Joke Collection Website - Public benefit messages - Female graduate students are paralyzed by their boyfriends for life. What happened?

Female graduate students are paralyzed by their boyfriends for life. What happened?

A mother's blood and tears complaint

I am a 50-year-old mother. My daughter was killed by Liu Rui in an extremely cruel way because she refused to get back together with her boyfriend Rui Liu. Although the hospital saved my daughter's life in the end, she had to spend the rest of her life in bed. In the six months after my daughter was killed, her father and I suffered unspeakable mental torture. We saved her from death three times. My child was brutally killed by Rui Liu, from a healthy and excellent graduate student. Causing severe brain injury, cerebral ischemia, cerebral hypoxia and asphyxia, cognitive impairment, language impairment, bilateral limb hemiplegia, and lifelong nursing dependence (note: this part writes the conclusion of judicial expertise). But also suffering from various sequelae. Such a serious consequence, no matter how much effort we make, can't save her healthy body and mind, which is tantamount to depriving us of hope and life.

My daughter Jingjing (nickname), whose real name is Yang Lu 1988, was born in Huangshi, Hubei. She studied at Wuhan University of Technology, where she was a graduate student, majoring in environment and engineering. She was 27 years old. This year 1 October 9 at noon 12 to1marry her.

Rui Liu, a native of Huangshi, Hubei Province, graduated from Wuhan Institute of Technology with a master's degree in environment and engineering on April 20.

Jingjing and Liu Rui are classmates of Daye No.1 Middle School. After the college entrance examination, they talked about love for eight years. In the past eight years, Rui Liu has not revealed to her family the fact that she is in love with Jingjing. On the other hand, she is also having an affair with other girls, so she has been on and off many times during the period. Jingjing is usually a careless girl, and she loves Rui Liu very much. Rui Liu is a boy with a deep mind who likes to care about things. In getting along, Jingjing tolerated Rui Liu everywhere, accommodating Rui Liu, and even Liu Rui had some similar "cheating" episodes in her feelings. Jingjing forgave him. Over time, she encouraged Liu Rui's increasingly macho temper. Their relationship, on and off, is Rui Liu in charge, Jingjing is the only one.

During 20 12 -20 14, Jingjing and Rui Liu decided to get married and buy a house. However, due to the down payment, loan repayment and Jingjing's name can not be added to the property name, no decision has been made. The reason is that the house was bought by my husband's family, and our family undertook the decoration and household appliances of the whole house, but Jingjing's name could not be added to the house. . . . . . Her father and I both think Jingjing is our only daughter. As long as we are happy after marriage and Rui Liu is kind to my daughter, we still reluctantly agreed to the man's proposal. However, the Liu family didn't know why they stopped buying houses until 2065438+February 2004 when they proposed to get married and buy a house. This time, the requirement is that the Liu family pay 30% down payment and the remaining 70% loan. The standard is still the same. Jingjing was asked to participate in the loan repayment, but the house was still owned by Rui Liu. Jingjing objected, and Rui Liu immediately said that if Jingjing didn't agree, she wouldn't get married. The two broke up in discord. About 20 minutes later, Rui Liu texted Jingjing that she wanted to break off the engagement and asked our family to return the bride price at that time. Without the knowledge of both parents, Rui Liu called me directly to ask for the dissolution of the engagement and the bride price. At that time, Jingjing's father and I attached great importance to this matter, so we immediately contacted Rui Liu's parents to ask for a meeting and told them simply on the phone.

20 15 65438+ 10 1 Our family held a small family meeting about Rui Liu's request for an annulment. Jingjing said that in eight years of love, she suffered a lot of emotional grievances because of her cowardice and accommodating Rui Liu. Liu Rui is very stingy and considerate, including her previous affair. But for the sake of the house, she thinks that Rui Liu has violated her emotional bottom line and disrespected me. Breaking up and breaking off an engagement is Rui Liu's position, so this time she insisted that she didn't want to get back together. We contacted Rui Liu's parents again and met to discuss the divorce.

