Q: My husband is a policeman. He is on duty. He just texted that he was arresting people outside and told his wife that you should go to bed early! Because we talk on the phone every night, I am today

Q: My husband is a policeman. He is on duty. He just texted that he was arresting people outside and told his wife that you should go to bed early! Because we talk on the phone every night, I am today. This psychological mechanism is quite complicated. Let me talk about the process.

Your husband called and said, wife, you go to bed early, and I'll catch the bad guys outside.

You were worried, but you didn't show it because you were afraid that your worry would increase your husband's burden, but later you felt that your husband didn't find your worry and couldn't release your worried mood, so you were angry about life and death, and then you found yourself angry about it, so you didn't think you should be angry. Being angry means that you don't understand your husband, and you suspect that you don't understand him. Then you start to recall the age barrier. Compared with your age, you must have faced some unresolved problems or emotions.

In fact, all you have to do is reply like this: I am worried about you because I don't want to lose my husband.

Of course, you can also reply like this: I won't sleep until you come back tonight.