What kind of person will the overbearing president like?

First, the overbearing president falls in love with you, and the story looks very romantic.

At one time, the story of "overbearing president" falling in love with innocent girl always appeared repeatedly in various forms for a long time.

In the hearts of many girls, they all admire such a role: he is handsome, arrogant and cold, in a high position, rich and powerful, and has the ability to call the shots! At his side, almost all the girls fell for him, but he turned his back on the women around him.

In the face of hordes of suitors, "overbearing president" is always so indifferent. It seems that he is born with a sense of superiority and has never really seen these women.

However, in fact, once the overbearing president loves, he loves deeply.

When it comes to love, they are not the eloquent characters. Even if you like someone in your heart, you are not good at expressing your love, just silently hiding it in your heart.

In many novels, a silly and sweet woman often stands beside the overbearing president. With her pure feelings and persistence, she gradually won the president's heart.

In the face of love, overbearing presidents often show their arrogance: even if they love her deeply, they will never say "I love you" directly to her. In the early days of love, he either didn't understand the feeling of love or resisted desperately in his heart.

He is very possessive and often gets jealous of trivial things. When the jealousy reaches a certain value, he will inadvertently beat the hostess on the wall, tightly wrap the woman in the corner with his body, and suddenly give her a strong and lingering kiss. ...

However, many women are fascinated by this expression of love, and they are trapped in the strong and deep love of the overbearing president.

In addition, if you have an overbearing CEO boyfriend, you will have a security bodyguard. Whenever there is an emergency, the boyfriend of the overbearing president will always appear at the first time to save you from the crisis. He will be nervous about you and hold you tightly in his hand. He is careful lest you melt like ice.

Second, the love pattern is enduring, but it is a manifestation of misogyny.

This kind of plot is common in countless novels, but I never thought that its phenomenon actually stems from an almost morbid social feature.

Ueno Chizuka once wrote a book called Misogyny, telling the story of such a social disease, called Misogyny, and telling the story of such a social phenomenon.

"Misogyny" originated from the patriarchal society, but in the long development, it left a deep-rooted concept in many people's hearts:

People who hold this view often think that men in this society must be dominant and have enough ability and power, while women are always men's accessories and need men's protection all the time.

This social situation stems from the prejudice against women in traditional culture. Over time, similar concepts have gradually taken root in people's hearts.

People take it for granted that men must be dominant, while women become men's accessories.

The overbearing president often has an advantage, and he has enough rights.

His favorite "silly and sweet" girlfriend just confirms this social phenomenon: he expects women to obey him unconditionally, stand by him silently, be attached to him and accept him unconditionally. However, to put it more bluntly: obedience belongs to him!

In marriage, silly and sweet women often become accessories of overbearing presidents, willing to obey him and accept everything silently.

Although this kind of love seems romantic, this kind of couple has never stood on an equal footing. In the love of the overbearing president, women always obey men. She must satisfy men's strong possessiveness, and men have never respected women's wishes to roll and kiss women. This may only be a kind of possession of their own property, not necessarily an equal exchange.

Emotions like this fascinate many women. It can be seen that misogyny is still common in life, and even many people take this kind of love for granted and never think about the problems.

Third, misogyny is a social disease, which makes men feel stressed and women feel oppressed.

Although, in romantic love stories, overbearing presidents and silly ladies often have a perfect ending.

However, this may not be the case in real life!

You should know: the story will always come to an abrupt end at the most wonderful moment, leaving readers with infinite reverie. However, real life is full of ups and downs, and everything that happens in reality is far more cruel than stories.

Cinderella finally married into a rich family in the envious eyes of everyone. However, life after marrying into a rich family may not be as calm as expected.

Marriage and love are two completely different stories, and a happy marriage needs to have the same values. As the passion fades, it takes a long time to have an equal relationship like a partner, which can make the marriage last longer.

However, there is a kind of love that is unequal from the beginning.

If the "overbearing president" really loves you, but he likes you just because he is "silly and sweet", then I'm sorry! After all, we can't stand on an equal footing.

In fact, no matter how passionate you are before marriage, with the growth of time together, passion will eventually become family. In real life, we will encounter all kinds of things and experience more unexpected tests.

Under the influence of misogyny, men often feel unprecedented pressure.

Under the pressure of this concept, they must be much better than women. If a man is on the weak side and incompetent outside, he will often abuse his wife in the form of domestic violence to show his authority.