Then we met Rui Liu's parents to discuss the dissolution of the engagement. At that time, Rui Liu's mother kept asking me, who put forward the question of breaking off an engagement? In fact, I understand Rui Liu's mother's intention, because according to the rules of Daye people, if the engagement is put forward by the man's family, the bride price will not be refunded. In fact, her father and I are both wondering why we still keep other people's money, not to mention that the two children are classmates, so we told Liu's parents that although the engagement was proposed by the man, the bride price was returned to them one by one. As a result, Rui Liu's father didn't accept it at all, insisting that the two children should hold a wedding. To tell the truth, how can a mother not be sad after listening to Jingjing's story about the grievances she and Rui Liu have suffered in the past eight years? I also feel sorry for my daughter, so I strengthened her idea of breaking off marriage. Her father and I also want to get rid of the relationship with Liu's family as soon as possible.

After Rui Liu put forward the idea of breaking off an engagement, I could see that Jingjing had lost a lot of weight, although the surface was fine. As a mother, I feel worse than anyone else. Not only has she never announced her love relationship with Jingjing to her family, but she also requires Jingjing to have a postgraduate diploma, otherwise the Liu family will not accept it. She can accept and love Liu's harsh demands, and it is conceivable how hurtful this love is.

Then the time came to 65438+10.9, and Jingjing and her cousin traveled to Thailand. Before that, Rui Liu found her twice and asked for a reunion, but Jingjing refused, and then Rui Liu deleted Jingjing's WeChat and QQ. Jingjing and her party left for Thailand on the 9th. It was a rainy night, but my own daughter's affairs have not been completely solved. Jingjing's menstruation (my sister) was diagnosed as colon cancer. Alas. . . . . .

As they were traveling abroad, Jingjing and her cousin got in touch with them as soon as they landed in June 65438+1October 65438+July, and told them about it, so Jingjing and her cousin decided to take a leave of absence for surgery on Monday June 19, and then take the high-speed train back to Huangshi.

Unfortunately, it happened on 19. Until today, it looks like death in retrospect. /kloc-on the morning of 0/9, Rui Liu contacted Jingjing to ask for a meeting, and asked Jingjing to help him fulfill an unfinished wish. Jingjing was invited to the appointment. From the time Jingjing promised to meet Rui Liu until noon 1, Jingjing's cousin could not contact Jingjing, and Rui Liu's mobile phone could not be contacted. She felt something was wrong, but Jingjing's cousin dialed Jingjing's father's phone, but the family couldn't get in touch, and no one answered the phone, so her father and I drove to Wuhan immediately. On the way, we also dialed Rui Liu's mother's phone to ask the other party to contact Rui Liu at home as soon as possible. The Liu family said that Rui Liu could not be reached. At our urging, his mother said: Rui Liu is waiting for his sister's reply (Rui Liu is not an only child, and she has another sister) and told him not to tell his father about it. At that time, because I was also worried about my daughter's safety, it sounded a bit strange but I didn't think much. When we couldn't contact Jingjing and Liu Rui, his mother called and asked us for Jingjing's ID number. After arriving at the school, after many twists and turns, we pried open the door of Rui Liu's rental house in the school through the leadership of the school, only to find that our daughter fell to the ground.

The room is not turned on. When I turned on the light, Jingjing's bag and some luggage were scattered on the bed. She has fallen to the ground near the window, with her head facing the window and her feet facing the door. Her mouth and nose are sealed with glue, and there are secretions in her mouth and nose. She has ligature marks on her neck, not to mention the rope that strangled her. The ground was covered with blood, and she was hit on the head with a blunt instrument. There is blood under her fingernails all over her hand. Looking at my healthy child like this, I'm going to jump downstairs. Jingjing's tutor grabbed me and we cried. Jingjing's father said at this time, finished, finished, Jingjing has not breathed. Because the four of us came from Huangshi to Wuhan, Jingjing's father quickly asked two other friends to give Jingjing cardiopulmonary resuscitation. One took off all the sealing glue and rope, and he sucked all the filth out of his daughter's mouth with his mouth. Jingjing's cousin came in and called Rui Liu's sister at the first sight and told his brother to kill Jingjing, but surprisingly, Rui Liu's answer was inconsistent with common sense. She replied: Rui Liu killed someone. Hearing this, cousin Jingjing angrily hung up the phone, called the police and called 120.

