My best friend has recently fallen in love and is disheartened. I want to find someone to marry casually. How can I dissuade her?

Give her all kinds of examples and let him know how miserable it is to make do with it.

Love and marriage are always two different things. Some people are happy in love, but they are hurt in marriage. The person you love is not necessarily the one who can give you ultimate happiness. That's the truth.

But it's absolutely impossible to find someone to marry after falling in love. To pin one's happiness on luck is not only irresponsible for one's own life, but also irresponsible for a newly formed family.

If your best friend has this idea, you must dissuade her. We should always look forward and believe that there will be happiness waiting for us ahead. Most temporary marriages are unhappy.

I actually have such an example around me, but it's just a boy. I have been hurt a lot emotionally, and I always think that there is no love in this world. At the age of marriage, I found a girl who is also willing to get a marriage certificate.

There is no difference between good and bad life of two people, and basically there is not much communication. Maybe getting married before falling in love is a good choice for some people. However, two people who are equally prepared have no intention of cultivating feelings at all.

This marriage lasted only half a year, and the two calmly walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau. I'm talking about real peace, as if marriage is playing house for them, and divorce is just the end of the game.

If you don't want your best friend to go through such a thing, you should try your best to dissuade her. Losing a person who can't give himself happiness, there is no need to gamble on his future.

Happiness is always in our own hands. No matter how much we dissuade her, the choice is still in her hand. She is willing to gamble on the happiness of the rest of her life and can only wish her good luck.