Isn't it normal for a boyfriend to see the news at work?

Suppose that if time is equated with energy, that person must have time, or at least it is definitely possible to reply to information every day.

However, the reality is that,

Time ≠ energy.

To better explain this meaning, let me give you an example:

My boyfriend is very busy at work during the day, often having meetings and having social parties at night. Usually he can't go home and relax until 9: 00 p.m. 10.

If we take the concept of time as an example, boyfriends always have to eat and go to the toilet during the day. Is there no time to send messages?

There must be.

Boyfriend must have time to go home at night. Don't you have time to send messages?

There must be.

There are many similar problems.

When a girl says, "Is her boyfriend too busy to reply to messages?" When something goes wrong, there are usually several possibilities:

1. The emotional concentration and rhythm of a woman and a man are different.

I have met many girls who lack love and are anxious and attached. They will constantly demand emotional value in their relationships because they need these positive feedbacks to gain a sense of self-worth. They can't get this sense of existence from their own hearts, and their sense of self-worth usually comes from the outside.

The key is that the woman's emotional needs are all the time, which is the most terrible place.

Normal people usually don't consider the success or failure of a relationship if it is not because of a big problem in the relationship; However, these girls, who lack love, anxiety and attachment, think entirely from emotions, from subjective imagination, rather than practical problems, so their demand for emotional concentration is higher than usual, and the essential demand behind this emotional demand is "self-worth identification".

But the boyfriend who is so busy at work obviously doesn't have such high emotional requirements. Boyfriend's sense of self-worth can be clearly seen from his own heart, not "this relationship", and girlfriend's "self-worth identification" is actually based on this relationship.

When a person bases his needs on the relationship with others and needs others' help, it is difficult to control them, and the feeling of losing control will make them feel particularly anxious.