Why is texting not popular during the Chinese New Year now?

In Chinese custom, during the Spring Festival every year, relatives and friends will wish each other well and congratulate each other. But now, with the popularization of smart phones, this simple and sincere blessing has changed. More and more people have begun to use WeChat to send blessings in groups. It seems that all kinds of novel emoticons are superimposed, but it can be compared with the real Spring Festival. Compared with blessings and congratulations, there is less sincerity. Some netizens said: "The temperament of people born in the 2000s who never send group text messages and never take the initiative to send New Year greetings. Isn't it really worth learning from the old aunts and uncles born in the 1990s?" For the message recipients, this kind of group blessing on WeChat People are becoming more and more disliked. Why is this? First of all, group blessings sent on WeChat lack emotional communication. During the Spring Festival, there is an emotional element in blessing each other, and it is basically laughter. However, group blessings on WeChat lack this basic emotional element. They are just for the sake of group sending, without any emotion at all. The factors are all "indiscriminate" blessings. Even the people who send the blessings in groups don't know who the recipients of the blessings are, so they send them indiscriminately. According to Guo Jing’s Internet circle, many users have more than 2,000 WeChat friends, and some even have more than 5,000. It is obviously troublesome to send New Year greetings one by one, but sending them in groups is much simpler, so in order to " "I'm lazy", just send it to a group. However, this "simple and crude" method prevents the recipient of the message from feeling the true emotional blessing. The "indiscriminate" text blessing makes people unable to feel the warmth of the text, even if the specific title is changed. , but obviously, mass sending does not support this specific modification, and can only be sent "indiscriminately". Without emotion, words are cold, and WeChat itself is also cold. The insincerity of group blessings is also reflected in the fact that some blessing messages start with "send red envelopes". When you click on them, you find that they are not real red envelopes, but just text. Isn't it a bit false? Red envelopes don’t actually cost much, and are far more meaningful than mere words. Secondly, I receive too many group messages. Some users have few friends, and some have many friends. For users with many friends, sending blessings in groups is a disaster. It is very likely that they will wake up with dozens or even hundreds of unread messages, many of which are group blessings. If It’s just the first time you watch it, so it doesn’t matter, but if you watch it too much, you will definitely become more and more annoying. It’s better not to send blessings in groups without emotional factors. Some friends may be added because of work relationships, and no comments are added. I don’t know who sent this kind of blessing, so what’s the point? Everyone will suffer from information fatigue. It is easier to get information fatigue when there is information overload. The more information you receive, the easier it is to be annoying. Some people may think that we are just hypocritical, but from the perspective of the recipient of the message, blessing messages are certainly a good thing, but this kind of "undifferentiated" blessing does not feel a trace of sincerity in it. This kind of message Once there are too many, it will naturally become annoying. I think the sincere way of social networking is: 1. Individual titles, such as Mr. Yang and Ms. Li; 2. There is no need to be fancy, some people’s blessing messages basically take up the whole screen, and the various texts are smelly and long. , and there are various emoticons mixed in it, which looks cool, but sincerity is the most important, even if there are only a few words "Happy New Year"; 3. It conforms to the communication environment with the other party. For example, some are in business, some are teachers, some are peers, etc., and information should be sent according to different environments. When you have too many friends, sending group messages is worse than not sending them at all. When you really feel you respect someone and want to bless someone, you will naturally say what you want to say individually, rather than the exact same blessing