If misogyny puts pressure on men, it is even more unfair to women:

Women who hold this view are often taught to cling to their men from an early age. Clever, obedient and sensible ...

But I finally lost myself. This kind of woman often can't put forward her own ideas at a critical moment, just waiting for others to help her solve all kinds of difficulties in front of her. She has always been a simple girl, but in this obedience, she gradually lost herself.

Even if, when she grows up, she wants to marry a man who is capable enough, good enough for her and can protect her.

However, you must know that no matter how powerful this man is, there will always be a weak side. Many times, you can share everything for him, instead of standing quietly beside him and wiping his tears silently, just like a silly day.

Moreover, if you don't have yourself for a long time, you can only be attached to a man. In the family, there is often no sense of security.

You say the overbearing president is infatuated?

Maybe he is really infatuated. He will really protect you and take care of you as always, just like before marriage.

However, there are many unpredictable things in life. Besides taking care of you, men also have many things of their own. Therefore, no matter how much men love you, women should have their own abilities and their own world.

Fourthly, Disney's princess gesture indicates the awakening and growth of women.

The society is changing, and the attitude of women is also developing. From the change of Disney Princess, we can feel the awakening of women's self-awareness:

At first, Disney cartoons were mostly based on characters like Snow White and Sleeping Beauty.

These princesses are all weak and humble. They are all waiting quietly, waiting for the prince to rescue them from their predicament.

Once, princes were heroes, always appearing at critical moments. Finally, with the efforts of the prince, they got married and lived a happy life.

With the changes of the times, princesses gradually began to awaken, and they began to fight for their dreams.

Mulan's Beauty and the Beast and The Little Mermaid appeared in 1980s and 1990s.

Instead of waiting quietly for the arrival of the prince, they will be more active in winning life. In the end, the beauty saved the beast with her own efforts, and their love was sublimated with the cooperation of their Qi Xin. Mulan, on the other hand, broke the traditional bondage, bravely embarked on the road of joining the army in order to save her family, and finally became a hero with hard work and got her own love.

Nowadays, many Disney princesses are no longer accompanied by princes, and they have a more independent life.

Aisha in Frozen is full of charm, but she is lonely, but she is a real queen. Although my sister Anna has a boyfriend Christopher, she saved her sister Aisha at the critical moment by her own skill and eventually became the queen of Arendal Kingdom.

In Legend of the Sea, the chief's daughter, Ocean Romance, braved the wind and waves alone and saved the fate of her people. I met the only male master and demigod Maui and embarked on a long journey. During the journey, the romance of the sea not only saved her people, but also saved the demigod Maui and made him regain his divine power.

Princess Disney is also growing up with constant awakening. When princesses stand together, no matter in temperament or spirit, you will find that the princesses attached to the prince are far less than the real queens in live high.

The same is true in real life: women should live their own lives and have a brighter life!

5. W: You need live high to have a shining life.

Women should not be men's accessories. She will live a more wonderful self in constant awakening!

If you live for men all your life, even if men are willing to give everything for you, you still can't have a real sense of security.

After all, life is changing every day, and unpredictable things are changing. In the unpredictable life, it is not others who can grasp their own life. Only he can really control his life.

So, what should we do?

We should really realize that we are the masters of our own destiny and don't entrust our destiny to anyone!

Maybe, we will be lucky to meet a man who can protect you. However, it must be remembered that women must have enough ability to support themselves. After all, no matter how capable a man is, it is always unwise for you to put all your eggs in one basket.

In everything, it is better to rely on others than on yourself. Women will become more attractive and calm in cultivation. Perhaps, people's life will undergo earth-shaking changes, but only by maintaining inner strength can we better grasp life.

We must strive to be the masters of our own lives and never put our fate on men.

It is better to rely on men than on yourself, so that life will be more practical.

As women, we should have enough confidence. In life, we can't ask too much of men, and we don't have to wait for men to realize all our dreams.

You have to understand: women can become as good as men. When you are more proactive in meeting all kinds of challenges in your life, your life will become more exciting!

In fact, women are not worse than men. We should work harder and strive for more possibilities for ourselves.

Don't be "silly and sweet" waiting for men's charity and care. Although this kind of life is sweet, it is always alive in men's eyes, and it is easy to lose yourself gradually.

As women, we might as well be more active masters of life, masters of our own destiny, and dare to change in our growth. I believe your life will become more wonderful and reliable!