The method of judging true breakup and false breakup: the performance of false breakup

There are many reasons for couples to break up, and there are also many kinds of break-up States. Sometimes it's just a fight. Both of them are angry and break up. There is a big difference between a real breakup and a fake breakup.

The method of judging true breakup and false breakup

1, see if you can still contact him.

Couples argue that there is usually a cold war after breaking up. The two sides don't meet each other and ignore each other. At this time, if you want to know if the other person really wants to break up with you. Then you can see if you can contact each other. If the other party still has your phone number, WeChat, QQ and other contact information, it means that the other party is just having trouble with you and doesn't really want to break up with you. This situation is a fake breakup. If it's a real breakup, it's the opposite. He hacked you everywhere, and you couldn't find him at all. That's because he really wants to break up and disappear from your world.

2. See how he treats you.

Sometimes it is not accurate to judge whether a breakup is true or false by looking at the contact information, because some people will get emotional after quarreling and blacken each other without saying a word. But after a while, he felt very angry and regretted it, and he would silently add the contact information of the other party back. In this case, you can try to call him to see if he can answer, or see how he treats you. If the other person pretends to be angry and has a bad attitude, don't worry. As long as you apologize and say something soft, the other party will generally improve their attitude and even forgive you, because only care will get angry. If the other person ignores you and treats you like air, he doesn't care what you do, which is even more worrying, because there is no emotional fluctuation indicating that he has given up, which is the sign of a real breakup.

3. Ask the people around him for news

If you want the other party to say that the breakup is true or false, you can also inquire through relatives, friends and colleagues around the other party. If, under the temptation, people close to him don't know that you have broken up, it means that the other person is just angry or still struggling and doesn't really want to break up with you. If it is a real breakup, then all his friends around him will probably know that if he has told his friends around him about it, it means that he has seriously considered it and really wants to break up, especially girls. If he really wants to break up, he will definitely complain to his girlfriend.

4. Look at each other's circle of friends.

If it is a fake breakup, then most people will send all kinds of Lin Daiyu-style sad words or chicken soup in the circle of friends after the quarrel, pretending to be a cold goddess or a literary fan. Say that you want to be strong, that love is your own business and has nothing to do with others, and so on. It means that the other person probably just wants to get your attention, is worried that you will forget him, or wants to hint at you with words. The real breakup situation is that after the breakup, the other party went without a trace, and there was no news in the circle of friends. In this case, he either really wants to forget you or really intends to give up.

5. Was the invitation to meet rejected?

If you want to judge the truth of a couple's breakup, you can try to ask her out to dinner through various channels. If your date is successful, congratulations, this love is likely to be successfully saved. But if you call him, but he refuses to answer or doesn't answer, or you don't have the other person's contact information at all, then you can invite him through his friends and ask her out under the guise of a friend's party.

The performance of a fake breakup

1, two people care about each other.

Couples who break up falsely generally don't break up too decisively, extort money from each other or delete each other's contact information, and they don't shy away from it. Instead of never seeing each other again after breaking up, they will hope to keep good friends and pay attention to each other's lives even after breaking up. Caring for each other, I still love each other in my heart, just hiding this love carefully.

2. There are no mistakes in principle.

The most vulnerable situation in a relationship is often because the other half is derailed or has been cold and violent to himself for a long time, which leads to the partner's extreme disappointment with his lover and wants to leave each other. Couples who break up falsely generally don't want to break up because of infidelity and violence, and the relationship will not deteriorate too much. They often break up because of some small things, the other party doesn't care enough about themselves, can't find a good way to communicate, or because of personal growth, they have no confidence to go on with each other in their feelings, so they choose to let go. Most of these problems need to know more about the other half, what the other side wants and hopes to achieve in this relationship, and then make corresponding changes, so that the other side can see their own changes and let the other half believe that two people will be happy together and have a good hope of reunification.

3. Break up for a better reunion.

No one is perfect, everyone has his own shortcomings. When two people are together for a long time, their enthusiasm will slowly dissipate, and there will be times when they are tired of each other. Breaking up at this time is just an opportunity for two people to think about the future direction of this relationship. Is there any problem in getting along with each other before, or is it that they ignored some feelings or emotions of the other party in their usual relationship, which made the other party feel unconfident about this relationship? Finding the problem can be more conducive to the reunion of two people.

