To what extent can people with low incomes be false and refined?

I, myself, am the person whose income in the title is not high, but still pseudo-exquisite. The main performance is low wage income, but the quality requirements for food and clothing are relatively high.

For example, pay more attention to clothes, pay attention to the fabrics and styles of clothes, and then the styles. Pay more attention to maintenance. The beauty instruments on the market are basically started, and the daily bird's nest and collagen have been preserved. Skin care and makeup are my strong points. I have used all the brands of interest in the market. When I buy the peak, the income from selling skin care products can almost be equal to my salary.

Let's talk about clothes first.

My clothes are basically from the original tb shop. In summer, I just change a dozen silk shirts and dresses back and forth. Basically, these brands are original, such as theory, equipment and dvf. Thanks to the omnipotent Taobao, I can buy thousands of shirts at the counter.

Two years ago, when I was poorer than now, I collected a treasure shop, eq silk shirts with slight defects, and more than 100 pieces. When I bought it, the defects were not obvious and the cost performance was extremely high. I bought a dozen silk shirts with different colors and similar basic models before and after, and the silk needs to be taken care of. If I take care of them, they won't look like a hundred-dollar dress when I put them on. If I don't take care of them, I will dress them like rags.

Put on your upper body like this

I bought basically the same style, black, white, gray, blue, green, red and purple. Whether it's true or not, the upper body looks good.

Sweaters in autumn and winter prefer cashmere or wool texture, velvet and close-fitting There is a short story about sweaters.

I bought two cardigans of Ralph Lauren a long time ago, which are also original orders. One was in the fifties. The more washed the suede, the better. The upper body version is also very nice, black and white. Winter is beautiful. I love it. Unfortunately, my husband didn't know that this dress needed to be washed by hand, so he threw it to me and washed it with a washing machine. Both of them shrink and wear, which makes me very angry. Later, he saved some money and replaced the pulsator washing machine at home with Bosch's top-end drum washing machine, nearly 10 thousand. I hope I will never wash my clothes again, even if I spend fifty dollars on them.

At present, I still buy clothes in several original big stores in tb. There are good ones and bad ones. I spent 200 to 600 yuan on cashmere, which is ok, but I don't have the joy of buying RL in my fifties.

I often go to Vipshop to buy shoes and coats. Tb has bought shoes several times, and it is the same brand as Vipshop. The price is one third cheaper, but I found obvious fakes. For insurance, I will still insist on preferential treatment, and the brands are more inclined to high-end brands, such as Butterfly, Lylestein, Blocko 5 and so on. Single shoes are basically 200-400, boots are 500-700. When Haitao was popular a few years ago, he also liked to buy discount shoes from American department stores such as Nord stron and Fifth Avenue. Cheap shoes such as Nike, Adidas, stevemaden and expensive stuart are very different from those in China in previous years, and Haitao is still very suitable.

I like the following pair of shoes, bought a pair of flat heels and a pair of high heels, and started at Vipshop in more than 300. The leather outsole is imported from Italy, which can be said to be very cost-effective.

My lovely ex-wife, pseudo-exquisite to the extreme, harming others and yourself!

I work in a foreign company. I am a mechanical engineer. Although my job and income are good, unfortunately, due to my busy work, I often travel. I'm almost 30 years old and I don't have a girlfriend yet.

On a business trip, my colleague asked me to bring two cigarettes back at the airport. Because I don't smoke at ordinary times, I seldom go to the tobacco and alcohol counter at the airport.

When I checked out, I found that the girl in the bar had bright eyes and was very cute. My eyes grow directly on her, and I can't extricate myself. I have met many beautiful women, but this feeling of love at first sight is the first time in my mind.

After closing the account, driven by the primitive instinct, I had the cheek to add the girl's WeChat. On the way back, I looked through the girl's circle of friends. The girl leads an exquisite life. Her circle of friends is almost full of photos of her in scenic spots, yachts or luxury stores.

I turned on my mobile phone, flipped through the text message, found the reminder message from the bank and looked at the balance. I advised my hypothalamus to secrete less dopamine, because an ordinary office worker like me can't afford a canary.

People sometimes just love and can't get along with themselves. The more I suppress my thoughts, the more frequently I see her shadow in my mind, and gradually my legs don't work. When I came back from my second business trip, my feet brought me to the person who was destined to make me suffer.

The girl's name is An San, 24 years old, also from the northeast, with a monthly salary of 4,500.

I remember hearing a sentence in a sketch, "You are chasing me, I am good at chasing. How do you know you can't catch me unless you try?" Anson said the same thing.

