How to save a man's heart?

The road to love is often bumpy, but it doesn't mean that true love is smooth sailing. There is a kind of person in this world who will be happy no matter who he is with. So it's not shameful to want to save a lost love. You are just learning how to love better and how to make yourself a better person.

First, the application of the principle of cold treatment.

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Did you do the following things after the other party broke up: admit your mistake humbly, make phone calls desperately, send one long message after another, and persuade relatives and friends, but in the end, it didn't work, and the other party didn't dare to avoid you.

The way to save your feelings, once you were so in love, now the other party is determined to break up with you, with a firm and serious attitude. Even if you are in a panic, you need to calm down. You have to understand that you need to give each other a cool time. In this case, it is better to use the cold treatment method. Try not to call or send text messages to each other, so that this relationship can be "frozen" first. You can use this time to reflect on your mistakes and let the other person slowly forget your shortcomings.

Second, improve their DHV and reduce their sense of demand.

If you shut yourself at home every day after breaking up and think about what you are like together, then you will definitely have a strong sense of demand for each other, and you will constantly want to contact her and talk to her, hoping that the other party will come to their senses. So the best way to change this state is to "go out". Go out to socialize, play, get together, etc. In short, it is to enter a big interpersonal circle. If you try to make yourself popular and make more friends, you will spend less on your ex, which will not only help you improve your value, but also help you reduce your sense of demand.

Third, the grasp and application of secondary attraction.

When you improve your DHV correctly, then you have to wait for an opportunity to "connect" with each other again. When you reunite with each other, you find that your attitude towards opposition has changed, and you have no strong dislike and disgust before, and you are willing to communicate with you. Then you're halfway there. You can make a brand-new transformation to make yourself more handsome or charming, and then show your humor or gentleness in combination with your own internal improvement, so that your ex can regain interest in you, thus achieving the purpose of "secondary attraction".

These three parts are the core of saving love. You have to figure it out and experience it carefully. More importantly, you should combine your own specific situation.

We have been talking about redemption, but have we really redeemed our feelings in the right way? Can this really save our success?

Every relationship is not easy to experience. Once faced with a crisis, we all want to do something to remedy it, but how to ensure that we don't do anything wrong at the right time?

First: we must face the fact of breaking up. You have to admit that you have broken up, so your relationship is not what it used to be. What he is doing now has nothing to do with you, because only in this way can you look at your problems objectively and find out the problems between you. If you always refuse to admit the fact that you have broken up, and then always think that you are still his girlfriend, then all you have to do is start being his girlfriend, but people have broken up with you. If you still do this, it will only make people feel disgusted. As a result, everything you do has the opposite effect.

Second: adjust your mentality. Don't dwell on how much others owe you. You were so kind to him, but he did this to you. In other words, he used to be so good to you, but now he is not so good to you. Please always remember that redemption means that one person bears the pain of two people. Besides, you saved others, not you. What does this mean? It means that the problem is with you and you have to fix it. Even if there is a big gap between the present heart and the past, you should digest it yourself. If you put yourself in the other's shoes, what did you do and how did others feel? In this case, you can

Third: change yourself. The change itself here includes two aspects, one is external change and the other is internal change. Of course, there is no way to change a person's inner self in a short time. It is said that a leopard cannot change his spots. So if you want to make the other person feel that you have changed, you should start with the external image, because this is the fastest and most effective way to attract his attention again through external conditions such as hairstyle, makeup and clothes. This part of the heart needs long-term cultivation, take part in more outdoor activities or make more friends, so that you can integrate more into society and don't immerse yourself in your own world all day.

There are many recovery methods, but how much do you know about the correct recovery method and how much do you know about the correct recovery method?

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