What do you think of true and false breakup?

Method 1: Invite

There is a high probability of inviting her to meet, that is, even if it is unsuccessful, she can still be invited to meet. Dating, eating and partying like friends, but not as close as before. Even so, at least it shows that the other party is willing to give you a chance and meet you. This kind of situation is generally a fake breakup, because boys are more rational about their feelings. Once they don't like it, they won't have any contact with each other. Since separation is bound to be thorough, I won't hesitate like a girl. Most boys break up decisively. Once they don't love each other, they won't give each other any chance. If he is still willing to meet you, it means that there is still a chance to save this paragraph.

Method 2: Communication channels

You can still connect in all kinds of communication tools. Although the other party may not reply to your message or even block you, as long as you don't delete it, it will leave the other party with a chance to get back together. At this time, the other party is still in the hesitant stage, and it takes some time to think about whether this relationship should end. At this time, the other party is in the stage of fake breakup, so don't bother the other party too much at this time, which will make him very upset, and may also speed up your breakup and directly turn the fake breakup into a real breakup.

Method 3: Emotional reaction

A person really has no feelings for each other, so nothing the other person can do can affect any of his emotions. In his eyes, it makes no difference that you already have a stranger, and it is impossible to be angry or impatient with an unrelated person. The real breakup is without any emotion, which shows that he has given up any hope for this relationship. So as long as the other person's mood can be influenced by himself, it means that he doesn't really want to break up.

Method 4: Social platform status

Under normal circumstances, boys will not post some sad spring and autumn content on social platforms. But if you post any sad words or other things on social platforms, it means that he is just venting his dissatisfaction, and breaking up is just an excuse for him to vent. I sent these messages to let you know that he was very upset and wanted to get your comfort. If a boy really breaks up, then he won't make any sad sentences in the social circle, which will make him look weak and don't want to cause any burden to girls. And you really want to break up, so why make your sorrow public?

Method five, social circle

Usually, a boy will not take the initiative to tell his friends that he is lovelorn unless he is completely disappointed in a relationship. If people around you don't realize that you have broken up, it means that your relationship has not been really denied by him. Everyone will take the initiative to protect themselves subconsciously, so they will push the mistakes to each other, which will only intensify contradictions. If you want to save each other, you must face up to your own problems. If you can't correct them, it will be very difficult to save each other.

What will happen if your ex-boyfriend can't let you go?

First, secretly pay attention to your dynamics.

After breaking up, everyone calmed down, opened QQ space or blog, and found traces of each other's browsing, indicating that he is still very concerned about your current living conditions. Because lovelorn people will have a period of self-reflection after they calm down, we will re-examine our behavior by recalling the past, which is manifested in secretly paying attention to each other's dynamics. In addition to secretly paying attention to your social platform, I will also learn about you through the mouth of my friends. If you know from a friend that your ex-boyfriend has asked about your recent situation, it means that he still has you in his heart.

Second, I often find excuses to contact you.

If one day he receives a text message or phone call inexplicably, and then asks you to meet for some inexplicable reason, it means that he wants to get back together with you. It's shameful to contact again after breaking up, but he can take the initiative to ask you out regardless of his face. There is no other reason, just want to meet you. It seems that he still loves you in his heart.

Third, occasionally send ambiguous messages.

After breaking up, he will send you a text message, which will be sent when the weather gets cold, sick, uncomfortable, or special holidays. The content of the message is vague, or it is a caring sentence. If he had let you go, he wouldn't continue to disturb your life. But now texting disturbs your heart, which means he wants to get back together with you.

Fourth, report your current situation to you automatically.

He came to see you again after a period of disconnection. Whether you like it or not, he will take the initiative to report his recent situation to you. And I often mention how good you used to be to him. These behaviors of ex-boyfriend show that he still misses you.

5. Look at his eyes. Take your eyes off you.

If you still need to touch each other after breaking up, look into his eyes, and you can see from his eyes whether he still has you in his heart. If he looks at you coldly, or smiles at you like an ordinary friend, it means that he has completely forgotten the past and won't feel embarrassed to face you directly. If he avoids your eyes at once, it means that he can't completely let go of the past in his heart.