How many relationships can be used between men and women?

The relationship between men and women is actually complicated. It has been said that there is no pure friendship between men and women. Whether his argument is correct or not, this is also a relationship between "chicken" and "egg". People have followed suit and expressed their opinions, and everyone has different positions and opinions. Just as there is no pure friendship between men and women, what is the relationship between men and women who have been in contact for a long time? Generally speaking, there are four kinds of relationships between men and women: lover, lover, sexual partner and confidante. The "dew" love such as pure one-night stand belongs to the category of "fast food" and does not belong to the category discussed here. The first kind: lovers, lovers needless to say, two of a kind, very much in love, in order to set foot on each other's red carpet, in order to create a love nest. That's what we all envy, or at least the best relationship we've ever experienced. The remaining three relationships are extremely confusing for many people. Especially in the adult world, countless men and women communicate in the world of emotion and desire. Although there are so-called rules of the game, they are all played in chaos. Many people confuse the difference between the three, causing a lot of unnecessary trouble. The second kind: lover lover is the most male-female relationship in the adult world. The relationship between lovers, both inside and outside marriage, should be based on two of a kind. The biggest difference between lover relationship and lover relationship is that lover relationship is not based on future marriage. Because there should definitely be love between lovers, no matter whether this love lasts as long as lovers, the jealousy between lovers is so strong that it is as fascinating as the jealousy between lovers. And because the relationship between lovers can't be exposed, the various stimuli of derailment will make the relationship between lovers more enthusiastic than normal love. Acacia is the best relationship between men and women in the adult world. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. In fact, the love between lovers is not each other. Most love is the feeling of love and the dream of love. Although absolute loyalty is not required between lovers, love is absolutely exclusive. As the saying goes, "the eyes of lovers don't rub sand", no matter which side shows any warmth to the original spouse or other members of the opposite sex, it will definitely destroy that "feeling of love" and will inevitably hurt the other side deeply. Although some people will use the so-called rules of the game to restrain themselves, it is only to quench their thirst by drinking poison, which will always lead to the collapse of the relationship between lovers. This kind of collapse is nothing more than two kinds: one is to want to get married and demand birthright, which is also the beginning of various family tragedies. Second, the relationship between lovers broke down and the injured party left. Either way, it will cause great pain to both sides, and it may not be alleviated until there is a new emotional sustenance. How charming love is, how hurtful it is. The third type: sexual partner Sexual partner is a kind of relationship between men and women that many people in the adult world pursue. In order to make this relationship "clean, safe and happy", although many people call their sexual partners "lovers", they have little in common except that they can maintain a long-term sexual relationship. Sexual partners are similar to "one-night stands". Both men and women don't need to have love, or even feelings. This is also the biggest difference between sexual partners and lovers. Only in this way can the two sides have a basis for long-term exchanges. Sexual partners often come from one-night stands, which is called "one-night stands". Both parties should first close their eyes and attach importance to each other; Secondly, the combination of "body edge" can cooperate with each other in bed. Then we'll be dating for a long time. The so-called "clean" is compared with one-night stand, because the sexual object is relatively fixed, so it is unlikely to be "recruited" because of promiscuity. "Safety" is not easy to get sick, but also because sexual partners exclude emotional factors, do not fall in love because of family ties, do not destroy families, and do not interfere in each other's lives, so there will be no troubles. "Happiness", because there is no emotion, there is no so-called "lover syndrome". Unless the body needs it, I won't miss you so much, I won't be trapped by love, I won't worry about each other's affair, and I just enjoy physical pleasure. The "missing" between them is mostly a physical relationship eager for excitement, expecting the arrival of the next one-time climax. Sexual partners often enjoy the pure happiness between men and women together, just like a pair of fairy couples. It can be called the "divine product" of the relationship between men and women. But because there is no emotional communication between sexual partners, physical pleasure is often accompanied by a night of emptiness. In spring, the wild peach blossoms on the mountain are bright red, and the Shuhe River beats the cliff on the edge of the cliff. A girl saw it and thought that her husband's love was as fleeting as this peach blossom, and infinite sadness was like this endless river of water. The result of emptiness is boredom, and there are rootless duckweeds on both sides, which are easy to gather and disperse. As long as there is a better opposite sex, a fresher and more exciting new opposite sex, this cooperative relationship will end immediately like a floating cloud. This is the thinnest, shortest and most illusory existence between men and women. The fourth kind: heterosexual confidant For men, she is a confidant; for women, he is a confidant. This is the most difficult relationship between men and women in the adult world, often mixed with lovers and sexual partners, which is not easy to distinguish. Lovers are often faint, they can tolerate each other's interaction with others; Say they are sexual partners, their sex is dispensable, and there may even be no sexual relationship at all. In most cases, they are more like friends, intimate friends and friends who can enjoy sex with each other. Their communication often comes from the realm of "sneaking into the night with the wind and moistening things silently". Often there is an exchange of ideas first, and then something happens naturally, or even nothing happens. They all have their own emotional world and seldom disturb each other at ordinary times. But once something bothers me, I think of each other. Maybe they separated from Wan Li, and used ss, texting, telling stories, and even having a heart-to-heart conversation after a passionate meeting. What joy can be enjoyed together, even if it is a new love; Tell the other person what's bothering you, even if it's a quarrel with your lover. The relationship between them is very shallow, but it is not only physical entanglement, but also deep heart-to-heart; It's deep, but it's not a vow of eternal love, and we're not jealous of each other's affair ... if all beings are ruthless. They say they are bosom friends, but they have sex; Say it's a lover, but there is no love; Say they are sexual partners, but talk to each other! This relationship is a sacred product in the relationship between men and women, which can be met but not sought. In fact, this relationship can last the longest. But the most difficult thing to grasp is "degree". Don't be too emotional and become a loving and fragile lover; You can't be too distant and become a ruthless sexual partner. How to master it is a difficult problem!