Sister got married.

In the busy wedding work, I obviously felt the ambivalence of my parents' reluctance and comfort. Parents with daughters are always like this at the moment when their daughters get married.

Let's talk about the wedding first. There are natural customs in my hometown. Strictly speaking, this is my first time to watch or participate in this wedding completely. Including my wedding that year, because it was too far away and the ceremony was saved.

Before I got married, I was very confused about engagement, hiring people and sending big festivals, so I ignored them for the time being.

Mom worked so hard and frantically to prepare the dowry that she actually filled two rooms, from air conditioners, televisions and refrigerators to pots and pans, and even bottled water was ready to drink. My mother apologized to me on the phone in advance for this. After I got home, my father apologized again and again, and even my uncle came to do my work. I know in my heart that there will be no thoughts.

Near the wedding day, menstruation got home early for her period. As the closest parents in the family, both husband and wife love the healthy female elders. Many things to marry women need them to do for their sisters, and there are many exquisite things. For example, my brother-in-law is married for the second time, and my aunt is not involved in the above work. So is the man's family.

At the moment I got home, my married daughter went home to be a relative, and I still set off firecrackers like a guest. It's a pity that Brother Pig didn't feel the ceremony of this hometown with me.

The quilt in the dowry, especially the quilt for marriage, was sung by menstruation when she was laying the quilt during her period, which was nothing more than those good wishes. Mascots such as peanuts and dates are kept in the quilt.

The dowry piled up in the next house has to be moved back one by one. Then the items in the main box will be placed. Red paper at the bottom of the box, a pile of flat corners on both sides, a pile of RMB on both sides, and an eye-catching passbook in the middle. Then two people's clothes and shoes are paved layer by layer, and then menstruation carries them to the room to prepare for the dowry. Then there is the second main box, where RMB and passbook are no longer put, and shoes are laid for the husband's family. I have to interrupt here. Once the daughter of the hometown is engaged, the family has to start preparing shoes, and all the main relatives and elders can't leave behind. The more, the better. When I first brought the pig home, my mother prepared two boxes, but it didn't come in handy. Put them away one by one. Don't lock them. The dowry that was originally piled up in the next house has also been moved back.

On the formal wedding day, my sister was called to take a bath early in the morning. Or menstruation's menstrual water, copper coins and pine branches. There is also a set of lyrics. Of course, menstruation can't sing all the songs during her period. After taking a shower and putting on a dress, my sister is the bride to be married, sitting cross-legged on the bed in the master bedroom, surrounded by a bright red quilt. Today, mainly female relatives accompany her in this room. Bathing copper and other things should be put by menstruation under the bed in the master bedroom, indicating that the wealth in the family cannot be taken away by the married daughter.

I also get up before 5 o'clock and start all kinds of work. Two drinking fountains, water bottles, teapots, disposable cups, tea, cakes, sweets and cigarettes, the first job is to receive them. This is a custom at home, but at weddings, funerals and banquets, guests have to set off firecrackers, pour tea and send wedding candy. You must not neglect it. If you miss it, it is a mistake.

When my aunt came to help at 8 o'clock, I left this job and started to do other jobs.

After 9 o'clock, the man's family came to carry the dowry. There are 12 people and two trucks, which must be greeted by the groom, accompanied by cousins and led by uncles. The rest are mainly men who can do manual labor. My brother-in-law doesn't know me and many relatives from other places, but he knows all of them. Of course, he didn't forget me and my two younger brothers' red envelopes. The kitchen is preparing for dinner, nothing more than noodles and eggs. I carry dishes, and I'm a little humble.

After eating, the dowry will begin. This time the main force depends on brothers. Because a younger brother is too young to contribute, Brother Kobayashi from our school joined us. Firecrackers, gongs and drums, two benches in the hall and two benches outside the hall, my brother began to move. First, move the main box and quilt to the bench in the hall. The quilt should be put on the box and labeled with happy words. It will take some time for the brother to move to the bench outside. It's called drying a dowry. I have been surrounded by friends, relatives and neighbors for a long time. It's about time. The younger brothers took out the clothes prepared by their sisters and locked the boxes. The man's family began to take the dowry and move it to the car. Take out the clothes and send them to a high place. This is called step by step promotion. In this way, the man's people can take the initiative to move out of the house, and the keys are all given by the younger brother to the younger sister.

In the process of moving the dowry, the new moons were unwilling to be lonely and began to embarrass the groom. I, who paste happy words and help the groom, are forced to put in a good word and give red envelopes. However, this is only the beginning. On the last dowry motorcycle, my little brother was pushed by relatives and sat on it, clutching the key tightly, just to see the groom in a dilemma. The red envelope will not be issued until it is reached. It takes a long time to load the car, two trucks, set off firecrackers and fireworks, and pay the dowry.

