How do girls reply when they say they are in a bad mood? How can girls comfort themselves when they say they are in a bad mood?

When boys meet girls and say they are in a bad mood, they often don't know how to reply. In fact, if boys want to comfort girls carefully at this time, the relationship between them is still easy to go further.

How do girls reply when they say they are in a bad mood?

1, telling jokes

You can find a few funny jokes on the internet to tell girls, or you can tell a few jokes that you know by heart, or you can tell yourself or your friends similar experiences and so on.

2. Humorous misinterpretation

Misinterpretation can easily resolve girls' unanswered words, adjust the tense and embarrassing chat atmosphere, and bring girls unexpected emotional experience. For example, watch the following chat:

Girl: "My stomach hurts, and I'm very unhappy all day."

Boy: "Where do you have a belly?" You are a perfect figure. "(misinterpreting that girls don't have stomachs)

Step 3 change the subject

Changing the subject is a good way to transfer girls' negative emotions, which can make girls forget their unhappy emotions, completely forget their bad emotions and fully enjoy the present happiness. Also watch the following chat:

Girl: "After being scolded by the boss, I was listless all day."

Boy: "Don't women like to eat when they are unhappy?" I know a super delicious hotpot restaurant. Let's have a try now. "(easily change the subject)

How can girls comfort themselves when they say they are in a bad mood?

Girls are generally unhappy for two reasons, one is because you are unhappy; The other is because other people and things are unhappy.

1, because you are unhappy

If it is because of your mistake that she is unhappy, it may be because you are close to other members of the opposite sex, it may be that you have not paid enough attention to her recently, or it may be that you accidentally stabbed her when you spoke ... just reflect on what you did wrong and take the initiative to admit your mistakes to girls.

If you really don't know what you did wrong, you must put down your airs and face and ask her gently and patiently, "Baby, what did I do wrong?" Only by finding the source that makes her unhappy can we get a complete answer to the question.

2. Because other people and things are unhappy

If a girl comes to talk to you and complain because other people and things are unhappy, don't try to coax her at the first time, but try to find the answer to the question. Girls take the initiative to talk to you. What she needs most is a solution to the problem. She's just unhappy and wants to talk to you.

If you comfort her meaningless, to provide solutions and reasons to the problem, not only will you not coax her, but her bad mood will only be hooked up by you, aggravating her unhappy bad mood, instead, you will spit out more unhappy things with you, so that you will not only fail to enter her heart, but also become the vent object of her bad mood, which is the so-called emotional trash can.

It seems that every time you comfort her, but every time she is in a bad mood, she will think of you for the first time and come to you to complain. You think she has a good impression on you and trusts you to tell you all her unhappiness, but when you confess to her, she will definitely say, "You are very kind, but we are not suitable."

You think you have confessed to her, and she will certainly accept your kindness, but the actual result will only be a confession until death do us part. Because you have just established a negative emotional connection, which is not helpful to your relationship. This relationship between you is unhealthy.

What should a girl do if she says she is in a bad mood?

Girls say they are unhappy and talk to boys. Many boys will tell girls a lot of reasons, "Don't be unhappy ..." "You can't do this well ..." People say you must be reasonable ... "There are also many boys who will constantly provide solutions to girls," What should you do ... ""Don't be unhappy ... ""Being unhappy is not good for your health ... "

When a girl comes to you to complain when she is depressed, she doesn't want to hear what you say about the four books and five classics, about her outlook on life and values, or to find a solution. The solution is that there are more girls than you She drinks brown sugar water when she has a stomachache, and drinks more water when she has a cold. This is not what girls want. She just came to complain to you and share her depressed mood with you.

What you need to do is to express that you can understand her feelings now, you can understand her feelings now, and you can know the pain of her loss. Proper comfort is definitely necessary. After comforting, you can spit out these unhappiness with her and spit out this fucking world together, so that you have an emotional tacit understanding and resonance, which is more conducive to promoting your relationship.

Common causes of girls' bad mood

When a woman is in a bad mood, the main decision is not physical discomfort. For example, during the physiological period, because she is not feeling well, all aspects of her emotions are grumpy, and then she is particularly bad-tempered at this time, so she should be more accommodating.

Another is that something bad happens to them, which makes them particularly angry and then leads to their bad mood. So, give more accommodation. For women, coaxing when they are angry is coaxing.