My boyfriend never takes the initiative and always waits for me to find him. Do you want to break up like this?

In Bian Xiao's view, there are always positive similarities between men and women. If only one party is active, then such love is really tired or early. However, if we are just together, maybe boys have different ideas, and we still need to find time to talk to each other. You can find the same one as your boyfriend first, but if you still don't take the initiative, I suggest splitting up. Boyfriends don't take the initiative, either they are in love for the first time, or they are very insecure and need to manage their feelings. When two people are together, one should take the initiative. If they don't take the initiative, or wait for others to take the initiative, it's not far from breaking up. Maybe my analysis is not very accurate, so I'll tell you a few things about the man who said so!

The first type is suffering from loss. He may want to send you a message, but he doesn't know what to say. He is worried about various factors, such as you have no time at work, you are in a bad mood, you can't find a topic, you don't know how to talk, and so on. At this time, girls need to contact each other actively, but not too often. When he gets used to it, he will naturally take the initiative to chat with you.

The second type is cold, which is the cutest, that is to say, it doesn't matter if you don't send a message, but if you really don't look for him, he will be very frustrated and will be dissatisfied for a long time, thinking that you don't care about him. Therefore, this kind of person had better be persuasive and bother him more. Say a few sweet words at the end of each time, praise him more, see if he will say so again, and let him do more. Just kids. You have to coax them.

The third is narrow-minded. The other person may guess whether you have a new lover, so don't tell him anything. If you really encounter such a thing, you can only find a way to prove it yourself. We must communicate well afterwards. Don't think this is a trivial matter, sometimes it is because this kind of thing accumulates slowly and eventually leads to breaking up. But falling in love with this kind of person will be a little tired, but this kind of thing is like drinking water, so I won't judge it.

Finally, the fourth high-energy early warning control is to wait for you to contact him actively and create an effect that you need him and you care about him in love. This is the most terrible, because such people are either love rat or PUA. They kill people in society, but this is not common. Just looking around. The most important thing is to know whether the other person is playing hard to get, is really nice to you or just wants to have fun. This thing is not a type at all, you have to distinguish it yourself. If there is, let's leave early!

These are Bian Xiao's personal thoughts, for reference only. If there is any problem between boyfriend and girlfriend, we must communicate and solve it in time, otherwise something will happen!