The crying of Jingjing and I soon alarmed the onlookers, and the school leaders also rushed over. The school doctor in the school infirmary also came with a first aid kit. It's about half an hour since Jingjing's father tried to save his daughter. I have been sitting on the ground outside the house crying, and I heard someone loudly say that he had a heartbeat. He just breathed a sigh of relief, followed by 120, 1 108.

After the doctor signs, Jingjing should be rescued immediately. After the rescue, Jingjing was diagnosed with three blunt head injuries. Immediately after her breathing was weak, she was put on a ventilator, and her head was immediately stitched up and her brain CT was done. At that time, the doctor said Jingjing had symptoms of epilepsy and asked our family if they had a history of epilepsy before. We told the doctor that she had no history of epilepsy, so it was suspected that brain cells died because of prolonged hypoxia and suffocation, including severe head trauma and vomit in her mouth. After a series of tests, she needs to enter the intensive care unit immediately for observation.

I spent the most dangerous 72 hours in the third hospital of Optics Valley, but I was in a coma. Transferred to tongji hospital on February 3rd. Professor was once again diagnosed as brain cell death caused by prolonged hypoxia and asphyxia, including severe head trauma, nerve injury, long-term convulsion of left limb and paralysis of right limb. Continue to transfer to the Department of Neurology, tongji hospital for further observation.

After more than ten days of intensive treatment, the attending doctor told us privately that Jingjing might spend her life in bed. Although she is awake, she is unconscious. Now, considering our economic situation, she suggested that we transfer to the treatment neurology department for further treatment. (Jingjing spent more than 10,000 yuan a day on average during her intensive care in tongji hospital. As an ordinary family, we thought of Jingjing's expensive treatment expenses and adopted the doctor's advice.

It's almost New Year's Eve when I was transferred to neurology. At this time, every family is celebrating the Spring Festival. Jingjing's father and I watched our daughter twitch and cry in the hospital bed. As a 50-year-old mother, I can't accept the fact that my daughter was killed, and I can't witness her suffering from illness in the hospital bed. Jingjing's left foot twitches every 40 seconds on average, and the toes of the left foot are all arched, and the whole foot is straight and the joints cannot be bent. The left elbow bends, the hand joints break inward, and the fingers are arched. Because the nerves are severely damaged, the language function is completely lost, and the pain caused by the body cannot be expressed in words or even shouted. Only by using distorted expressions to express the limit of her pain, Jingjing's father and I can only massage her in turn for 24 hours to alleviate her pain.

When the pain and suffering were not over yet, in mid-March, Jingjing was transferred to respiratory medicine for rescue because of long-term bed-ridden lung infection. At that time, the doctor issued a notice of critical illness to prepare our families psychologically.

Jingjing has been in the ICU of the Third Hospital of Optics Valley during her flight in Rui Liu, and has not yet passed the critical period. Under such circumstances, the Liu family did not appear in the hospital to cooperate with our family members to actively participate in Jingjing's treatment, and did not even take the initiative to take a penny of medical expenses. Every time the hospital urges us to have no money in our account, we will contact the Liu family, and they will only take 10 thousand and 20 thousand. This money makes me feel that we are begging. The daughter was disabled for life by her son, but they didn't even say sorry to us. They also sent all kinds of unfamiliar people to inquire about Jingjing's illness.

The Liu family not only has a bad attitude, but also is suspected of helping escape. In mid-March, Jingjing was infected with her lungs, so I contacted Rui Liu's parents to tell me about my daughter. The next day, Rui Liu's parents arrived in Tongji. After meeting Rui Liu's father, like a bully, he sat on the bench in front of the inpatient department in tongji hospital, crossing his legs, and the first thing he said was: I don't pay. If you want money, you should go to Rui Liu yourself. My son will surrender. Maximum sentence 10 year. Arrogance is simply unbearable. On the 9th of June 5438+10/kloc-0, Jingjing communicated with the Liu family when she lost contact, and the words of her mother and sister were confusing. It was not until we arrived in Wuhan that the school leaders opened the door of the rental house and found that Jingjing was killed and sent to the hospital for treatment that we found out that in fact, after killing Jingjing at the first time after the incident, we had told her sister (this article mentioned our previous phone calls with her mother and sister), and the Liu family deliberately concealed the truth and refused to tell us where Jingjing was, which led us to miss the best rescue time to find Jingjing.

