After the second blind date, the woman said I was fine, but given time, she would tell me all her thoughts. What do you mean? What should I do?

Don't worry, this woman is interested in you, otherwise she won't see you for the second time, let alone send a text message to call each other. As for why it takes time, I don't think it is necessary to guess. She will tell you then, but you should be prepared. Why do you need time? If they have feelings, they can try. The reason why she needs time means that there are several possibilities to deal with or settle down.

1. In the past.

This covers a wide range, and there may be things you don't know, such as divorce and even taking care of children. Either you haven't got over your last relationship, or you made an unforgivable mistake, and you need to forgive. By analogy, maybe it's yourself or your family, and you may admit some unnecessary responsibilities for it, so you should do a good job in psychological construction in advance.

2. Ideology.

This is also related to the past. Since there is a blind date, it must be more than once. Everyone has faced all kinds of people, and the past is gone. Since they are together, since they met through blind date, they must go to the palace of marriage together. Moreover, she may have a lot of ideas that she didn't tell you clearly, that is, some personal "ideas". For example, she doesn't want children and wants to be alone in the future. This is something that must be made clear in advance. For another example, life, such as living habits, future planning, career prospects, and even workplace changes, are all related to the emotional quality of two people together. Of course, these are only one-sided, and there may be other trivial matters.

So you should be prepared in advance. When girls tell you, you should be clear about what you can accept and what you can never accept. Don't disregard personal principles just because you have feelings. If you can't accept some things, don't force yourself. But also for their own happiness and responsibility. If it is a trivial matter to you, you can accept it calmly. If they are not, you should think twice before you do it, so as not to regret it for life. If you insist on accepting her, then you should also think clearly about how to face this problem in the future and prepare for the worst.

If you look ahead, you will be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. I didn't want to tell you these alarmist words, but since you want to know the reason, you should think carefully, analyze and get back to the point. But I think sometimes you don't need to think too much, because you will never know the truth, even if it is in front of you, it may not be the truth. Then why chase these unnecessary things?