I brought it, you can accept it, otherwise my wife will definitely scold me for not being sensible, and I can't do anything when I go home. "If the other party is embarrassed to accept your gift directly, this excuse is often very appropriate.

2. Push the gift to the other child from the head.

For example, you can say, "Look, this thing is just a gadget for children, not for you. Don't say I'm here to see you on business, but it's nothing. I just came to see. Don't I want to buy something for my children? "

3. Push the gift to the other parents from the beginning.

For example, you can say, "You're welcome. I bought this for your father. By the way, is the old man in good health recently ... Please give this thing to the old man directly for me, so I won't visit him specially. "

4. Push the gift from the beginning to the friend who wants to do something.

For example, you can say, "My friend bought this gift for you, and I didn't spend any money at all. If you help him get things done, you will help him a lot. You don't have to be polite to him. " Whether someone asks you for help or you just do things for yourself, it is more appropriate.

5. The handling fee for pushing the gift to the other party from the beginning.

For example, you can say, "It's interesting that you promised to help me with my work. How can I let you spend money? Take this thing first and fix it for me if necessary. If it is not enough, you can say hello at any time. "

6. Say that the gift is temporarily stored in the other party's place.

For example, you can say, "I'm not worried about your work, but I'm still prepared." I'll leave this to you first. If it really doesn't work, isn't it just the same for me? "

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