Rui Liu fled immediately after killing Jingjing. At that time, the police of Zhuodaoquan Police Station in Hongshan District told our family that the case was serious and Rui Liu had been wanted on the Internet. About a week after the incident, on 25th, the public security organ informed us that the suspect Rui Liu was arrested and Rui Liu was arrested in Beihai, Guangxi, which was not considered as surrender. We will submit materials to the procuratorate for intentional homicide.

It was not until March that the Liu family got angry in tongji hospital and told us that his son had turned himself in, that we suddenly realized and contacted the public security organ again to verify the matter. As a result, the public security organ's reply was quite different from before: it said that the family members had participated in arresting the suspect and surrendered themselves! However, according to what my mother told us personally before, it was not what the public security organ said that she met in high-speed railway station on the morning of her arrest. It's a pity that we didn't record it at that time, and the public security organs said the same thing before, so we have no evidence and can only be heartbroken. In addition, the public security organ indicated that it would submit the crime of intentional homicide to the inspection organ, but the result of the matter was full of twists and turns. Originally, the public security organ submitted it to the inspection office for intentional injury, but it was finally inspected, so all kinds of charges were returned and resubmitted for intentional homicide. We went to the public security organs to question The Paper, and the answer was: The public security organs were afraid that Rui Liu would commit suicide after committing the crime, so they arrested him for intentional injury and hoped that he would surrender himself. (I don't know whether the arrest and the submission of materials to the procuratorate are related because of the vagueness of legal common sense. Is this reason valid? ) Is Rui Liu's mother lying or is the public security organ trying to hide it? Or is it because Jingjing's father and I are old and dizzy, so our hearing is impaired? Who can explain this fact to us?

It was not until the trial on August 28 that our family members once again endured heartache and knew exactly what kind of inhuman torture our daughter suffered on the day of the crime;

At that time, Rui Liu hit Jingjing's head with a hammer for the first time and saw her squatting on the ground with her hands on her head. Later, she put her hands around Jingjing's neck. After she fell into a coma, she hit her head several times with a hammer, and wrapped a skipping rope around Jingjing's neck to lift it hard, trying to lift it (due to Jingjing's height 172, weight 108 and coma, Rui Liu could not lift it by herself). Five consecutive injuries are fatal. Because of the serious injury and dying, Rui Liu was afraid of being discovered, and Jingjing was saved. Jingjing is locked in the room. The whole crime process is like an extremely calm killer. During these five hours, he didn't feel guilty about Jingjing, and he didn't try to make up for his crimes. He let her die.

However, the prosecutor in court was obviously partial to the defendant Rui Liu, and used several brain blanks to guide Rui Liu to answer. He thinks that Rui Liu's brain was blank when he killed Jingjing, and he attempted to kill intentionally, and he surrendered himself automatically after committing the crime. He suggested a benchmark sentence of ten years, and on this basis asked the court to make a fair judgment. The public prosecutor failed to fulfill the responsibility of exposing and proving the crime, and became the defendant's defender by dislocation. Under the guidance of the public prosecutor, the defendant's lawyer even made a defense that Rui Liu did not constitute the crime of intentional homicide, which is really intriguing.

When the judge asked how many minutes the whole crime lasted, Rui Liu said it must be four minutes.

When a person's brain is blank and he is not fully prepared, how can he kill a person in such a short time as 4 minutes, and the means are extremely cruel? Rui Liu was planning to kill Jingjing. If not, why did he say that he would help Jingjing complete an unfinished wish when he invited Jingjing? He didn't kill with passion, and he didn't kill with a blank mind. Every step of his life, even his escape route, was directed. From the school's surveillance video, only Rui Liu and Jingjing entered the rental house, but they couldn't find Rui Liu's surveillance after the murder. How can a murderer without layout and thinking, a first-time offender, kill so calmly and know the escape route? It only means that he already has an extremely cold and meticulous plan in his heart.

