I found a stepmother for my child. What if she is not good at raising children?

I found a stepmother for my child, and the topic said that it is not good for her to take care of the child. Let's discuss what is good for children and what is not good for children.

1. If the child doesn't like to eat and only eats snacks, the stepmother tells the child to eat less snacks, eat more vegetables and fruits, and eat three meals a day regularly and quantitatively, but the child feels that the stepmother won't let him eat snacks, so the stepmother is not good.

Reasonable parents know that stepmother is right not to let children eat snacks. It's time for the child to grow up. Only by ensuring adequate nutrition and reasonable collocation can children grow up healthily.

The stepmother asked the children to do their homework first when they went home, and then they could go out to play after finishing their homework. The child thinks that the stepmother won't let him play, so the stepmother is not good.

Reasonable parents all know that stepmother is right. Good habits can benefit people's lives. When children are young, it is time to form good habits. Children have poor self-control. Only under the supervision of parents can children form good habits.

Children don't wash their hands, but eat when they pick up things. The stepmother told the children to wash their hands before eating. The child feels that the stepmother is not good to herself and won't let her eat.

All reasonable parents know that stepmother is right. If she doesn't wash her hands when eating, she may have a stomachache.

Children's cognitive level is still not perfect, and they can't tell what is right and wrong. Children just do things according to their own subjective wishes and judgments, which is sometimes incorrect.

For example, children are partial to food, don't like carrots, don't like vegetables, only like eating big fish and meat, and children don't like drinking water, only like drinking drinks. And the child's habit of partial eclipse is wrong; Therefore, you can't hear children say that stepmother is not good and think that stepmother is really bad. You must know the ins and outs of the matter before you judge whether your stepmother is good or not.

Stepmother and children are not related by blood, have no experience of living together, and have no feelings for children. Stepmothers' feelings for their children also need a training stage. If the stepmother is really bad for the child, communicate with her patiently, let the child slowly close the distance with the stepmother and get along well with the child.

If the stepmother doesn't get along well with the children, the man can also discuss with his ex-wife and let the children live with his ex-wife for a few days every month and stay at home for a few days; Or let the children live with their mothers, and men take time out to accompany their children every week.

In my opinion, what is good for children is good, and what is bad for children is bad.

Whether it is good or bad for children should not be based on children's one-sided words, but should be carefully considered before making a decision.

Stepmothers criticize children, and as long as they are right, they must resolutely support them; If the child does something wrong, criticize it and urge the child to correct it with the stepmother.

There is a saying that is good. Teach your son to his face and his wife behind his back? When you see a child making a mistake, you should immediately criticize education. Only in this way can you let your child know what not to do, make fewer mistakes, make no mistakes, make continuous progress and be a nearly perfect person.