Should I get a divorce? It is very explicit to see him and his colleagues love to send text messages on WeChat. He said he didn't send it. I scolded that female colleague, and she said she shouldn't.

Whether you should divorce, you should calmly consider the following aspects:

First of all, did he really cheat? You said you had "no evidence", so this matter should be investigated calmly. In the information age, instant messaging tools such as WeChat and QQ have brought great convenience to everyone's communication, but at the same time they have created conditions for lonely men and women to flirt and show off each other. Generally speaking, there are some explicit male and female jokes on WeChat, which may be a sign of sparks between men and women before derailment, but it may not have reached the level of real derailment and needs to be investigated clearly.

At this time, you may investigate yourself immediately, and you won't get the real answer by asking him or her directly.

If you quarrel with him or her directly, it won't help you to know the truth. At this time, you won't tell the truth. Maybe what you didn't have was really derailed by your anger.

At this time, you should have a good talk with him, show that you are willing to live a good life with him, and then care more about him than usual, and try to stay with him without affecting his work, so that he has little chance to be alone.

From these actions, we should also observe his reaction. If you return to normal or become more intimate, it shows that you still have a certain emotional foundation. Even if he really cheated, as long as you really love him, you can continue to live together.

Second, if the above actions are exchanged for his more intense confrontation, it means that the possibility of his derailment is greatly increased. Even if you don't have real evidence, but he doesn't want to live with you, you should calm down and don't get angry. At this time, your main energy should be to keep healthy and go to work well. At the same time, carefully analyze the reasons for his derailment. If you do something bad, you should figure out how to adjust yourself in a possible new marriage in the future after leaving him, and try to avoid this kind of thing.

If you have made up your mind to separate from him, you should try your best to get evidence of his infidelity. As far as marriage law is concerned, when divorce property is divided, the guilty party who is unfaithful to marriage may not be protected by law. In the most extreme case, not only do you have to leave home cleanly, but you also have to pay a certain fee as alimony or alimony for the incompetent party.