Sending a group blessing message, is it necessary to reply?

The reason why I want to go back is that New Year's Eve is an important festival for Chinese people, and it is human nature to wish each other well. Some people may be confused and say that sending group text messages is suspected of running errands. In fact, new and old friends can be divided into distant and near ones. There are heart-to-heart relationships and mutual benefit relationships, and there are also indirect and distant emotional relationships, and there are also mutual trust and cooperation relationships. Sending group text messages is nothing more than trying to maintain a relationship of acquaintance, hoping that one day we will be able to take care of each other. As the saying goes: It takes a thousand days to raise an army in a moment. Who can predict the unexpected? Doing your homework well in your circle of friends is a sign of your emotional intelligence. If you are not too busy, you should still be able to reply well. We once remembered: the power of a road is far away, and the time will show the hearts of the people. There is no need to reply.

First of all, according to psychology, group messages are generally not important messages, so you can decide whether to reply or not. Secondly, since this has been sent to a group, there must be many people who have received the message, so there is no need for us to cause him any more trouble, right? (Maybe the person who sent the message doesn’t think you are very important, right?) Besides, if he really wants to find you, he will come after you. I'll come to you, just forget it. Finally, seriously ask yourself whether this person is important to you! If it's important, you can also reply to the group message, it's just one message. If it's just ordinary friends, then it's up to you. These are just suggestions. If you are specific, just follow your own heart. There is no need to get entangled. To be honest, I don't reply to all the group messages every year. I think group messages are very rude and make me feel looked down upon. Why should I care if the other party doesn't care? SMS messages are basically not used by anyone at the moment. Many people send advertisements and they are basically blocked!

But if someone sends it seriously, I will definitely make a phone call to say hello. I basically don’t read the New Year greetings in the group, because it is meaningless and is nothing more than sending some picture greetings.

My favorite way is WeChat video greeting. The whole family can greet each other together and see each other. You can even see people you usually cannot see. Now it is a separate phone greeting, which is more convenient. Be polite.

I divide the time for New Year greetings very clearly. The elderly are always given priority, then the benefactors, then the brothers and sisters, relatives without the elderly, my good friends, business partners, and colleagues in the workplace. These are usually phone greetings. If it’s convenient for the other party, just use WeChat video! How do friends say New Year greetings? In what way? Let’s all share our own New Year greetings. Thank you all!

I basically don’t reply to group text messages. If I have a good relationship with each other and can meet, I try my best to come to visit and say New Year greetings. If you can't see them, you have to make a phone call, start a video, or at the very least edit a text message yourself.

For others, just send it to Moments and wish us well together. I personally don’t like sending group text messages. The most helpless thing is that some of them don’t even change their names and forward them directly. I feel that it’s better not to send this kind of greeting

No matter what I do, Just take it easy

Sending text messages or WeChat messages in bulk has become cheap in the eyes of the public because it is too easy. "I'm afraid the firecrackers on the first day of junior high school will be too loud, and I'm afraid there will be too many blessings on the 30th." The official blessing seems too insincere.

In fact, it also reflects the disdain that most people have for interpersonal relationships, especially "weak interpersonal relationships". Many people think that weak interpersonal relationships do not need to be maintained because they feel it is unnecessary.

During the Spring Festival, some people feel that this behavior is too abrupt when saying a word to a contact who has not spoken to a person for more than half a year. But if the other party politely replies "Happy New Year" and asks how they are doing, wouldn't it be a way to open up the conversation. This avoids the embarrassment of having 950 of 1,000 WeChat friends not contacted throughout the year, and it becomes easier to ask for help when there is something urgent.