Until the evening, my sister went to the man's house to open the boxes one by one, and there was a ceremony of "checking the boxes", which I couldn't see.

The makeup artist has been busy in the master bedroom, and the beautiful women in ancient costumes are gradually released, and there is a little charm of the imperial concubine of the Tang Dynasty. From time to time, I was told what to do, what to bring, how to get into the gate and the master bedroom. It is also a custom in my hometown to take out the' foot box'. Every married girl and husband should prepare a small red box for the bride to put the sedan chair money on, and the handover of the foot box is also a very important link when picking up the bride.

It's time for lunch. The order of sitting is very particular. It's absolutely right to make out with young and old men. The person in charge should carefully check the list and identity one by one in advance, and then sit down one by one, while those who are pulled are often modest and always sit down one by one. I should have stayed in the master bedroom with my sister, but Brother Pig didn't show up, so my married sister had to sit at the master table instead of him. A table is full of elders, and my uncle is sitting in the main seat. I am the only next generation, and the work of pouring wine falls to me.

The banquet is definitely a good banquet. Many familiar and long-lost hometown dishes are served one after another. Unfortunately, I don't have time to sit down and eat.

At the end of the banquet, mother's crying came from the master bedroom. This is the beginning of' crying marriage'. My daughter is going out, and my family can't bear it, especially my mother. In fact, the menstruating mothers and they have cried twice this afternoon. My mother cried and looked for me until I was a distant daughter, and I was lonely when I got married. But I think that my grandparents are gone, and my grandmother is not allowed to visit me. My sister belongs to another family. No matter how close I am, I can't help crying. The guests outside sent' sedan chair money' one after another, and my sister cried and thanked her for accepting it. It didn't end until half past two.

My mother asked me to climb into bed, and ordered money at the bottom of the box for my sister, deliberately ordering a pile. I want my brother to "grab the bottom of the box" when I go out. The groom got home just before 4 o'clock, and the wedding reception team was waiting at the designated place. I gave flashlights to several elders, and I will turn on the lights when I get married, which means a bright future.

It's unlucky now. The cameraman will help us take pictures and videos together. It will be very lively. In a blink of an eye, the firecrackers and fireworks were put back, and the gongs and drums were still ringing and could not stop. The groom helped his sister put on her wedding shoes and covered them with a veil. My sister wears wedding shoes and has to put on a pair of father's slippers. Two younger brothers, one left and one right, supported each other tightly and bowed to the lobby to say goodbye. My brother reached for the foot box and a pile of money was caught out. When I leave the master bedroom, my sister will sprinkle some money in the master bedroom. When I leave the lobby, I will take off my slippers. I pulled her private box, which was not a dowry, and followed closely. Big JIU gripped the pedal box tightly and walked on it.

There are many relatives at home, and parents are very popular. There were a lot of farewell parties, except for parents who could only stay at home and be sad. The gongs and drums followed all the way to the wedding venue (our family met in an outdoor location, and the location was exquisite. It could not be a fork in the road and there could be no turning back). The wedding gongs and drums team also rang, and the male uncle, as a relative, came forward with' Candle Gu' (Candle Gu is the maid of honor invited by the man with two).

This man is in trouble again. My uncle, with my elder sister, began to ask the other party to put in a good word and give out cigarettes and red envelopes under the booing of the farewell team. The man obviously didn't expect so many people, two uncles, an aunt, an uncle and a mother, two uncles, two aunts, an aunt and an uncle, and my sister and two brothers-in-law. Although the groom learned the lesson of dowry in the morning and prepared a lot of red envelopes, it was obvious that there were not enough cigarettes, so the uncle had to go back to the car to get cigarettes.

After a long time, the man was a little impatient and prepared to come up and "grab the bride" (this is also the custom of his hometown). I told my little brother to hold his sister's arm tightly and not to let go easily. The relatives nearby began to ask Candy to sing and dance again (one of the customs). After singing, my uncle expressed satisfaction and handed the foot box to the other uncle. The other uncle also handed a red envelope (I didn't know what it was at that time). It will take several rounds for the younger generation to hand over the bride. The gongs and drums and fireworks across the street rang, taking the bride home.

At this point, the process of the woman's family is completed. Watching the wedding car go away, my sister's new life is about to begin. Speaking of men, evening is another process.

The closest relatives can't be separated yet, so we have to wait for the young couple to return home after three generations, and then go to my sister's house for wine together. Just me. I can't attend.

I wish my sister and brother-in-law love and grow old together. (This article only describes the wedding ceremony)