Soon we will be together. At first, Ansan was very mature. She got along well with my friends. In less than half a month, she moved to my small property right house in the suburbs of Beijing, and we lived together.

After getting along for a long time, I found that An San had a problem, that is, if the acquaintances she met wore more expensive clothes than her, she would find various reasons to make a scene with me when she came home. Unless, I promise to buy her the same clothes or the same bag. Will coquetry with me and please me.

Besides, she has too many clothes for my old wardrobe. In addition, Ansan also specially customized a cabinet for putting bags, which is almost a wall of bags. After meeting Ansang, I realized that some bags can actually be exchanged for a car.

My salary card was confiscated by An San. At the beginning of that month, I was frightened, because I often received text messages with the balance reduced by 3000,5000, 18000. Later, I simply blocked the bank message, fearing that my heart would go wrong.

In less than three months, Ansan lost his card and said he had no money, so he asked me to get a credit card. So I handled all the credit cards of big banks between business trips according to her meaning.

The reason why I am so used to Anson is because I have an idea in my heart that if we have children, Anson should not be so blind for the sake of children and as a mother.

Soon An San was pregnant, so we hurried back to the northeast to meet our parents. Although Anson's parents dislike my low income, since I am pregnant, it is an inevitable choice to marry me.

Anson's parents don't want much bride price, only emphasize that I must change rooms, and their daughter can't live in a small property right house. This is very difficult for me, because houses in Beijing don't just change.

At this point, my parents took out their own pension money and even sold the only shop in the family to support me. I also sold the small property right house I bought in full before, and borrowed some from my friends, and made a down payment for a two-bedroom and one-bedroom house on the edge of the West Fifth Ring Road.

Everything is ready. It was originally a harmonious and festive wedding ceremony. Anson and I finally divorced on the wedding day because of a little thing.

The wedding car drove to the door of the wedding hotel, and An San didn't get off. She asked for a mink coat of more than 50 thousand to get off because she saw one of my relatives wearing mink.

My mother almost cried and pulled me out of the car, saying that all the money in her hand had bought me a house. I'm really not ready now. It's a shame to borrow money on the big day.

I advised Ansan to buy one for her after marriage. It is not appropriate to get stuck in the wedding car at this time.

An San scolded me directly, which was the first time she pointed at my nose and scolded me. "You are a pauper!"

Her words, like a heavy hammer, shattered all my love for her.

After the divorce, Ansan still lives in the wedding room I bought, because there are two names written in the wedding room. I really can't afford to rent a house or live in another room.

An San is a completely different person, regardless of my feelings, and occasionally leads friends home.

I will definitely move out, because this house is already a "prison" for me. But before I move out, I want to see what will happen to this pseudo-exquisite girl!

You can see from this incident.

1, life should be simple and people should be satisfied, so that they can be happier.

2, the ability can not reach the desire, live a pseudo-exquisite life, harm others and harm themselves.

3. Kindness spreads positive energy, and good people are rewarded.

Tell me about a colleague of mine who used to work at the front desk. His salary is not much, about 3000 yuan, but his life is exquisite and luxurious.

She comes to work every day, wearing delicate makeup, carrying a Gucci bag, wearing mostly big names and holding Starbucks. Ordering at noon, never eating take-out, always ordering take-out by yourself, similar to a light food, about 30 each time. Cosmetics used are also like Dior and Blue Ocean. Eat snacks that are not imported. Even if you buy a cake, you have to eat celebrity food online.

When I first met her, I thought her family was rich. Because of her consumption, the family doesn't provide one or twenty thousand yuan a month, and I don't think I can live. But later my colleague told me that she actually came from the countryside, and her family was very poor, and her brother went to school.

Probably because of poverty, I feel inferior, so I like to pretend to be a rich second generation.

In fact, she has been eating steamed bread and Starbucks coffee for breakfast, washing paper cups once, making coffee at home and taking it to the company, and never eating dinner. The bags and clothes used are high imitation, and the cosmetics are also friends with a group of young ladies. Seeing her pity, I gave the rest to her.

Even so, the money is not enough. More than a dozen credit cards, almost all of her loans have been opened. I almost cashed this credit card back on my mobile phone that day. I really admire her for not making such a mistake.

Everyone around her knows that her exquisite life is just an empty shell illusion, and only she insists on maintaining her dignity every day.

I can't say that she did something wrong, because her pseudo-exquisiteness didn't hinder others, but everyone just made fun of her behind her back. Although a person is poor, but mentally healthy, we will look up to such a person. And like her, it is only possible to become the joke of everyone's dishes behind her back.