What do you think about the phenomenon of mass sending New Year greetings messages on WeChat?

The Chinese New Year is a good time for family and friends to gather together. They usually have no contact, are not in contact, are close, are distant, are familiar, are unfamiliar. The New Year is like a rope, and they can’t help but get closer to each other. It’s okay to meet, greet, and reminisce about the past. Chatting, the atmosphere of the New Year is a vast world and a free time. Everyone has no pressure and naturally chats happily. But for those who cannot meet in person, they can only achieve the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities, such as calling New Year greetings and online video Mobile phone text messages and the emerging WeChat calls, videos, etc. are undoubtedly time-consuming, not economical and not fast enough. Unless you are particularly close, you can try it and it is impossible to spread it to all relatives and friends. SMS is a popular form of communication that is fast and convenient and has been popular for more than ten years. Today, it still occupies the number one channel for Spring Festival greetings, but the SMS operator has changed.

In such a grand moment as the Chinese New Year, everyone is eager to receive blessing text messages. The more you receive, the more it shows your strong personality and charm. Having more friends and traveling widely is a foaming agent for self-expansion. But in the face of so many messages received, In the message, you find that different friends have sent the same blessing message. Some of them are so reckless that they don't even have time to change the signature before forwarding it. This is even more shocking. Do you still feel heavy? Of course not. You will regretfully find out that you are not important. You will see through your friend's carelessness. Tap a button on a short message. This message sent to you will be sent to hundreds of people at the same time. Such a convenient operation will destroy your friend's relationship with you. The honest and reliable good image in his mind turns out that you are just a series of cold numbers in his New Year's greetings. What he sends to you is not a blessing but a radio wave to test the link. At this time, people often express doubts about the meaning of sending text messages and lose confidence in their sincerity.

The New Year's celebrations run through New Year's Eve. Most people who have gone through hardships and travel back home will coincide with the New Year's Eve. The only good time to reunite with their families may be New Year's Eve and the first two days of the Lunar New Year. The other days require frequent outings. Visiting relatives and friends is as busy as catching up, so the New Year’s Eve feast requires you to calm down and concentrate on spending time with your parents and family. However, this is also the time when blessing text messages burst out. No one can block the interference because you can’t refuse rudely. You can only accept the good wishes of others. Receiving sincere blessings will definitely be the icing on the cake. If the screen of group text messages fills up the memory of your mobile phone like a plague, your heart will not be so beautiful. Will you be depressed? Would you feel sick? These group text messages drown the real and meaningful greetings in the torrent, which may cause you to miss the most important blessing messages in your life. It is possible that the person in your heart has not been there for a long time after sending you the blessings of love. Any unhappiness during the Spring Festival will cast a shadow on the New Year's celebrations and leave a shadow in the heart. A bad start will always leave a knot that cannot be untied.

The maintenance of relationships lies in the management and dedication of both parties. Family affection and friendship are two different emotions. We often treat them separately and use different attitudes and methods to maintain the sincerity and longevity of the relationship. However, the greetings during the New Year bring the two emotions together and merge them into one. During the Spring Festival, relatives and friends cannot tell them apart, and they have no intention of distinguishing them so clearly. Anyway, they are all celebrating the New Year, so they want to be happy and auspicious, regardless of family affection or friendship. They can all agree on the same rules and just lump them together. The bad thing about group text messages is the mentality behind those emotionless words. The compilation of blessing messages is not the true meaning of the text sent by the group sender, and may not be what the sender agrees with. Maybe many senders simply send it out without understanding all the messages. The meaning itself is not important. What the sender cares about is the sending itself, giving Take a thought, see if I haven't forgotten you! Even the same group text message is sent to everyone in the address book. How many of the names that can be saved in the address book are real friends? Not necessarily all of them may be acquaintances or work partners who have never met. People cannot speak on the same terms as relatives and friends, but there is no such choice when sending messages. Family affection and friendship have lost their sense of reality

Finally, let me mention the meaning of blessing! The maintenance of relationships between relatives and friends does not lie in the past few days of the New Year. The key is the daily accumulation, which is a continuous process. The significance of blessings lies in communication. Taking the Spring Festival as an opportunity, everyone can understand each other's current situation so that they will not gradually become strangers.

Even if you don’t send any blessing messages during the New Year, I’m afraid no relatives or friends will come to you to question you or ask why. Therefore, it’s better to send New Year blessings infrequently than inundation. Don’t feel that Spring Festival blessings must be sent at this time. This is the time that can best reflect your feelings. Think in the sincerity direction. However, you have ignored the evil nature of group text messages, or you can honestly make up your own unique message to make the other party feel that you are sincere. If you cannot do this and insist on using group text messages to make up for it, I am afraid that the recipients will not be very good. Too many impressions, or turning a blind eye to your proactive overtures. Feeling disgusted with the method of group messaging. Eventually, we no longer have the urge to continue communicating. We are often at a loss when it comes to group messaging. You clearly know the way and source of sending the message, but you can’t. The results of replying one by one are either ignored or forwarded to another ready-made message to cope with the back-and-forth. In addition to increasing the impressive traffic for the operator, the New Year blessing short messages flying all over the sky are meaningless.

I am disgusted with group text messages, but I am not disgusted with New Year messages. Calling to wish you a happy New Year is the best way to say New Year greetings. However, it is too late and I can’t afford to think about it. I will choose the next message, but I will edit the messages one by one. The content should be as different as possible. After all, the recipients are all kinds of relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and comrades-in-arms. Even if it is slower, how can it last for a year?