In court, Rui Liu has been quibbling, because he proposed to Jingjing, and it turns out that Jingjing's love only stimulated his impulse to kill, which is simply nonsense:

A few days after we discussed the divorce with the Liu family, Jingjing traveled abroad with her cousin and classmates on October 9, 65438, arrived in Han on the evening of June 7, and was killed on October 9, 65438. First of all, emotionally, Jingjing spent eight years on Rui Liu, accommodating and forbearing for eight years, and gave Rui Liu such deep love. How did she quickly start a new relationship in a short week? In addition, in terms of time, there is not enough time for Jingjing to get to know another boy again and accept a definite relationship within a few days, not to mention Rui Liu pestering Jingjing several times during this period. 18 10/0, Rui Liu returned to Wuhan from Huangshi at that time due to the marriage of Rui Liu's elder sister. After returning to school, he met his tutor. His tutor asked him about his relationship with Jingjing, and Rui Liu said that he had broken up with Jingjing, and he had put it down. Then, inNo. 19, Rui Liu said that her proposal to Jingjing was rejected, and Jingjing said that she had a new relationship to stimulate his impulse to kill. Why did she propose to Jingjing when she broke up with everyone in issue 18? Is this logical? The only explanation is that he proposed to Jingjing to cover up the crime of intentional homicide, which was all part of his premeditated plan. If the proposal succeeds, Jingjing will be spared, and if it fails, he will not try to get out alive.

In the middle of the trial, when the public prosecutor read out that Rui Liu should be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment 10 years according to the criminal law, Rui Liu's father left the court easily, which truly reflected his father's overbearing attitude in tongji hospital in March.

Finally, when the court closed, when the judge reminded Rui Liu if he had anything to add to the victim's family, Rui Liu kept silent. The judge reminded again that the victim's father was on your left, and Liu Rui didn't even look at it, so he said no. Visible Rui Liu have no remorse.

As the injured party, we are very grateful to the public prosecution agency for appearing in court to support the public prosecution, and we also believe that the judicial organ will hear the case fairly according to law. However, during the trial, we and our relatives and friends who attended the audit still had many questions:

1, the chief prosecutor summed up the case as attempted intentional homicide? Jingjing saved her life after being rescued, but because of her serious injury, she was signed as seriously injured and disabled for the first time, and needed all nursing and medical dependence for life. Rui Liu's crimes should be severely punished. When Jingjing was seriously injured and dying, Rui Liu didn't call the police and repent, which made Jingjing's death intention very clear. As a graduate student, he is indifferent to the law, and his indifference to other people's lives is outrageous. He locked him in a rental house, United his family to hide the truth, helped him escape and let Jingjing die. The "intention" of various signs is not an attempt according to law. The Liu family's cover-up behavior needs to bear legal responsibility.

2. The defendant fled to other provinces after committing the crime, and was chased and brought to justice through the Internet many days later. In the indictment, the established circumstances of the crime, that is, a series of homicides and consequences that can be severely punished, are lightly brushed aside, while the circumstances of surrender with unclear facts are easy to be identified. Obviously unfair, obviously smeared.

3. The crime of intentional homicide first considers death penalty, suspended death sentence and life imprisonment, which shall be under the jurisdiction of the intermediate people's court. Why is it tried in the grass-roots court? (On the same day, it was held in Hongshan District Court)

Today, there is no verdict in the first instance, but on the day of the trial on August 28, our family members and all relatives and friends who participated in the trial felt unfair and unfair treatment. Jingjing's father and I are both 50 years old. I watched Rui Liu take my Jingjing from an excellent graduate student who was about to graduate. She was disabled for life and was still suffering from various sequelae. Such a serious consequence, no matter how much effort we make, can't save her once healthy body and mind, which is tantamount to taking away the last glimmer of hope in her life as a parent.

We strongly urge the judicial organs and public security organs to further restore the facts, fairly and publicly sentence according to law, and give my daughter justice.