How can you respond with high emotional intelligence when others say that you are affected?

You can reply directly without affectation. I'm just expressing my views seriously, so that you can feel the unique style and charm. When others say this, they are very dissatisfied with their performance. At this moment, they should also reflect on whether there are mistakes in their actions and external performance. If there are mistakes, we should actively correct them and let others change their image.

Because affectation is a derogatory term, only by making others feel that they are a powerful experience can others better handle relationships and narrow their distance.