What are we doing in the name of family?

While watching In the Name of Family, I heard Ling Xiao say, "I think there is a black hole around me, which will devour everything. Everything near it was swallowed up, and the key was that she didn't know she was a black hole. "

Ling Xiao's mother is the most suffocating character in the play. She squeezed and swallowed Ling Xiao in the name of "mother". When her daughter died unexpectedly, she said to Ling Xiao, a few years old, "This is all your fault. You killed everyone. " Put the blame and guilt on young Ling Xiao. I can't stand the pain and remorse. I vented my anger on my family and even my neighbors, and even walked away, abandoning Ling Xiao, who also needed to get out of the shadows. She is a black hole, releasing dark energy, pretending to be a tragic victim without knowing it, squeezing the sympathy and understanding of people around her.

Orange said to Qiu, "I don't want to be a mother, but I still did the same thing as her." Qiu Zi said: "14-year-old human pendant can be forgiven, but how can a 50-year-old human pendant be forgiven?" Qiu Zi called parasites attached to others "humanoid pendants", which is too vivid. People who have no independent ability rely on others to live, squeeze others' care and pay, and are unwilling to take responsibility for their own lives. Ling Xiao's mother may be just a physical mother, but she is still a little girl who can't be responsible for herself. I don't know what her growing experience is, but from her series of actions, we can see that she is a "humanoid pendant" hanging on Ling Xiao. Poor Ling Xiao suffered from remorse and abandonment when he was a child. When he grew up, he suffered from squeezing and swallowing himself. He can't live high, he's suffocating. Therefore, he wants to return to China, because it is not his family who sympathizes with him, but Chao Hai's father and Li Jianjian, which is a ray of light in his life.

Qiu Zi is a distressing child. His cleverness and understanding made us cry many times outside the screen. It is outrageous that Qiu Zi's mother abandoned him. I didn't know the truth until recent episodes, a sadder truth. Qiu Zi's mother abandoned him because she couldn't support her children, and alienated Qiu Zi because she couldn't pick peaches grown by others. She is like a misty cloud in the sky, which I can't reach. She loves her children deeply, and her love makes Qiu Zi fall into "Why am I always abandoned?" "I don't deserve love" despair. Fortunately, she met the warm Li again, and she understood what kind of love she needed. She understood that it was better to make up for it than to alienate her. In this way, she "washed away" in our hearts Her compensation is completely different from Chen Ting's claim that "I want to be closer to home, so I can take good care of Ling Xiao and make up for him". He Mei is the real devotion and love after waking up. Qiu Zi felt warm and gave a knowing smile. Chen Ting continued to squeeze into another place, in another way, in the name of reconciliation continue to hang on children. Ling Xiao almost collapsed.

Seeing this, I deeply reflect, am I a black hole? Am I transporting resources and energy? Or are you devouring the energy around you? Am I a cloud, am I forming a warm embrace, or am I isolating the connection between heaven and earth?

What am I doing in the name of my family? Maybe when I tidy up these things, my love will be more sincere, purer, warmer and longer.